NewStats: 3,261,261 , 8,173,563 topics. Date: Wednesday, 28 May 2025 at 05:34 PM 6d4g2p

Mrexcell:



So why are u calling me mr lucifer instead of putting the whole blame on the govt and gullible nigerians who don't have the will power and unity to confront the corrupt govt like the way youths of other sane countries have been doing?

no offence!

Kai. Dis wan pain me.

Sunnyrado:


Good Evening, how was your day, I am a 45 years Old man not married and no kids too, this Year started Bad just yesterday I was sacked from work, and alot of negative thoughts has been through my mind, I was working as a security personnel but, Long story short I was giving letter of termination yesterday I just think I should end at all.

Ah, please, hang in there. If you are a Christian or Muslim, you could try seeking help whether financial or any kind, from your religious leaders. Family should not be far from you too. I hope God comes through for you.

I was there (the pressure and anxiety, not suicidal thoughts o ), and I wasn't even up to thirty. I couldn't think straight for a long time.

May God have mercy on his soul. His family killed him.

How could they expect someone that had barely recovered from self poisoning to go and start hunting for a wife? Someone whose psyche had probably not returned fully and probably didn't have anything going for him.

See his hands and how emaciated he must've been. I feel pity for him sha.

This shows those bad-mouth people that late marriage happens to all, not just ladies. And that it is not every man that has the advantage of time, because you will hear many if the kids here say that a man in his seventies can still see a woman to marry and even impregnate her.

Ndi onu ojoo

May he rest in peace. God have mercy on his soul.

Loveenthed:


This one Sense don Kpai😂

I pray u never marry in your life. Your sense is gone for life o in jesus name

Godwin4444:
so tinubu that took over less than 2 years stopped a 46 years old man from getting married?

What happened between d age of 25- 44?

No wonder the Bible said wise man left d east

Another false pastor spotted

The Bible said, Wise men came from the East, not that they left the East and there are no wise men anymore.

Una sabi English? Abi you too like lie lie

EyeCumInPiece:

The Great Tinubulation has claimed yet another life.

Godwin4444:
so tinubu that took over less than 2 years stopped a 46 years old man from getting married?

What happened between d age of 25- 44?

No wonder the Bible said wise man left d east

This is clearly not as at result of the pressure from the family to get married because he had moved away from them after surviving the first two attempts.
This was clearly about financial struggle as his rent expired and was given ultimatum to pack out since he couldn't renew his rent. That finally tipped him off. This guy was suicidal, he then moved away from the people who could monitor and observe him, it was just a matter of time.
As for blaming Tinubu, he had been having his financial problem before Tinubu came on board and worsened it for almost everyone.

Lovelydaisies:
I was there (the pressure and anxiety, not suicidal thoughts o ), and I wasn't even up to thirty. I couldn't think straight for a long time.

May God have mercy on his soul. His family killed him.

How could they expect someone that had barely recovered from self poisoning to go and start hunting for a wife? Someone whose psyche had probably not returned fully and probably didn't have anything going for him.

See his hands and how emaciated he must've been. I feel pity for him sha.

This shows those bad-mouth people that late marriage happens to all, not just ladies. And that it is not every man that has the advantage of time, because you will hear many if the kids here say that a man in his seventies can still see a woman to marry and even impregnate her.

Ndi onu ojoo

May he rest in peace. God have mercy on his soul.

Forget the title or the topic, read the news between the lines. His death has nothing to do with the family or the pressure to get married. He successfully moved away from the family, who knows if he was even answering phone calls from his family?
He killed himself because he couldn't meet up financially and no one to assist him financially. The inability to pay house rent finally broke him. May his soul rest in peace

pocohantas:
Probably a compound issue. No money and no partner to go through life with.

He should have known people must talk.
You marry, they start checking your womb.
You born one, they tell you to give him/her a sibling. You born girls, they say your family name go end. You born boys, they say no daughter to care for you in old age.

Life na per head. As our fingers are unequal, so are our paths also different.

Stand strong and give it time.

May his soul rest in peace.

You got it. No money, nobody to assist him, no one to talk to. I don't even think he had any friend. His issue was far from marriage pressure alone

Loveenthed:




At last, I don see my Twin brother

omo time no dey... I have always been like that since I was a teenager.

Zico5:

You are all kids. So the way he died without any successor is the best. I wonder the kind of home some of u cake from

See this guy. Who successor help? All those ideologies na trash, useless and nothing.

purrgold:
Low self esteem

Which kain marriage pressure go make you take your own Life?

His village people called him with foreign line

Foreign line nor be small thing.. 😂

At 46 you should at least know what you want in life even if you can't get it, the worst is to allow family to pressure you. As for his family, hope they are happy, they should have simply gotten a wife and sent to him as is done in the old ways when decent women were not scarce.

maasoap:



This is clearly not as at result of the pressure from the family to get married because he had moved away from them after surviving the first two attempts.
This was clearly about financial struggle as his rent expired and was given ultimatum to pack out since he couldn't renew his rent. That finally tipped him off. This guy was suicidal, he then moved away from the people who could monitor and observe him, it was just a matter of time.
As for blaming Tinubu, he had been having his financial problem before Tinubu came on board and worsened it for almost everyone.

But he is a bolt driver, he definitely was not jobless.

nwirinedu:


But he is a bolt driver, he definitely was not jobless.

Yep. But he wasn't married, no attachment, no additional mouth to feed. Yet, he was unable to renew a rent for a single room. Was he actually making money from his driving job?

People are ing through alot already don't add yours

Gbadugbakun:
This is what so many young men are going through out there. No job, no wife, no kids, no home of their own. The government isn't even making life easy for the people. It's just from one suffering to another.

Why should a man get married?
Men say they have nothing to benefit from getting married

Godwin4444:
so tinubu that took over less than 2 years stopped a 46 years old man from getting married?

What happened between d age of 25- 44?

No wonder the Bible said wise man left d east

He was busy bragging that men don't need marriage between 25-44 years

Hmmm this country pressure you in every aspect of life, you no fine they pressure, you fine they pressure you, you no get money they pressure you, you no get money they pressure you, you are not married they pressure you, you are married they pressure you. You are employed they pressure you, you are jobless they pressure you.

Just don't allow anybody pressure in this life.

pocohantas:


Still continue believing. If the deceased had random women on the internet to compare himself with, I bet he would still be alive. It is working for you. Just tell yourself, Poco and Ishi are single and miserable - I have time. 🫂

Whatever makes them sleep at night. Someone who is happy with their life will not go around proclaiming their happiness and throwing words at strangers. What you see that imbecilê doing is he is projecting his misery unto people who do not give a fvck about his existence. He is a ripe pimple on the ass of humanity.

Shey you see me answer them? Ever since that JobandVacancies idiot was exposed, I gave up. You should see some of these trolls offline. The idols of their father's are dealing with them

Mschewwww!
You kpai yourself because you have no wife and kid, what the do you want those who are married and facing hard economic times to do?


This guy would have kpaied himself if he were married with kids and couldn't care for them, Na God save any woman from early widowhood and kids from his actions of being suicidal.

pocohantas:




You are older than the deceased, a man well into his 40s and somehow you believe we are both older than you?

I always knew the bile ÿou and your kind display is from a place of emptiness. Continue believing. Hopefully it gives you the needed succour to hang in there. 🤍

Emptiness, hopelessness and total misery

Foolish man. a family member must have put an X on him

only a mad man will kill himself like that

Rip 🪦 to the suffered man

Ishilove:

Whatever makes them sleep at night. Someone who is happy with their life will not go around proclaiming their happiness and throwing words at strangers. What you see that imbecilê doing is he is projecting his misery unto people who do not give a fvck about his existence. He is a ripe pimple on the ass of humanity.

Shey you see me answer them? Ever since that JobandVacancies idiot was exposed, I gave up. You should see some of these trolls offline. The idols of their father's are dealing with them

As in. You see a topic of a dead man and two random online s you can't pick out of a crowd came to your mind. Somehow you know them enough to know they are as miserable as the deceased. That is not something a sane or fulfilled individual would do. Nothing surprising though. I always knew their projections was to ease their travails.

Godwin4444:
so tinubu that took over less than 2 years stopped a 46 years old man from getting married?

What happened between d age of 25- 44?

No wonder the Bible said wise man left d east

What's this relationship btw west and suicide. AWOL same ting and others I won't mention

lordm:
This is sad, I feel for him. You won't know how depression can be until you have encountered it.
For the rest of us here. Keep hope alive. Also try to check on your friends and family once in a while. People are going through a lot

On point,Dear.
Mhmm depression is a real killer

So His Mum and relatives pressuring him to get married prefers Him dead than being alive unmarried? He attempted Suicide twice before this and yet his mum couldn't still let him be?

It's high time African learnt every one will not marry before they leave this Earth and even him when he was nearing his late 30's he should have impregnated a woman or better still adopt a kid that would have fulfilled him after all kids are the fruits of marriage too.

And shouldn't his mother have known his case may also be spiritual and should have prayed and fasted for deliverance for him?

PopQueenAgency:


Correct. Na who pressure epp? Ishil..ove old Se..un sef. Person wey write waec when dem dey call am west africa agency exam council. Dat wan na pikin?

Lol you are one funny person.

Sincerely, I wasn't even out to mock them or something like the way you portrayed them in your initial post. I believe it's not a sin and doesn't concern anyone how people wants to live their lives.

BTW, I thought when people start to get older and get to some certain Age, A lot of Things do change positively ranging from Atitude, Emotional Intelligence et all. But I just realized, Unfortunately not for everyone.

Chief, My Advice for you will be to please "Keep Off" these set of People entirely. I can't even the last time I "Cursed/Got Angry, Talking Manarlessly" with anyone both online/offline. I it my mistake was bringing these people into the conversation.

My Life have been filled with Positivity and Greatness in recent times. These days, I always do everything to avoid Negative Energies.

Please take my Advice serious. Best of luck always. Ire Ooooo.

This is what can happen when Nigerian parents pressure their kids into marriage. It’s not your auntie Celyn’s marriage or your mum’s. You have to be ready, and the timescale isn’t to be rushed. If you marry, it should be because that’s what you want and you think you’re ready to seal the commitment, not because your parents and certain aunties just want you to get married.

charlypoker:
Foolish man. a family member must have put an X on him

only a mad man will kill himself like that

Or a man under immense pressure.