NewStats: 3,261,948 , 8,175,631 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 08:23 AM 6m5c3e

Relationships are for companionship, not sex.

Hmmmm
Na who chop dey look for sex

These same guys will be groaning about a woman's body counts yet they expect her to open her legs to every man that indicates interest in her. Very unstable sets of people

No sex means, I want you to be my mugu. You're not good enough to have sex with, but I will have it with others

Na who get money dey waste time on dating
Bleep olosho and leave the rest

Just 5mins of enjoyment from the man if e nor use Enhancers. Abeg sex is underrated joor. Though as a married man, my wife dey satisfy me so I nor need to comment much on this Mumu talk this morning. Work mode activated. Lolzzzzz

The both partners should feel equally valued and fulfilled in the relationship. If one partner sets boundaries, like saying no to sex, there should still be mutual effort to maintain the emotional, intellectual, and spiritual connection.

Love isn’t transactional, but it thrives on give-and-take. If she offers genuine affection, , and respect, the relationship remains balanced. However, if either partner feels they’re giving more than they’re receiving, it’s a sign to communicate openly and reassess compatibility. Balance ensures both partners feel secure and valued, regardless of physical boundaries.

chipet67:

Quite shameful for you as a lady

Explain.

Dshocker:
I have no problem with that, as far as the girl in question is not getting it from out.

How will you know if she is?

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

On point

The lady might have said a “yes” to sex in prior relationships to dozens or more men who promised her marriage but thereafter got dumped after numerous sexcapades ending the relationships.
Now that she has gotten wiser she has now vowed no sex in any relationship.
That she said a No doesn’t define her a virgin it’s just a way of saying she is tired of being another man’s fucktoy.
Na the guy go lose las las. Because what has been a done and ravished can’t be undone and unravished.

ehikwe22:
No sex means, I want you to be my mugu. You're not good enough to have sex with, but I will have it with others

You are very correct.

Me i don't even care about sex, na breast I wan press

Sex sex sex.

Nigerian youths. No wonder the leaders don see una finish

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

Your next question should be: I hope you are a virgin too? Because you can't finish sharing the "abun nan" (in Hausa language) and when it's my turn you won't give me to calm down while splashing money on you. Equation no balance na.

Ladies have more than sex to give in a relationship.
If the man himself is focus and goal oriented and the lady is equipped upstairs.
Encouragement, future plan, even to the extent of giving you capital or contributing to your capital to start a viable business that can turn your career more better and realistic.

Believe me, ladies have more to give in relationship order than s*x always.

The question is; why men want to have relationship? For S*X purpose only?

Heffalump:


Your next question should be: I hope you are a virgin too?

. Oh I forgot bro . That ought to be the first question...Very very necessary 🤔

Black man all they think about is s*x, s*x and s*x, no innovation, nothing.

LMAO!

See the nonsense nairalanders are discussing today na.

JASONjnr:
Absolutely nothing.....

You should ask yourself what benefits a woman is to man without s*x?

Never give in to this manipulation.

The moment a woman brings this topic up, I will just look elsewhere....

A girl who was to visit me told me that we won't be having s*x and no taking baths together or attempting to touch...
I asked her if she was a virgin and she said no., I told her I wasn't interested in to continue from the talking stage anymore.

You made the right choice. Why will a non virgin claim there will be no sex in a relationship

I have dated a girl who told me no sex in the relationship. Yet she sucked my divk everyday and always gave me a good handjob. We dated for 2 years and I swear I was very fine with the arrangement

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

You could have a gf that possess all these qualities and both of you would still be having sex.
And secondly, the topic and its content wasn't talking about "sex addict, senseless and irresponsible banny". You just went off road

How many women can cope in a sexless relationship?

The 'NO SEX THING' will ruin your relationship after you guys have settled down.

Didn't know my wife until after marriage

Sonnobax15:

Relationship ain't all about sexxxx man....

Personally I would choose a decent, responsible and well-mannered banny over a lose,sexxxx addict, senseless and an irresponsible banny who would wanna murder my future with different sexxxx styles....

But then again, telling me we won't be sampling each other during our time of courtship, will certainly push me to ask one simple question --"Hope I won't be spending money too?"

"Sex is the glue that holds relationships together." - Rational Male

I ed in my first year in university I met this young damsel I was so into her and she told me that no sex relationship she wants me mumu agreed . I never knew she has more than 3 guys in the as her boyfriend. I dey form love and other guys dey harvest on a steady from her. Her roommate na cast the matter give me. My head bust

I no be gentle man atall

No sex, nd my own money too will stay my pocket

Dshocker:
I have no problem with that, as far as the girl in question is not getting it from out.

How would you know? No sex before marriage is also one of the ways men and women enter one-chance marriage. They would later find out in the marriage that one partner has sexual problem which they were actually hiding during courtship but it would be too late

Only if she is a virgin ..then she can make such demands