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But why?
Once she starts providing everything for the family, the se.xua.l attention becomes zero.

What's your opinion about a woman working hard to feed the family and depriving her husband intimacy?

Especially in a situation where she sees her man as a lazy man who is not putting on more effort to take on his responsibilities.

Does it mean she don't feel Hot some times as well?

See finish of some Nigerian girls who got programmed that men are their slave and donkey

Women see sex as a commodity. They give it to the person that pays.

See finish is the cause of lack of sex...


Well... As a man try to smell good well and improve on your class.

After she might have run up and down from morning to evening in search of daily bread, you want her to come lay flat for a lazy man who probably didn't have anything doing from morning till evening except dreaming about which style he will teach his woman tonight?

Sex is wire to a woman's head in such a way she can switch off at will. So you need love and attention to unlock it.

Dainy1:
But why? Once she starts providing everything for the family, the se.xua.l attention becomes zero.
What's your opinion about a woman working hard to feed the family and depriving her husband intimacy? Especially in a situation where she sees her man as a lazy man who is not putting on more effort to take on his responsibilities.Does it mean she don't feel Hot some times as well?

OP, why are you not providing for your family? Why do you refuse to pick up any job out there to ensure you do not break the contract you made in marriage to be a provider to your family? Or in the case that you are not able to do even that, why do you refuse to take on the house chores and child-rearing duties from your wife when she becomes the breadwinner?

Ms202309:
See finish of some Nigerian girls who got programmed that men are their slave and donkey

Slave? Hmmmmmm

oglalasioux:
Women see sex as a commodity. They give it to the person that pays.

But is it supposed to be so?

Oloki:
After she might have run up and down from morning to evening in search of daily bread, you want her to come lay flat for a lazy man who probably didn't have anything doing from morning till evening except dreaming about which style he will teach his woman tonight?

Sex is wire to a woman's head in such a way she can switch off at will. So you need love and attention to unlock it.

So, you're justifying it?
But a man work, provide and still give s e.x without complain. Why is a woman's own different?

Kobojunkie:
OP, why are you not providing for your family? Why do you refuse to pick up any job out there to ensure you do not break the contract you made in marriage to be a provider to your family? Or in the case that you are not able to do even that, why do you refuse to take on the house chores and child-rearing duties from your wife when she becomes the breadwinner?

I didn't say it's me o

Dainy1:
I didn't say it's me o

Well, whoever it is, get him to answer those very common sense questions.

Because it is unnatural for her to be the sole provider for her family. The man instead of having unnecessary erection should channel that energy into providing for his family.
The bad financial situation can make a woman develop resentment for the man. Its a huge mood killer.

The woman who has become the sole provider do not want to add another soul into the situation she found herself which could stretch their lean' resources the more.

What amazes me most is that in Nigeria particularly, the woman is expected to continue with all her wifely duties in addition to providing for the family while society makes excuses for him who at that time is supposed to help out in anyway to ease his wife and make her look forward to both of them 'destressing' later. They will tell you to be gentle with him that Any lil thing hurts the ego of the jobless man. So he'd stay at home all day pressing phone instead of at least cleaning the house or doing laundry or cooking dinner. No!

That's why the world finds it hard to hand over leadership role to women...



Especially embittered feminists!

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Some women don't have sense. They marry for only these reasons

1) Social status
2) Financial balance
3) To exit their father's house
4) To feel among
5) Child bearing

So once they've hooked a man in marriage, they'll feel fulfilled and begin to do anyhow.

As a man u have to know how to tame your wife

Dainy1:
But why?
Once she starts providing everything for the family, the se.xua.l attention becomes zero.

What's your opinion about a woman working hard to feed the family and depriving her husband intimacy?

Especially in a situation where she sees her man as a lazy man who is not putting on more effort to take on his responsibilities.

Does it mean she don't feel Hot some times as well?

usually its shift of power

what do i mean, usually its a pattern they learnt from the husband when he used to be the breadwinner. He would abuse his breadwinner role which " money is equal to power " and power can be used to abuse whoever relay on your money which is in most cases, its the wives who relay on money from the man


So when woman becames breadwinner, she taste the power of having money = power

Reading...

Typing……..

Are u a victim?


Let the man go and hustle

Na man him be

Issues plenty yo

A broke man should focus on how to better his life and take his mind off sex except when the woman is in the mood and he fulfils his responsibility.
As long as you don't watch porn or go to locations where women barely cover their bodies such as brothels you won't be having constant urge for sex and for your wife to use it as a tool for blackmail.
When you have money your wife will be in her toes to fulfil her sexual obligations knowing that you can get it outside but a poor man has no business with constant sex as it worsens his condition by making more babies that are sometimes not wanted

A broke man is not supposed to have an errection

A provider role is an unnatural position for a woman. Her body is telling her to find a higher value male. A man can balance the equation by taking care of the children and helping with physical needs around the house. You can’t exercise your male pride when your woman is the breadwinner. The situation frustrates many men. They end up sleeping around or being abusive to the woman.

Boils down to the original idea that women love being dominated.

When you don't play the pipe, your moral to dictate the tune drops..