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Hello Daejumong! Can I use S£x toys as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with ion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!

That's indirect form of cheating

Yes she can use Exhaust pipe.

Don't start what you cannot finish, because of the side effects.
Another option is for you to remarry if you can't wait to avoid coming online to cry in the future, because not all open doors are successful.

Tell him to come back because the marriage is about to be destroyed.

Listen to his reasons after saying the above and know whether to call it off.

Does he not feel thesame as you over there??

3years no be play ooo

Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use S£x toys as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with ion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!

After reading your story. May your case be like the proverbial "dog that returned to his vomit."

May we not fall into temptation. Omo, you can't use sex toil or any related toys. You beta tell ur husband the koko.

Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use S£x toys as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with ion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!

I think any progressive person will understand that we have evolved and are exposed to more sensual stimuli than previous generations.
It’s all in the heart - let me elaborate . When men watch porn they are not having sex with the wife or gf or side chick but with that lady which fulfills a lustful desire. Either a MilF or BBW or onion booty or PAWG or whatever kind of person you desire.
With a Love Machine , to me as long as your object of fantasy is your husband then you have nothing to be guilty about .
That said, it would be nice to have the discussion about how you are feeling with your husband, some men are able to be present on the phone and engage in phone intimacy to assist the lady climax. ( I personally have no clue what to say but I’ve read on the forum men who are expert )
Besides this, review what you are listening to and watching . 3 years is a long time and I respect your desire to be faithful.

Go ahead

I see a lot of people castigating the lady as if 3 years is a small time. Let anyone who has not committed any sin cast the first stone at her. It takes a special grace for married people to stay that long without cheating

Young lady, it's not easy but you and the husband have to iron this out. If the husband is understanding, he might not see anything wrong in it or can find other ways to get you to his side. Married couples need to stay together

Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use S£x toys as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with ion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!

I really truly understand your situation... So, many women are facing this dilemma where the husband is abroad and they're stucked here.

Have the discussion with your husband... I hope he is reasonable enough to see and understand your point.

If he allows you to use intimacy gadgets; you're justified to. But, i doubt he'll agree

Nothing wrong.

Do what your conscience permits, not what a third party says, if you need an opinion, consult your partner’s opinion because that’s the person you’re married to… if you can’t consult your partner, do what your conscience permit.

You don’t need approval from a third party before scattering your home

Don’t go back to your vomit

Sorry, I acknowledged what are ing through.
Permit me to tell you the truth.
It is unfortunate you both have prioritise money/job over your togetherness. This is not what God intended for us in marriage.
Discuss with your husband your feelings/ions and you both should do the needful (re-uniting back together).
I wish you both the best.

Daejumong:
Hello Daejumong! Can I use S£x toys as a Christian?

‘ I am a married 30 yr old born again Christian. My husband is working hard overseas and He has been away for 3 yrs. He sends money home regularly and he prays regularly with me!

The problem is I am burning with ion and I don’t want to cheat on him! He is still yet to get his papers and I am sure he is not cheating on me! He was the one that brought me to the Lord as I was a loose girl with a very high libido before I met Christ thru him.

Dae, do you think I should satisfy myself with adult toys so I don’t cheat on my hubby? I feel it’s a sin but I don’t want to go back to my vomit! Please advise me sir!’

Mature married Christians, advice needed for this sister!

Madam masturbation is wrong but in this case it is helpful to manage the problem to prevent it from getting worse. Your high and probably uncontrollable sexual desires are being driven by your past sexual life and the consequence of it and as a Christian you need to deal with it in the place of prayer. However, while you are dealing with your sexuality you must realize that adultery carries a far greater consequence than masturbation. So for now, to manage your sexual drive, pending when you are able to bring your sexual drives under control by prayer, you can resort to masturbation. Make sure you discuss this with your husband and get his approval before doing anything. Also, ask your husband to assist you in the place of prayer to manage your sexual desires and detach from the consequences of your past sex life.

Finally. Don't destroy yourself with guilt. For all has sinned and fallen short of the glory of GOD. We are all looking for mercy and I pray you find mercy because you seem to be a sincere woman struggling with sexual drive.

The health effects.


But not to say you should burn to charcoal with desire talk to your husband

efficiencie:


Madam masturbation is wrong but in this case it is helpful to manage the problem to prevent it from getting worse. Your high and probably uncontrollable sexual desires are being driven by your past sexual life and the consequence of it and as a Christian you need to deal with it in the place of prayer. However, while you are dealing with your sexuality you must realize that adultery carries a far greater consequence than masturbation. So for now, to manage your sexual drive, pending when you are able to bring your sexual drives under control by prayer, you can resort to masturbation. Make sure you discuss this with your husband and get his approval before doing anything. Also, ask your husband to assist you in the place of prayer to manage your sexual desires and detach from the consequences of your past sex life.

Finally. Don't destroy yourself with guilt. For all has sinned and fallen short of the glory of GOD. We are all looking for mercy and I pray you find mercy because you seem to be a sincere woman struggling with sexual drive.

What kind of advice is this?
Why are you playing both sides?
You started off as an angel then you finished as a devil's advocate!

"Let your yes be yes and your no be no"

As the regards the matter.
She should desist the urge to masturbate for masturbation is spiritually worse than adultery!

If a popular church approves his unmarried priests to use masturbation to relieve their sexxxual urge. Then women can also use sexx toy to masturbate to relieve of their urge.

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What kind of advice is this?
Why are you playing both sides?
You started off as an angel then you finished as a devil's advocate!

"Let your yes be yes and your no be no"

As the regards the matter.
She should desist the urge to masturbate for masturbation is spiritually worse than adultery!

Oh no, you are the devil in disguise here. If your life is spread open today you will easily be the worst sinner on this platform. It is people like you that Jesus did not die for. People who are righteous in their own eyes and know nothing of the struggles of another. In my post, I mentioned that it is not right to masturbate but it comes with a lesser consequence than adultery. If she is weak and vulnerable and cannot yet master her body do you think any of the trash you just said will help her? Keep your self-righteous bullshit to yourself and don't put unnecessary burdens on someone that is already burdened. If you cannot pray for her and your prayer cannot empower her to fend off her sexual urges occasioned by the kind of life she once lived then leave her alone. All sin is sin. That meat you stole from the pot when you were little is as damnable a sin as genocide but we all know that the sin of genocide comes with a greater consequence than the sin of stealing meat from the pot.