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What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? (13670 Views)
Re: What Do We Really Need Polygamy For? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
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spiritedtete: 5:13pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Polygamy is not necessarily because you want many children. "sex.. network... and personal reasons" could make someone go into polygamy. So also the least of union to condemn is polygamy because it is a way of life for many centuries. Face your one and let others face their multiples. If my son comes tomorrow with 8 wives. And he is capable I will gladly . Even though I have one. My offsprings can have several legitimate wives.
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thedio(m): 5:14pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Check and balance lol
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Almiron(m): 5:15pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
I’m a one-woman-man…. Can’t even handle 2 relationships, e no fit balance. One party go dey enjoy me, while the later go complain taya. That said, I think polygamy is a different ball game, at least make sure the second wife is about 7-10 years younger than the first wife. The most important thing be say , polygamy is meant for a rich man. 4 Likes |
AdaAwka1: 5:15pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: dey play |
Lama70(m): 5:19pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Let everyone continue with what suits him. All the statistics of women being more than men is not realistic to me. If it were, how come women are not toasting me except when they need money? One just finished wasting her credit on a call with me now. All na for money. 4 Likes |
Righthussle: 5:19pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321: What if the two wives are understanding and not troublesome. |
MrCuteAndLoaded: 5:19pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Don't be fooled thinking 2 wives will bring 2 troubles...that's BS. A real man knows how to keep all her women in check! I have 3 wives and I rule my home with iron fist - You cause trouble, you are out! It's all about the man. Moreover, I will rather suck 6 Booobies and f**k 3 kpetues at the same time. It's more fun than the traditional 2 boobies and 1 kpetus. Also I lf one is on her period, it should not delay action in any form. It's even better to share the 6 kids among them at 2 , 2 , 2 each. This also fosters competition and amazing family. Be man enough to search far and wide and Collate the women that will be ready to cooperate with you on this. Also, please take good care of them and their kids. That's the most important. 5 Likes 1 Share |
deeptechcool(m): 5:20pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
*WHO BENEFITS MORE FROM SINGLE MARRIAGES* ❓ Here's a 72 years old pensioner, who had worked all his life to raise his kids. *He deprived himself of life's pleasures to pay expensive school fees and living expenses for his kids both at home n abroad* They are now well-off across the world, *but his wife, a 65 yrs old, has relocated to live with her kids abroad,* on the excuse of taking care of the their grandchildren. He's alone back at home, *while his children only calls him to say hello and send money for his upkeep.* He now has to start life all over as a bachelor, not minding his state of health, battling with high blood pressure and other old age ailments. But the question is: How long more would he survive alone? But this is the reality for most working class monogamous men. Their old age is usually lonely and in many cases, Sad. Try as you may, women love their kids more than their husbands, no matter how good the man is. The older he gets, the less use they have for him. Tell me then, what do men benefit from marriage? Men sacrifice so much but get little recognition for the hard work, rather the woman reaps all the benefits as the kids are often closer and more affectionate towards her when she becomes old. Men, a word is enough for the wise, plan and take very good care of urself while working n plan for ur future. No matter how caring you are as a husband and father, 97% of these women love their children and abandoned you when they are needed most. Moreso, death of Spouses is another case . *copied* 3 Likes 2 Shares |
mukthar2000(m): 5:23pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Having two wife or more gives long life and prevent you from any immortal act fornication, in case one of the wife is on mensural period or having new baby u can easily switch to the second wife instead of hunting for ladies .
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Itisallright: 5:23pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
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Abagworo(m): 5:29pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
The ways of our forefathers is the way of nature and by extension way of God. Western civilization believes in creating rules different from natural law of existence hence the introduction of monogamy. It has created an unbalanced dysfunctional society
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neonly: 5:29pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
OP pls wait till you marry them come back and repeat the question
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MadamExcellency: 5:30pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
For polygamy to work, two or more women should find a man they love and trust and the man also love and trust them and enter into the binding union of inseparable matrimony. They all should vow never to hurt each other for better, for worse until death part three, four, etc of them as the case may be.
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casualobserver: 5:31pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321: The benefit in polygamy is for women who would otherwise be single and their children that would have been bastards or raised in single mother homes. Our brainwashed women would rather be baby mamas and side chicks praying for the monogamous husband that will never come. We men will continue to help misguided womenfolk to promote monogamy so we can have all the benefits of polygamy without the commitment. 2 Likes |
AnI77: 5:33pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
For those who can afford to pay its costs, polygamy is an excellent opportunity to have fun, such as having a party, foursome, etc, and doing so legitimately. The more people involved the merrier. Can you beat that? I bet not! My advice though is that you should not venture into this type of marriage if all the people that are to be involved cannot agree to satisfy the conditions required for these fantasies, and you lack the financial capacity to pay for all its costs and outcomes.
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Zxcvbnmghtr: 5:33pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
![]() Is this a reasonable answer? donbenie: |
SmartPolician: 5:34pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
So that more women can have husbands
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DKM123: 5:40pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
We need it to display our poor self esteem, cos honestly, we men no too get sense laidat. Na only mumu ego full our head.
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maduxs: 5:40pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321:when the first didn't give birth you go for second one if you are not the fault of childlessness 1 Like |
HAH: 5:41pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Is a solution to nagging wife, as competition brings out best in anything, more so man is naturally polygamous.
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Bfly: 5:42pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
it is an honour among men to own an harem. Not necessarily engaging 'em in sex. |
Zico5(m): 5:44pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Though polygamy is evil on it's own but if u can't control urself when it comes to sex, kindly marry two wives. One woman will victimise ur life and make u miserable sexually. That's the bitter truth.
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NaBanga: 5:45pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Polygamy has very little benefit in modern times. For the man saying it's due to sex, ask any polygamous man. Once you start sleeping with women, they will all have the same period. You can't even sleep with them separately, because their monthly will synchronize. Polygamy has no benefit unless it is a poor woman who needs a wealthy man.
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Mosba: 5:47pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Sexual satisfaction, To control a stubborn first wife, Trying to have male children Sunah Anabi or Looking for bekun bekun after belle full Yeah not limited to the above though. Even as a man I can't predict fellow men at times if not how can you explain a man marrying just one wife despite being very rich and as a muslim o? |
Omoawoke(m): 5:53pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
talented321: They come in different shapes and sizes. Why do you buy one car and want another if the car can fulfill your needs of mobility. Why will you buy Lexus and be eying Benz, why will you have Benz and start eying BMW? You get the car and want the SUV then want a Masarati They come tall, big ass, big front, yellow skin, dark skin… you will now jam half caste. If it’s possible to marry all of them, I will 2 Likes 1 Share |
DAVIDMOE(m): 5:54pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
You don't polygamy but you will someone who divorce more than 4 times. What is now the difference? Whiteman told you to avoid polygamy, but don't find problem with men who change wife a thousand times. 2 Likes |
JMANbt: 5:54pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
Absolutely nothing
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yinkeys(m): 6:21pm On Aug 16, 2023 |
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