NewStats: 3,262,359 , 8,176,919 topics. Date: Sunday, 01 June 2025 at 11:33 PM 1z444b

EreluRoz:
You all love your sisters like this but comes online to bash people's sisters.

Namaster:
It's NONE of my business.

Boyfriend? Not husband o. The phone you bought for your sister? Na wa o!

Bashiii:
Omo...i go make sure i collect the phone by any means and the boyfriend too go collect wotowoto seasoning.

But guys that share similar thought with mine,don't forget to warn your sister not to ever near that nigga again if not anything can happen.

what if the Guy na JET LI or the ROCK

you go Negotiate....

helinues:


If you seized your girlfriend's phone, do you expect his brother to come and attack you whether he his the one who bought the phone or not.

That should be your sister's lose, she chose to be with Gangstar, let her live with the repercussions

I don't think I'll be that stupid to seize my girl's phone. It shouldn't even get to that level.

Dead body go supplus

Kobicove:
Dem no born am well make him try am!

Mumu u hv same brain like ur sister so u go fight d boyfriend and ur sister go continue wit d boyfnd gbola. 2 many kids on nairaland na d boyfrend u give phone u go rot in jail like say 2morrow no dey

Namaster:
It's NONE of my business.

Walai non of my business. Onlyy business if they broke up.

it's non of my business

YoungDaNaval:
How will you handle this kind of situation if you're her brother?

Some of y'all lack proper home training or family bond! The issue is not the phone itself but the act, many domestic violence situations were created from little issues like seizing of property, controlling whom she talks to and so on. Many of una sisters would continue chopping blow becuase you the elder brother don't give a flip.

Unless you know that you're useless and the BF is the one feeding you and your sister, a message should be sent that she's not the one to f*ck with! Either through police or area boys, BIG BROS don't let their little sisters to SUFFER at the hands of f*ck boys.....KAPEESH!

I will confront the guy and talk to him as a gentleman to return back my phone but if he decides to be stubborn I will do what I know how to do best by arresting him with the aim of making him stay in police cell for atleast one week.

Dem never born man wey go seize my phone....

Me wey no get joy Na to scatter the whole house be that na and call for back up when needed.

Person wey never marry am, ordinary boyfriend seize phone wey me buybfor my own sister, well i go go collect my phone then even the sister sef no go see am again.

helinues:


As long as she is not asking me to buy her another phone, everything should be fine

I will hear from both parties before deciding on what to do.

The guys response would determine if I should go aggressive or not...... Forming gentle man everytime would make people take advantage of your simplicity.

kalufelix:
It might shock you to know that your sister actually enjoys the phone seizing and all the drama....

Abi ó, best part of breaking up is making up things.

When she gets the phone back with flowers and a bag full of goodies in a fancy restaurant ending with you know what that night, you as a brother will realise that your BP was needlessly rising over nothing.

No bi today bikonu.

helinues:


As long as she is not asking me to buy her another phone, everything should be fine

Fact

EreluRoz:
You all love your sisters like this but comes online to bash people's sisters.

It is a no brainer. Even your brother loves you like that too

immortalcrown:
Buying her the phone is my responsibility. Using and protecting the phone is her responsibility. I don't spoonfeed healthy adults. I don't, in the name of love, raise irresponsible adults that cannot think for themselves. I will only advise her on how to handle the issue. I will not speak with the guy unless he himself invites me to interfere in the matter. And if he invites me, I will not be violent when talking to him.

I don't mean she should fight the guy. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be mentally self-dependent (responsible) enough to not date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad. If you fight her boyfriend who seizes her phone, you should also decide who she should date.

Toxic masculinity is the reason a guy will seize a girl's phone. Toxic masculinity is also the reason a guy will fight his sister's boyfriend because the boyfriend seizes the girl's phone. A guy that fights his sister's boyfriend in this scenario has a very high tendency to seize the phone of his own girlfriend. Quote me anywhere. And a more bitter truth is that if you use physical strength to approach every issue, you are not better than a donkey. Only lower animals follow instincts all the time. Humans are made to act with reasons.

The only good reason for a sane man to seize his girlfriend's phone is if the phone contains the evidence of a serious offense that the girl is trying to deny. And in this case, the man should release the phone once he proves her guilty. And no upright brother of a girl will fight her boyfriend in a case like this.

Will you sound this way if he buys her a phone or pays her school fees? You are very selfish and hypothetical.

That's my investment and must be retrieved. If the person I bestowed the gift upon couldn't protect it, then it is my duty as big brother and enforcer to recover my investments. All my younger siblings and even older ones are my responsibility. Period.

I will arrest him and retrieve the phone

I love you

Khallicopyro:
I will arrest him and retrieve the phone

Coward spotted

tollyboy5:

Walai non of my business. Onlyy business if they broke up.

nams77:

That's my investment and must be retrieved. If the person I bestowed the gift upon couldn't protect it, then it is my duty as big brother and enforcer to recover my investments. All my younger siblings and even older ones are my responsibility. Period.

I hope you will do the same in her marriage if her husband seizes her phone. If not, you are an inconsistent man. Period.

My next move is to move

YoungDaNaval:
How will you handle this kind of situation if you're her brother?

I will get it back from him and I will never buy iPhone for my sis again

That is theft. Boyfriend doesn't give one the authority or right to seize anything that belongs to the girl ditto other way. That is very immature stupid thinking. If any body has that mindset, get rid of it.

immortalcrown:
I hope you will do the same in her marriage if her husband seizes her phone. If not, you are an inconsistent man. Period.

Marriage is a different ball game. Once she is married, she becomes the responsibility of her husband, to a very large extent. The only time I will intrude is when there is domestic violence.
I'm sure you are still a young man that's why my position is a little bit absurd to you. I'm the HEAD of my family ( not nuclear family only) so they are my RESPONSIBILITY, in a non-intrusive way. It is my duty to PROTECT my family.

nams77:

Marriage is a different ball game. Once she is married, she becomes the responsibility of her husband, to a very large extent. The only time I will intrude is when there is domestic violence.
I'm sure you are still a young man that's why my position is a little bit absurd to you. I'm the HEAD of my family ( not nuclear family only) so they are my RESPONSIBILITY, in a non-intrusive way. It is my duty to PROTECT my family.

You are wrong. The self reliance level required in marriage applies to dating. Someone that cannot take responsibility for his or her actions in dating cannot automatically start doing it in marriage. Dating forecasts marriage.

immortalcrown:
You are wrong. The self reliance level required in marriage applies to dating. Someone that cannot take responsibility for his or her actions in dating cannot automatically start doing it in marriage. Dating forecasts marriage.

Na grammar you dey speak. When a girl is still single, the responsibility falls on her father largely and also siblings. Once she becomes married, the baton of responsibility switched to her husband. Go and ask a mature man. EOD

nams77:

Na grammar you dey speak. When a girl is still single, the responsibility falls on her father largely and also siblings. Once she becomes married, the baton of responsibility switched to her husband. Go and ask a mature man. EOD

So, she is no longer your sister when her husband seizes her phone?

immortalcrown:
Buying her the phone is my responsibility. Using and protecting the phone is her responsibility. I don't spoonfeed healthy adults. I don't, in the name of love, raise irresponsible adults that cannot think for themselves. I will only advise her on how to handle the issue. I will not speak with the guy unless he himself invites me to interfere in the matter. And if he invites me, I will not be violent when talking to him.

I don't mean she should fight the guy. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be mentally self-dependent (responsible) enough to not date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad. If you fight her boyfriend who seizes her phone, you should also decide who she should date.

Toxic masculinity is the reason a guy will seize a girl's phone. Toxic masculinity is also the reason a guy will fight his sister's boyfriend because the boyfriend seizes the girl's phone. A guy that fights his sister's boyfriend in this scenario has a very high tendency to seize the phone of his own girlfriend. Quote me anywhere. And a more bitter truth is that if you use physical strength to approach every issue, you are not better than a donkey. Only lower animals follow instincts all the time. Humans are made to act with reasons.

The only good reason for a sane man to seize his girlfriend's phone is if the phone contains the evidence of a serious offense that the girl is trying to deny. And in this case, the man should release the phone once he proves her guilty. And no upright brother of a girl will fight her boyfriend in a case like this.

Will you sound this way if he buys her a phone or pays her school fees? You are very selfish and hypothetical.

Maturity 101%

For this hardship facing Nigerians,
na you still get rest of mind to dey write epistle for matter wey no go put kobo for ur pocket? Na wa o

immortalcrown:
Buying her the phone is my responsibility. Using and protecting the phone is her responsibility. I don't spoonfeed healthy adults. I don't, in the name of love, raise irresponsible adults that cannot think for themselves. I will only advise her on how to handle the issue. I will not speak with the guy unless he himself invites me to interfere in the matter. And if he invites me, I will not be violent when talking to him.

I don't mean she should fight the guy. Even you as a man should not fight the guy. The point is she should be mentally self-dependent (responsible) enough to not date a mad guy that will seize her phone. Any guy who can seize a phone he didn't buy for his girlfriend is mentally-deranged. Even a guy who can seize a girl's phone because the phone was bought by him is mad. If you fight her boyfriend who seizes her phone, you should also decide who she should date.

Toxic masculinity is the reason a guy will seize a girl's phone. Toxic masculinity is also the reason a guy will fight his sister's boyfriend because the boyfriend seizes the girl's phone. A guy that fights his sister's boyfriend in this scenario has a very high tendency to seize the phone of his own girlfriend. Quote me anywhere. And a more bitter truth is that if you use physical strength to approach every issue, you are not better than a donkey. Only lower animals follow instincts all the time. Humans are made to act with reasons.

The only good reason for a sane man to seize his girlfriend's phone is if the phone contains the evidence of a serious offense that the girl is trying to deny. And in this case, the man should release the phone once he proves her guilty. And no upright brother of a girl will fight her boyfriend in a case like this.

Will you sound this way if he buys her a phone or pays her school fees? You are very selfish and hypothetical.

immortalcrown:
Will you sound this way if he buys her a phone or pays her school fees?

Another man besides my Dad will not pay school fees for my sister. If the guy buys her a phone and seizes it, I won't have any issues with it.