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Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

Sex is not supposed to be painful, there is certainly an underlying medical condition responsible for that. Marriage is not only to "knack" it comes with challenges too, take her to a doctor.

Minime10:
U dey craze🙄 nairaland na hospita wey una suppose carry una sef go
How ya wife no go shout during sex, sbebi u don go take penis enlargement drugs, wey make ya penis come big & long like pipe, u no no say e dey reach ya wife for intestine😎

abeg na

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

A woman can comfortably adjust to accommodate any size of penis. No matter the size of the penis enlargement, it can't be bigger than a baby's head to cause her pains.

Me I already welcome twin's some weeks ago so what's on mind now is how to double my hustle because my minds is totally out of intimacy till further notice and as for your quest (case) i think you should kinda sit your wife down and heard some hearts to hearts discussion about her sudden change because even before you two tied the knots I guess you too has been having intimacy regularly or often and if the case persists, please seek or invite parental opinion.

Minime10:
U dey craze🙄 nairaland na hospita wey una suppose carry una sef go
How ya wife no go shout during sex, sbebi u don go take penis enlargement drugs, wey make ya penis come big & long like pipe, u no no say e dey reach ya wife for intestine😎

Werey 🤣🤣

A good pre-intimacy will get her wet and the ride will be smooth. Learn good pre-intimacy methods.

Try to put her in the mood first, by kissing her, sucking her breasts, stimulating her clitoris... etc. If you keep mounting her whenever you have an erection, she'll keep complaining of pains cos she would still be very dry and not in the mood.

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

Maybe she has untreated or mistreated sexually transmitted infections... Some infections can create permanent wound or blockades around the vagìna if untreated, thereby causing pains during intercourse...

Have you or her treated any STDs before?
Did you meet her as a virgin?
Do you know her true BODYCOUNT?

Sex is supposed to be enjoyed.

Una no nack for dating stage?

She is probably circumcised
They can also affect her sex drive

SIXTEENTH:
Me I already welcome twin's some weeks ago so what's on mind now is how to double my hustle because my minds is totally out of intimacy till further notice and as for your quest (case) i think you should kinda sit your wife down and heard some hearts to hearts discussion about her sudden change because even before you two tied the knots I guess you too has been having intimacy regularly or often and if the case persists, please seek or invite parental opinion.

congratulations sir. It's not going to be easy but you can ride the tide

Oga discuss with ur wife, if your dick is not up to 8inches then there is something she's not telling you forget pre-intimacy after some thrust the pussy will get wet. .

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

michlins:
congratulations sir. It's not going to be easy but you can ride the tide

Sure I can ride tide, God bless you for this

Take ur time on forepl*y.

Understand her body and how she responds to stimuli.

When she begin rush u with sex. U go tire.

Don't rush into the real sex. Kiss her deep, use ur hands to handle her nipples, dont suck immediately, dont rush to the clitoris too,.

Just go through the thighs, feel the Vee, remove hands again. Make her want it.

Na so we dey run am for those who dislikes it. Forepl*y is like sex to them, so run am well

She's not sexually attached or attracted to you because trust me, if a woman has feelings for you, a small touch will make her wet and ready for you and she won't have that pain.

Secondly, make sure you set the mood right for sex before penetrating her. Not that you'll just jump on her after a stressful day or when she's not in the mood, that place will be very dry and will cause serious pain.

Lastly, make sure to smell fresh and clean before going close cos mouth and armpit odour can we quench a woman's desire.

Brush your teeth and use roll on and calm down

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

I think you need to ask her how she wants it done then follow her ways

Is she still a virgin

Do you think your pen is big for her

Do you use force flow or gentle flow

Or you use speed on her without considering that she is a human

If you rule out the above, just ask her what's the way out of the predicament

She has the solution with her, unless she is not interested in it

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

It may likely be a case of dyspareunia, let her go see a gynecologist for examination and I am certain the gynecologist would prescribe medications for her.....PLEASE DO NOT ALLOW HER TO SELF-MEDICATE.

Please try and get a gel. She might not be lubricating enough. That might be causing her the pain.

Also, try and discuss with your wife, know her ovulation period and also try and understand her sex language

BoboNogoDie:

Maybe she has untreated or mistreated sexually transmitted infections... Some infections can create permanent wound or blockades of the vagìna thereby causing pains during intercourse...

Did you meat her as a virgin?
Do you know her true BODYCOUNT?

i met her not too long after she dis virgin

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

Better divorce her before she go get belle. Dey there dey carry another person problem for head

frozen70:


I think you need to ask her how she wants it done then follow her ways

Is she still a virgin

Do you think your pen is big for her

Do you use force flow or gentle flow

Or you use speed on her without considering that she is a human

If you rule out the above, just ask her what's the way out of the predicament

She has the solution with her, unless she is not interested in you

All this stress because of dustbin gender. Na the iiidiot wey marry weytin e supposed 4ck and dump I blame

Marrying a woman is inviting problems into your life. Men be wise

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

Buy Joy soap 🧼..... Lobatan

You're too big for her... This is one of the disadvantages of having a pipe and if you keep forcing it, she may end up having issues with her reproductive system.

Samantha124:
You're too big for her... This is one of the disadvantages of having a pipe and if you keep forcing it, she may end up having issues with her reproductive system.

is that true? What solution do you have for us

I think it's best for you two to consult with a gynaecologist.

Ayodeoba:
is that true? What solution do you have for us

Is she a doll?

Nwodosis:

No matter the size of the penis enlargement, it can't be bigger than a baby's head to cause her pains.

The girth might not be big, but you see that pipe e fit long reach oshodi bus stop.

Now, that's the problem. I suggest OP to cut his dick and give it to jennyclay dog to feast on.