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Odewaleadesoye:
Controversial media personality and actor, Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, aka Nedu, says any man who allows his partner to have a male “bestie” isn’t a “real man.”

According to him, a real man wouldn’t tolerate that.

He warned men not to tolerate their girlfriends or spouses having male friends.

Speaking in a video message shared via his Instagram , Nedu said:

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As a man, if you figured your female bestie has a boyfriend, the best for you is to set boundaries, not for her but for her husband, boyfriend or fiancée. “Men protecting other men.”

Odewaleadesoye:
Controversial media personality and actor, Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, aka Nedu, says any man who allows his partner to have a male “bestie” isn’t a “real man.”

According to him, a real man wouldn’t tolerate that.

He warned men not to tolerate their girlfriends or spouses having male friends.

Speaking in a video message shared via his Instagram , Nedu said:

DAILY POST

what will my wife be doing with male bestie if no be ment?

"Will not allow"
As if she's a slave and you're the master.

I was thinking about this topic and was thinking about what happened in the past. Everything is sexual today. No one is talking about family friends now, everthing is now self. A family can be friends with another family but you the husband or wife cannot provide all that your spouse will need or be. Your emotional balance in life needs PEOPLE. This mistrust we have is why women are going to pastors and Imams because they expect them not to have any sexual promiscuity with them.
In the past, men will go to another city or country and the woman will raise the family with of neighbours and family. If she likes let her sleep out. If he too likes, let him sleep outside. Everything sex sex sex. Una no wan rest

The same man will prevent his girlfriend from having male friends, so after using the girl, you will that your mother does not like their people when you want to dump her. Go and marry and stop disturbing us with rights of possession. Those Alhaji that kept their women home because they were afraid of other men, do you think some of them didn't cheat depsite that? Grow from your insecurities and be a man or woman of value. If everything you do with the opposite sex is fcccck ccccck and fccck you have a mental PROBLEM, you never know

What the mind wants to do, it will attract eventually

Na all these Netflix girls dey do that one

Bestie, another name for part time fvck buddy

It's not even a question of allowing or disallowing...!

A real man and woman ought to know better than have such things as "intimate besties".


If you are not ready to get married and stay married, then remain single and have your fill of the single life.

No drag person daughter or son into marriage, and start stressing them emotionally and mentally.


Life no suppose hard!

"We are just friends" kee una dia!

The day wen my wife get male bestie, na that day she go become single again...
I should be her bestie just as she's mine...
Male bestie are devilish and unnecessary distractions in marriages and relationship...
Woman get issues with her man.. Instead of her to pray and work on how to resolve the issue.. She go carry am go give useless bestie wen deh find who e go dey knack without taking responsibility.... Ogun kee both the bestie and the woman wen Wan get the bestie

he is completely right, I will starting implementing the first point.. as for the las two, it is something I take personally

Well explained

papyjaypaul:
"Will not allow"
As if she's a slave and you're the master.

I was thinking about this topic and was thinking about what happened in the past. Everything is sexual today. No one is talking about family friends now, everthing is now self. A family can be friends with another family but you the husband or wife cannot provide all that your spouse will need or be. Your emotional balance in life needs PEOPLE. This mistrust we have is why women are going to pastors and Imams because they expect them not to have any sexual promiscuity with them.
In the past, men will go to another city or country and the woman will raise the family with of neighbours and family. If she likes let her sleep out. If he too likes, let him sleep outside. Everything sex sex sex. Una no wan rest

What the mind wants to do, it will attract eventually

Go and check the meanings of this following?

Bestie (close friend)

Ordinary/ casual friends

Family friends

Acquittance

Colleagues

Church or mosque

Neighbours.

All except the bolded are allowed for married man or woman, when you are noe pushing it to level of the bolded, something is wrong with you.

U re supposed to be ur wife bestie and vice versa.

Bestie with another man?

Use your brain for once. What example are you setting for your daughter? ... and your son?

Did your mother have male bestie? Did your father have female bestie? Where did you learn that from?

Fiscus105:




Go and check the meanings of this following?

Bestie (close friend)

Ordinary friend

Family friends

Acquittance

Colleagues

Church

Neighbours.

Don't worry about that. I follow Nedu and I have heard his line of thoughts severally about these issues, that's why you see my response there. There is some form of insecurity when you begin to police everything. You think say before she meet you, she no follow man talk Na when you come in she go come be saint for you only. A woman who will lose guard will lose guard but at the same time, men should also not do the same. It is easier for us to be setting and breaking rules. Men think they are smartt but na still woman get men mumu button. No be today e start, e don tey since. This is why you have culture, tradition and systems in place for dos and donts for EVERYONE to follow

If he is broke and ugly women dont want any thing to do with him. If a woman is a besty to a man chances are she already ires something about him and that is a ticking time bomb.

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If you really know the meanings, you don't have to argue otherwise, hence you are projecting urself as unwise before the public, for you to hate the messenger not necessarily mean you should hate the message.

TAKE FOR INSTANCE.
If you travel and you call ur wife around 11pm, how would you feel if she says she still with a male family friend at such ungodly hour......after all, Mr Ige ur family friend is a bestie to ur wife.

anonymous1759:
Only Simps allow that . Who on earth doesn’t like to eat? That’s how opposite sex is to having sex with one another .
Guys who fall for such manipulation are one of dumbest. I can’t have a female bestie or secretary only with exceptions. ( she’ll definitely be fat and unattractive to me) temptation is constant stay guided.

If you have unattractive and fatty as your female besty or secretary, you are in trouble my brother. You will be attracted to her and she will one day act Potipha's wife on you and finish you. I know that you are not as strong as Joseph.

from xperiens, if not for my godgiven selfcontrol towards women, i 4 no fit dey count married women wey i 4 don chop.....hmm man is on point.

Nedu sef don get man to dey talk about real man. Wonders shall not end.

Were you real when woman carry another person belle shuck for your head?

You still get mouth?

Certificated Otondo.

he is wrong about the bestie part but very very correct about all the others. you can't stop a woman from cheating if she wants to and you can't stop her from having a male bestie if she wants too.

Odewaleadesoye:
Controversial media personality and actor, Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, aka Nedu, says any man who allows his partner to have a male “bestie” isn’t a “real man.”

According to him, a real man wouldn’t tolerate that.

He warned men not to tolerate their girlfriends or spouses having male friends.

Speaking in a video message shared via his Instagram , Nedu said:

DAILY POST

Spot on.

The moment one of the besties finds a partner, that's the end of it else you are looking for issues and regrets. To those doing it, no matter how poorly brought up up you are, this is an area where you must respect your partner or simply move on. Like it or not, bestie is shadow marriage.

Sonnobax15:

Words on a marble...

I last year and the previous years there-in,when my then female bestie and I were still close.....As a Matter of fact, feelings were already creeping in and I could feel it.......Then,came the bombshell 👇

Months later,she told me about her new BF who had been wooing her for some time and she had just agreed to date him.......Omoh,na from that day I begin to set boundaries between the two of us ......This was someone whom we'd hardly go a day without speaking on the phone,at least like 5 times every day...All her aunts knows me so well..As a Matter of fact,they even see me as a younger brother to them,as well as her mom............ These days,we only view each other's status on WhatsApp and just by....Few days ago,I saw her status like--"We used to be besties,but I don't know what happened?".

I just smiled within,and said to myself--"The boundary I set was for your own good my sis"

Bottom line is that,as a guy,if your banny has a male bestie and still insist on not ending the bestie stuff, just know that you've got yourself a co-boyfriend..

maybe he is talking from experience and only advising so that others who haven't made the mistake he made would take heed

ppogba:
Nedu sef don get man to dey talk about real man. Wonders shall not end.

Were you real when woman carry another person belle shuck for your head?

You still get mouth?

Certificated Otondo.

And a real a loyal woman would never think of having male besties period . If she does then she is a hoe and belong in the gutter

By that experience, isn't he in a vintage position to share opinion on the topic?

ppogba:
Nedu sef don get man to dey talk about real man. Wonders shall not end.

Were you real when woman carry another person belle shuck for your head?

You still get mouth?

Certificated Otondo.

if not olosho life in that woman and a chronic manipulator.
WHAT IS THE REASON FOR THAT NONSENSE THEY CALLED BEASTIE?

Craze women without everywhere without brain and control.

ed 200%

This also includes women with female besties!
How can a single or married lady be locked inside the room for hours with a female bestie?
What are they doing?
Trying out new clothes or gisting?
If you like your bestie so much,why not get married to them?

No need for the confusion!

All my besties are females. As long as you have a good poker face and can keep a secret, it’s a lot cheaper than a girlfriend or olosho and a lot more satisfying for both. IYKYK

Forget about Wike... All besties are knacking. Bestie is a soft way to say 'my knacking partner'.

#Fubara #Davido #Wizkid #PeterObi

the more reason you should listen to him because he is talking from experience.

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

Ogun go kee all of una. Wetin be bestie of the opposite sex, Isinku yin o ni sinmi, that is, your spirit will not rest after your death

Odewaleadesoye:
Controversial media personality and actor, Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, aka Nedu, says any man who allows his partner to have a male “bestie” isn’t a “real man.”

According to him, a real man wouldn’t tolerate that.

He warned men not to tolerate their girlfriends or spouses having male friends.

Speaking in a video message shared via his Instagram , Nedu said:

DAILY POST

i laugh in swahili , dont streamline it to a category of persons , a woman can cheat with just any random dude . If you have watched this movie unfaithful the guy was just a random guy from the library , just try to find a partner that is responsible enough to know when and where to set boundaries. Female besties you think less of are even the most dangerous . When your partner tells you she is going to see her female bestie you would not think much of it , she might even call you on video call to show you she is actually with her female bestie but when the call ends do you know what goes down behimd closed doors .some are lesbians ,some are bi- sexual some even use intimacy gadgets on themselves , some go as far as using their homes as a meeting point for your partner and her lover . THE BOTTOM LINE IS YOU CAMT MONITOR ANYONE THESE DAYS A PATTNER THAT WOULD CHEAT WILL CHEAT AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT ,AS THE BOYS SCOUT SAYING GOES BE PREPARED .

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

It will be difficult for you to make Heaven. If he sees this post, shey you want make he commit suicide ni?

TheBillyonaire:
But his ex-wife was fuccking men and giving birth to another man's child while married to him. I hope he does not feel he is a real man.

He is talking from experience. Experience begats wisdom.

Sonnobax15:

Words on a marble...

I last year and the previous years there-in,when my then female bestie and I were still close.....As a Matter of fact, feelings were already creeping in and I could feel it.......Then,came the bombshell 👇

Months later,she told me about her new BF who had been wooing her for some time and she had just agreed to date him.......Omoh,na from that day I begin to set boundaries between the two of us ......This was someone whom we'd hardly go a day without speaking on the phone,at least like 5 times every day...All her aunts knows me so well..As a Matter of fact,they even see me as a younger brother to them,as well as her mom............ These days,we only view each other's status on WhatsApp and just by....Few days ago,I saw her status like--"We used to be besties,but I don't know what happened?".

I just smiled within,and said to myself--"The boundary I set was for your own good my sis"

Bottom line is that,as a guy,if your banny has a male bestie and still insist on not ending the bestie stuff, just know that you've got yourself a co-boyfriend..

Not everyone will act like you....