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Oga you are just over thinking it,This life all woman cannot like your face, it doesn't matter if you handsome or not accept this reality and watch things change, women are not truly moved by your physical features as we all believe ,all men face rejection once in a while and FYI most men on Nairaland know very little about women they are mostly incels hence they had behind the redpill to vent their frustration.

Here is your problem,you have being unlucky encountering rude and proud women in life (most Nigerian women are like that these days) you are beginning to accept the false belief that something is wrong with you and the law of attraction is making it manifest into your reality.

Me personally writing this have a hard face like that Burnaboy people believe am a cultist or smoke alot boys get scared of me at first meeting until they get to know my personality, but ladies love me that way I Bleep so many I don tire seff ,you know why? It's because I love myself and I am positive about life and guess what? life has being kind to me i get pretty girls my male friends are surprised how I pull such stunts,just change your belief and watch all these fly out of your life.

Mikel99:

Check my profile to see it

verminnel:
Are you overly excited around females ?

I just saw your profile picture and you are not a bad looking fellow.You can even be described as cute.
Your problem could be how you behave around ladies like the monicker above alluded to.You may be too loud,talkative,mouthy etc.
Start doing less of what i stated (if true).It will make you mysterious and intriguing.
Try it out for atleast 2weeks and see how it goes.

Exactly !!!

Miggs:






I just saw your profile picture and you are not a bad looking fellow.You can even be described as cute.
Your problem could be how your behave around ladies like the monicker above alluded to.You may be too loud,talkative,mouthy etc.
Start doing less of what i stated (if true).It will make you mysterious and intriguing.
Try it out for atleast 2weeks and see how it goes.

Simply cus ur my namesake , make I give u small OT.
OP The very key to getting women is your mentality. If u think women don't like u then u would always see it that way. Start thinking women like you and that would change everything.
Be confident as well , women don't bite , talk calmly , don't ask awkward questions.

Mikel99:
I don't know. Whenever I make eye with girls or want to ask something from them, they seem to frown or kind of give me facial impression that they don't want to talk to me. This happens to me a lot at school or with random strangers. I have even noticed that I am the only one who is treated that way. In fact, girls don't sit beside me for long but you will see same girls sitting with other guys for hours. I asked my friend if it's because I am ugly. They said nothing is wrong with me that I am good looking. Trust me, I am the most cheerful guy you will ever meet and it's not as if I frown everytime or something. I sometimes think that it's because I am good looking, but what baffles me is that girls act cheerfully around guys that I can say are more handsome than me. I dress well so I don't know what is wrong.
Is there anyone here going through the same situation as me?

you not looking bad sha, maybe you act timid and can'thold a conversation for long. Again try to dey use vaseline cux ur colour look dustywhite

Muslims don't deserve love especially yoruba Muslims.

Mikel99:
I don't know. Whenever I make eye with girls or want to ask something from them, they seem to frown or kind of give me facial impression that they don't want to talk to me. This happens to me a lot at school or with random strangers. I have even noticed that I am the only one who is treated that way. In fact, girls don't sit beside me for long but you will see same girls sitting with other guys for hours. I asked my friend if it's because I am ugly. They said nothing is wrong with me that I am good looking. Trust me, I am the most cheerful guy you will ever meet and it's not as if I frown everytime or something. I sometimes think that it's because I am good looking, but what baffles me is that girls act cheerfully around guys that I can say are more handsome than me. I dress well so I don't know what is wrong.
Is there anyone here going through the same situation as me?

Could you please promise me never to think this way again? I saw your pic and YOU ARE CUTE!!! So what even if you’re ugly?

You need to know yourself. How DARE you seek acceptance from a mere creation when the creator has already accepted you?

What are women? Its not your fault because social media has overhyped them. They are nothing and most will even add problems to you. You were not created to be liked by women.

Let me tell you, women’s attention is even very fickle. Today they like you, tommorow they dont or they only like you when it benefits them. Is this the kind of beings you want to seek acceptance from?

Sometimes i even deliberately make my face ugly to repel everyone.

Stop abusing and hypnotizing yourself via negative self talk. Your negative thoughts are creating a loop and its manifesting in your reality. Same way positive talk can also manifest.

Cheer up and chase what really matters which is success and spirituality. Chase success not for women but for your own comfort.