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mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

Okay, you were go check woman phone,wetin you expect before. Abi e get any woman wey men no d disturb? Appreciate your wife for even saying No to his invitation.

If men no disturb your wife it means she's not beautiful. Give yourself rest, stop suspecting her. And save yourself from HBP

AsomStructures:
You need matured advice ke!!

A man had the audacity to tell ur wife to come so they can make babies and you're here asking us for advice ...

I'll keep saying it, 75% of the species of men currently on earth today are funny breed, and has also lost the WILL power given to them by God. And it seems like been logical isn't a term associated with men anymore..

what do you want him to do. you guys always giving people deadly advice. pray you don't find yourself in such situation.

Mac2016:

Cheating is not just kissing and bed engagement. Any untoward chats that u don't want your partner to see is cheat. If dem never knack, the woman is already into that office guy and she enjoys it. She must have reported to him sef that the husband don catch dem, make dem relax things small. It will take a miracle to get that woman back into the marriage, she's heavily invested in emotions with that other guy and dey will soon knack if dem never knack yet.
The husband shd start a plan B and be ready for whatever. But if he's not dependent on her finance, he shd escalate and take it to their ogas.
I hate office romance ehn. Never did that sh!t and I won't.

Well said.
My take is simply that we can't always judge things until we know the actual situation.

She might just see him as an interesting fun guy who makes the work environment not so boring for her.
He probably also helps her out with some tasks.
The challenge is that he clearly has ulterior motives "of them making babies" which she might think she is able to control, until circumstances make it uncontrollable.

And like you said, they just might already have started having an affair- emotionally or sexually which is why he has to act decisvely.

You didn't Bae to confront her.. Let's make babies can be denied without proof.. What you need do is observe her or probably spy her whatapp with the duplicate web version.. There u get to monitor her and get all the proof you want.

YourGFsnatcher:

Your husband's a whoree? you are just looking for an excuse to suck more dicks

If you say so

DrAda:


If you say so

Shouldn't you be ashamed?

YourGFsnatcher:

Shouldn't you be ashamed?

Of what exactly? Your insipid rants or questions?

DrAda:


Of what exactly? Your insipid rants or questions?

Of your LovePeddler attributes

YourGFsnatcher:

Of your LovePeddler attributes

Let's go with insipid rants

mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

They haven’t had sex yet but give them a little time, a very little time and he would not only bang her silly but also humiliate her at work later on and turn her to a laughing stock which would in turn gets to you as the husband of the office who’re……..
Now this is what to do…….para, shout on her and BEAT her a little like the slut that she is and go to her workplace the following day and embarrass the man publicly at work in a way that would cause others staffs to interfere……..if this doesn’t work, nothing will
And whoever tells you that you’d be pushing her to his arms with my advice, kindly tell the person that she’s already in his arms and this will send a strong message to her unless she doesn’t care about losing her family and putting her people to shame because NO MEMBER of her family would her if she reports what you did to them.
Even if you married from a shameless family they would still be afraid to her when they know you are not always the calm stupid man they always thought you to be.
Let me emphasize more on this……..BEAT AND HUMILATE her before she does same to you Sir

DrAda:


Let's go with insipid rants

May the Lord protect us from wives like you

YourGFsnatcher:

May the Lord protect us from wives like you

I most definitely agree. Living with you will be sheer torture

DrAda:


I most definitely agree. Living with you will be sheer torture

I agree

YourGFsnatcher:

I agree

Glad we got that sorted out.

Quick question? So whats the use of marriage if you have to go through all this drama after paying bride price and doing sara for a lot of people with your hard earned money lol.

Men dey try oh

DrAda:


Glad we got that sorted out.

Before we kee each other.
Just reminded me of my ex..

YourGFsnatcher:

Before we kee each other.
Just reminded me of my ex..

It all makes a lot of sense now. I hope you heal quickly

DrAda:


It all makes a lot of sense now. I hope you heal quickly

Excuse me? Heal what? None of My exes got a hold on me

YourGFsnatcher:

Excuse me? Heal what? None of My exes got a hold on me

If you say so

Nebes:
They are yet to knack but their flirting has gone very far. They'll knack if they meet privately. The guy is obviously a reckless and immoral fellow. Your wife is currently the one restricting the knack. Thread carefully so that you don't send her to him.

You have sense....

DrAda:


If you say so

It's only my dirk they can't forget

Just speak to elders who are full of wisdom.. solution is Teso!

No other man can penetrate your wife ever again expect you!

Q.E.D

mcdon024:
Mature advice only please.
I will keep this very short.
There is this her colleague she talks about almost all the time. He is also married. I became curious and decided to go through her WhatsApp chats with this guy. I saw in thier chats selfie pics she sends to him (normal selfie pics), and the one that really got to me is the part he invited my wife to come over and "lets make babies" according to him. But her reply was "No I can't, your hands are full"....Please who can decode this her reply to him?....I confronted her but she denied ever having anything to do with him beside been colleagues. But my worry is why chat flirty chats with a guy and what would give him the mind to ask her to come over and .......... Please I need mature advice only

Her colleague is trying to seduce your wife and mumu her is going along with it for whatever reason.

Tell her you'll report him to their HR if he doesn't back off, which kine yeye colleague be that one.

DarkCaesar:
Now this is what to do…….para, shout on her and BEAT her a little like the slut that she is and go to her workplace the following day and embarrass the man publicly at work in a way that would cause others staffs to interfere……..if this doesn’t work, nothing will

Even if you married from a shameless family they would still be afraid to her when they know you are not always the calm stupid man they always thought you to be.
Let me emphasize more on this……..BEAT AND HUMILATE her before she does same to you Sir

^^^
Violence is not the answer.

He beats her up...things spiral out of control...and he kills her. Then what?

Or...what if the wife is a shotokan karateka...or a Brazilian jiu-jitsu black belt? You want the man to end up on a video like this gentleman here? https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7715609/delta-man-cries-out-over

Fujiyama:


^^^
Violence is not the answer.

He beats her up...things spiral out of control...and he kills her. Then what?

Or...what if the wife is a shotokan karateka...or a Brazilian jiu-jitsu black belt? You want the man to end up on a video like this gentleman here? https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7715609/delta-man-cries-out-over

There are ways you’d beat her without causing her much damages and the rage I’d be if such happens to me will melt even her karate master heart…….it’s something that works but the effeminated society would tell you otherwise. It has always work from time immemorial
Don’t be too soft on your woman or else she would bring you shame and still be bold to stand in your face

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/5227228/love-emotions-health#79040933

hahaha see as you track Fountainofyouth and uncover her ass.
Her past relationship always starts with sex and she's here on nairaland forgetting the internet never forgets.
Meanwhile below is a post a lady made informing us how she was scammed by Fountainofyouth while obtaining a loan.

keet13:
This year I was ripped off my funds when I gave 200k loan to two nairalanders with the monikers Fountainofyouth and Beverlyjean.
The former came to me and collected the loan for her fees since she's still a student while the latter obtained the loan to feed her family as her husband has been jobless.
They failed to pay back the loan and blocked me and I could reach them.
Na so my money take waka.
Since then I've sworn not to engage on any business with nairalanders. Na scammers full this forum

EbenezerTriumph:
hahaha see as you track Fountainofyouth and uncover her ass.
Her past relationship always starts with sex and she's here on nairaland forgetting the internet never forgets.
Meanwhile below is a post a lady made informing us how she was scammed by Fountainofyouth while obtaining a loan.

Don't e deceived....TrustNone that have been banned by Nairaland is behind this.... he is busy deceiving himself... he will be banned again with the new he created...check when he opened it

Beverlyjean:


Don't e deceived....TrustNone that have been banned by Nairaland is behind this.... he is busy deceiving himself... he will be banned again with the new he created...check when he opened it

okay but to what purpose?
You guys had a brawl or something?

EbenezerTriumph:
okay but to what purpose?
You guys had a brawl or something?

Yeah... he then cloned my and was posting trash

Wallade:


If you are the man in the scenario, you should face your wife not the other man.

In fact, you have no business with the man except he comes into your house to fu.. ck your wife. Then you can take physical or logical action against him.

For now, you can only do "magun" jazz to deal with him or and her, if you want to get at him physically.

It is quite immature to go to the HR of their coy to report such matter

why report to HR wen your wife gladly went to him. Very dumb move.

Beverlyjean:


Yeah... he then cloned my and was posting trash

report him to the mods