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Come let me show you why testing the goods is vital before final purchase is not such a bad idea.

If you're like me who is single and searching you must have come in with a lot of women. You may have to kiss a fair share of toads to find the charming princess.

I've come across girls with loads of past Trauma hanging around their sexual life and it has completely affected the way they perceive sexual activities.

Once you play reach the Kontus Arena her brains will automatically shut down her entire reproductive organs in response to past traumatic events.

She'll stay having uncontrollable muscle spasms. Especially if she experienced some sort of abuse or pain in her first sexual experience.

Another group of women who have this condition of sexual incompatibility are those whose first sexual experience was in within a cultural or religious setting.

Where they transition young girls into womanhood by manually piercing open the hymen of have a religious or family leader do so.

In some cases, the entire clit is snapped off.

In such settings they pay little attention to no attention to the females sexual pleasure when dis-virgining her.

Giving young girls the don't play with the clìt and don't even look at it rule.

This pain associated with sex can in some women today may be as a result of other things that are not an illness. Such as:

Maybe dryness.
Lack of sex, big sized dick or an underlying illness like an STD or pelvic wall issues. Or sometimes it's as simple as a yeast infection.

Where she feels the pains and how long she feels it is important in diagnosing the root cause as well as her sexual history or abuse..

Questions such as:

Is the pains on the vulva or entrance of her vagina or deep in her pelvic floor?

Do you experience pains and how long did it last? What positions did you notice it more?


If the pains continues after sex then it could be something more serious. or could be as a result of past abuse.

Most of cases of sexual abuse goes unreported in Nigeria because the victims don't really process the info and hence they don't how to handle it talk more of healing If left untreated...

...This will lead to cases like Vaginismus or Painful Sex a.k.a Dyspareunia in med . Or complete loss of interest in sex due to pains.

Is dyspareunia bad?
The medical term for painful intercourse. It is lasting or recurrent genital pain that occurs just before, during or after sex.[/i]

Talk with your healthcare professional if you're having painful intercourse. Treatments focus on the cause and can help stop or ease this common problem.


Vaginismus on the other hand is a condition in which involuntary muscle spasm interferes with vaginal intercourse or other penetration of the vagina.

You'll try to penetrate no way
You'll apply lubricant, coconut oil or Olive oil yet no way in. It'll almost seem like that Kontus entrance is blocked.

This often results in pain with attempts at sex.

Often it begins when vaginal intercourse is first attempted. Vaginismus may be considered an older term for pelvic floor dysfunction


For example, I have met 3 girls in my entire adult life who had a form of Vaginismus and it completely killed their sexual life and urges psychologically.

The only girl I dated who was able to grow past that did so because she wasn't abused on her first try at sex.

When you get taken advantage of sexually like Diddy and Kelz does ...

It's like when something shocking happens to you and you can't seem to snap out of it . Your brain didn't even have time to process it. ..

Girls who whose first sexual experience was unfortunately a rape usually have that issue.

Another likely cause of sexual incompatibility is allergy to latex.
You can be perfectly fine with latex condoms from the start but grow into the allergy.

Run check before final purchase because no be hand wey dem take the give monkey water dem take dey collect cup back.

Variou element

what a PILE OF GIBBERISH NONSENSE!!!
- muscle spasm due to sexual abuse?!?!?
- sexual incompatibility because of culture/religion?!?!

BTW its only in Nigeria that so many women are allergic to latex, as if their life depended on it... the majority say this nonsense because they foolishly want to have sex with no condom with a stranger. i have had my fair share of coochie from all over the world and all walks of life, and i have never heard women say this nonsense (unless in Nigeria)

Your post is very informative. You re a great sexologist. Because what you just dished is exactly what is happening in various people's sex life. No-sex-before-marriage is a damn thing to do in this era where a lot of sexological issues abound. Woe be tide a Casanova marry a woman that has frigidity or virginimus.

Test drive before buying

MrBrownJay1:
what a PILE OF GIBBERISH NONSENSE!!!
- muscle spasm due to sexual abuse?!?!?
- sexual incompatibility because of culture/religion?!?!

BTW its only in Nigeria that so many women are allergic to latex, as if their life depended on it... the majority say this nonsense because they foolishly want to have sex with no condom with a stranger. i have had my fair share of coochie from all over the world and all walks of life, and i have never heard women say this nonsense (unless in Nigeria)

On the contrary. It's all facts. I was just too lazy to post my sources. and still too lazy to do so.

You just have to on your own. Tip: search on:

1. Vaginismus.
2. Latex allergy.
3. Breaking of hymen in Religious or traditional settings
4. Effects of sexual abuse on a woman's sex life.

That should do

CandyOps:

On the contrary. It's all facts. I was just too lazy to post my sources. and still too lazy to do so.
You just have to on your own. Tip: search on:

1. Vaginismus.
2. Latex allergy.
3. Breaking of hymen in Religious or traditional settings
4. Effects of sexual abuse on a woman's sex life.

That should do

instead of focussing on the above yeye rubbish, why dont you answer the direct point i stated... aka muscle spams due to sexual abuse and/or sexual incompatibility due to culture/religion?

BTW...
A) just because some very few women suffer from vaginismus doesnt mean that your inability to penetrate someone is automatically due to it...same with yeye latex allergy.
B) what religion or traditional setting break the Hymen?!??!?! stop confusing the removal of clitoris with breaking the hymen.
C) of course, someone who was sexually abused (whether male or female) would be affected sexually by it.

MrBrownJay1:


instead of focussing on the above yeye rubbish, why dont you answer the direct point i stated... aka muscle spams due to sexual abuse and/or sexual incompatibility due to culture/religion?

Where are your manners? I won't answer except you ask nicely

CandyOps:
I won't answer except you ask nicely and with some little manners

bro, people like you are feeding NLers with yeye nonsense... and you need to be called for the garbage you write online. some unfortunate teenager may be reading your nonsense and actually believe it.

there are no culture nor religion on earth that break the hymen... stop lying to your own people!

MrBrownJay1:


bro, people like you are feeding NLers with yeye nonsense... and you need to be called for the garbage you write online. some unfortunate teenager may be reading your nonsense and actually believe it.

there are no culture nor religion on earth that break the hymen... stop lying to your own people!

... and I said i won't reply if you don't say the magic word

CandyOps:
... and I said i won't reply if you don't say the magic word

the magic word is KEEP QUIET RATHER THAN WRITE BS ONLINE!