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Kingray10: 11:00pm On Jan 21, 2024
Op start with enough roman,let her very wet before you try penetration.
Besides buy ky-gell. So it won't be stressful to penetrate.
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ExudeLoveToAll: 5:21am On Jan 22, 2024
budaatum:
It is nature's way of protecting girls from men till both parties are mature enough to understand the consequences of what they intend doing.

It is a relic today, as humans have found a way to lubricate and enter and mitigate the circumstances.

These people are adults, who is nature protecting? Who then protects men? Leave this unidirectional mindset. This is the reason why most women aren't able for their actions because there are always people ready to give escueses for them.

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budaatum: 6:05am On Jan 22, 2024
ExudeLoveToAll:


These people are adults, who is nature protecting? Who then protects men? Leave this unidirectional mindset. This is the reason why most women aren't able for their actions because there are always people ready to give escueses for them.

Men were protected by their own naivety and not knowing what to do, though porn has removed the protection so they now fuq around like cocks.

As for women being responsible for their own action, that's obvious as it grows in her belly and the pain she feels when she pushes, I'd think, neither of which she can excuse. Nor can she refuse to be able when her brat bites her tits.

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Psady(m): 7:21am On Jan 22, 2024
After reading most comments here ,I can deduce that no one got a solution or experience in such matter, I will advice you seek a sex therapist .

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femi4: 7:38am On Jan 22, 2024
DystopianMuse:
Stop taking advantage of the naive girl ijn.
22 isn't naive. She gave her consent.


Back then, women got married around that age

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DenreleDave(m): 7:44am On Jan 22, 2024
Auxtan:

Hmm, make I browse about the meaning of this one lol

OP, bend her for doggy
CHIEFCHICKEN: 9:04am On Jan 22, 2024
Itooweak4una:
Do you know something called "lubricant"?

You can get it at any supermarket or pharmacy close to you.
But if you're too shy, use olive oil or vaseline to massage your penis before penetrating.

Just put saliva. E go enter straight
ITbomb(m): 9:09am On Jan 22, 2024
So you people waited till 22 to have sex,
Me that started at lipsrsealed
drimzsmoke(m): 9:16am On Jan 22, 2024
budaatum:


Age has nothing to do with maturity. And this is not about being "mature enough to have sex", but about having mature knowledge about sex.

It is obvious that the op, despite his age, is not sexually mature, probably due to him focussing on becoming mature in other more important things.

Please what does sexual maturity entail🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚
Auxtan(m): 9:20am On Jan 22, 2024
DenreleDave:


OP, bend her for doggy
This one has been a nightmare. The v doesn't even open at all in this position. We only do on bed or on chair missionary for now. But I believe we will improve as soon as we find our solutions.
Auxtan(m): 9:21am On Jan 22, 2024
Psady:
After reading most comments here ,I can deduce that no one got a solution or experience in such matter, I will advice you seek a sex therapist .
Do you know any online therapist?
Auxtan(m): 9:23am On Jan 22, 2024
imagrg:
Your preek is becoming weak and a weak preek cannot penetrate a partially open toto.
Lol, if only he knows what I am carrying. If this my preek no do am, no preek in this world would.
Auxtan(m): 9:25am On Jan 22, 2024
Kingray10:
Op start with enough roman,let her very wet before you try penetration.
Besides buy ky-gell. So it won't be stressful to penetrate.
I do all of those except I don't use ky-gell rather durex lube. Please is ky-gel better than durex lube and is it hygienic? I don't want to penetrate my girl with something that will react harshly on her. She's my wife to be.
DenreleDave(m): 9:39am On Jan 22, 2024
Auxtan:

This one has been a nightmare. The v doesn't even open at all in this position. We only do on bed or on chair missionary for now. But I believe we will improve as soon as we find our solutions.

Or you can sit down, let her sit on you..

While ur dk is erect and standing, let her come and sit on ur dk via her V
Auxtan(m): 9:40am On Jan 22, 2024
DenreleDave:


Or you can sit down, let her sit on you..

While ur dk is erect and standing, let her come and sit on ur dk via her V
grin I don't enjoy this one at all
drimzsmoke(m): 9:49am On Jan 22, 2024
Auxtan:

grin I don't enjoy this one at all


Lolz.... Please do not joke with this sex position!!!! cool cool cool cool cool cool cool
Blitzking: 11:45am On Jan 22, 2024
Auxtan:
I'm 27 and my body count is 2.

Had my first s*x when I was 22 with my then girlfriend, we did it 3 times and it was honestly not bad. She enjoyed it, especially my 3rd attempt after I have gained good experience from my 1st and 2nd experience, she attested to it that the 3rd time was fire.

I stayed celebate after that 3rd experience till I met my now girlfriend, whom I dated for 2 years before having penetrative s*x with her for the first time on my 26th birthday, of which was her first experience.

It wasn't fun at all for me, I struggled to penetrate her that I mostly only fingered her due to the penetration difficulties and her writhing in pains.

Our second time came with the same experience, but was quite better. On both occasions she complained of pains down there that extends to over 2 days.

Our 3rd was much better, penetration was possible but still not as seamless as I experienced with my first girlfriend I had s*x with.

I have gone ahead to do it more times with my girlfriend but we still experience penetration difficulties.

Please is this normal? Because it is really frustrating and sometimes when this frustration gets to my erect dick it loses erection and I sometimes just get fed up.

Could it be that her pussy is too tight or could it be because my dick is curved. But I'm surprised because I never experienced this penetration difficulties during my first time.

Can you relate to this?
Can happen to any guy...took me a month to disvirgin my wife cos of pain..that I often lost erection cos of the complaint of pain she also wasn't as flexible as my other ladies I disvirgened where I could flex their thighs on their abdomen making penetration easier.

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Kingray10: 11:54am On Jan 22, 2024
Auxtan:

I do all of those except I don't use ky-gell rather durex lube. Please is ky-gel better than durex lube and is it hygienic? I don't want to penetrate my girl with something that will react harshly on her. She's my wife to be.
Yes ky-gell is better, n it's safe. It's a lubricant

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Auxtan(m): 11:59am On Jan 22, 2024
Blitzking:

Can happen to any guy...took me a month to disvirgin my wife cos of pain..that I often lost erection cos of the complaint of pain she also wasn't as flexible as my other ladies I disvirgened where I could flex their thighs on their abdomen making penetration easier.
Happy to learn is normal, especially when one is the first person a girl is exploring sex with. Thanks for the info

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Auxtan(m): 12:00pm On Jan 22, 2024
Kingray10:

Yes ky-gell is better, n it's safe. It's a lubricant
Will look for it. Thanks
Evolutionism: 12:22pm On Jan 22, 2024
budaatum:


Men were protected by their own naivety and not knowing what to do, though porn has removed the protection so they now fuq around like cocks.

As for women being responsible for their own action, that's obvious as it grows in her belly and the pain she feels when she pushes, I'd think, neither of which she can excuse. Nor can she refuse to be able when her brat bites her tits.

grin grin grin
Psady(m): 1:17pm On Jan 22, 2024
Auxtan:

Do you know any online therapist?
I don't ,
tnerro1(m): 1:20pm On Jan 22, 2024
In order to control my dick I have decided to fvck only 12times this year, that’s like once a month,so one down, 11 to go πŸ˜‹
Vikinatty(f): 1:49pm On Jan 22, 2024
fyzaila:
Stop fornication, abstain till marriage.

that is y some women and man are suffering and regreting in marriage today.
Vikinatty(f): 2:00pm On Jan 22, 2024
my dear, is normal but make sure she is very wet before penetration but if she cant bear it let her get (dripping pills)

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stephanie94l: 2:48pm On Jan 22, 2024
Maybe watch porn togetherMaybe watch porn together...

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Auxtan(m): 2:57pm On Jan 22, 2024
Vikinatty:
my dear, is normal but make sure she is very wet before penetration but if she cant bear it let her get (dripping pills)
Thanks for the info.

I think we will only try that after we are married. For now, we are just partners that don't do it everyday or even every month. We do it a few times as we still have our natural boundaries for not being married yet.

But I really appreciate this your advice as it will help us improve things in the long run.
Auxtan(m): 2:57pm On Jan 22, 2024
stephanie94l:
Maybe watch porn togetherMaybe watch porn together...
Thanks for this
LeeSmart: 4:26pm On Jan 22, 2024
Auxtan:

Like I said before, stop being an idiΓΈt ijn.
I'm adding, GROW UP now.
Dear op but u say u no be religious person, so why u come follow daht moniker u just quoted the use the phrase "ijn"?
Auxtan(m): 4:53pm On Jan 22, 2024
LeeSmart:

Dear op but u say u no be religious person, so why u come follow daht moniker u just quoted the use the phrase "ijn"?
Using the language they understand.
BenedictAbajue(m): 4:54pm On Jan 22, 2024
Auxtan:

we still have many years ahead for it to get better
Same lie you told your ex-girlfriend

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