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You are invited to a wedding but you are not to bring a guest. Would you go?

If you are married and your husband is not invited would you go?
If you are dating and your boyfriend is not invited would you go?
If you are engaged and your partner is not invited would you go?

Let reverse it, your partner, spouse, mate is invited but you are not. Would you be upset if your partner, spouse, or mate went to the wedding without you?

Tough one
will come back with my answer

why not?I dont being a Siamese twin.
Besides,there's no biggie.my partner is supposed to understand its a single invite.

Mrs, Chima:

You are invited to a wedding but you are not to bring a guest. Would you go?

If you are married and your Wife is not invited would you go? [size=14pt]NO![/size]
If you are dating and your Girlfriend is not invited would you go? [size=14pt] YES![/size]
If you are engaged and your partner is not invited would you go? [size=14pt]YES[/size]

Let reverse it, your partner, spouse, mate is invited but you are not. Would you be upset if your partner, spouse, or mate went to the wedding without you? [size=14pt]YES! Only if we are Married! If we aren't, i no send![/size]

but that's ok. no big deal really.I just attend alone.
Most men that I know hate weddings and would be [b]extremely [/b]glad to hear its a single invite.They would even spoil by wanting to leave early to go watch a game! or be with friends.
I will never push a man to attend a wedding to which I have been invited unless its his own.

Of course i wil,married or not as long as he understands. . . n its not much of a biggie. . . So He shld

So how or what has that got do with ROMANCE? The romance of being invited alone to a wedding and thinking of going or not? These funny "Naijirians"!

Orikinla:

So how or what has that got do with ROMANCE? The romance of being invited alone to a wedding and thinking of going or not? These funny "Naijirians"!

I know [size=22pt]YOU ARE NOT TALKING! [/size] You are the KING of threads that has NOTHING to do with romance.

I forfeit

y not.

I'm definitely not a fan of weddings. I will gladly stay at home while my wife goes.

SAFO:

I'm definitely not a fan of weddings. I will gladly stay at home while my wife goes.

I hear you but what if you were invited and your wife is not?

NONE! I don't like weddings.

I might abandon my own  

btw chima!  https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/nigeria?topic=718559

@chima, I would just come up with an excuse of why I can't make it, but in reality i don't want to go in the first place.

MsDarkSkin:

NONE! I don't like weddings.

I might abandon my own  

Good! Can't be going to a wedding with all that bloodclast noises.

SAFO:

@chima, I would just come up with an excuse of why I can't make it, but in reality i don't want to go in the first place.

Damn! You had a bad wedding experience? Or people always expected you to bring expensive gifts?

Black folks are good for that. They will come to your wedding with a $10 gift and expect you to come to theirs with a range rover.

None of that Weddings are just boring. I'd rather watch a rock, paper, scissors tournament on ESPN.

Mrs, Chima:

Good! Can't be going to a wedding with all that bloodclast noises.

shut up there before i steal a bag of your skittles

I don't like weddings but if I must go,I'll go with someone,we'll enter separately(how dem go take know say na me and am folow?)I'll need someone to gossip with about the various fashion styles that will be on display and I don't have a problem with him going alone, but he must bring back some piece of cake for me.

SAFO:

None of that Weddings are just boring. I'd rather watch a rock, paper, scissors tournament on ESPN.

Damn!

MsDarkSkin:


shut up there before i steal a bag of your skittles

Just don't touch my Berry flavored Skittles.   (purple bag)

I would. And i wouldn't be upset if he goes. Basically we are mostly going for the food

If the person is a good friend and my husband is not invited, yea I will still go.

But for a starter, none of my friends will be out of their minds not to invite my husband. For sure I'll slap some senses into their head.

But if they really do not want him there, then he can stay home and play games, do something important with his time or go out with the boys.


You don't have to go everywhere with your husband/wife anyway.

As for bf, lets not go there.

Mrs, Chima, Do you smoke?? How can this be?? You are invited but my wife is not invited. My wife is invited, but i am not!!. Please i would like to see how the invitation is written abeg!!

Mrs, Chima:

You are invited to a wedding but you are not to bring a guest.  Would you go? 

If you are married and your husband is not invited would you go?
If you are dating and your boyfriend is not invited would you go?
If you are engaged and your partner is not invited would you go?

Let reverse it, your partner, spouse, mate is invited but you are not.  Would you be upset if your partner, spouse, or mate went to the wedding without you? 

Mrs Chima. <<<<<<plannin to gate crash a weddin?

Mr, Cork:

Mrs Chima. <<<<<<plannin to gate crash a weddin?

Don't worry. It won't be yours.

tellwisdom:

Mrs, Chima, Do you smoke?? How can this be?? You are invited but my wife is not invited. My wife is invited, but i am not!!. Please i would like to see how the invitation is written abeg!!

I am smoking this nicely seasoned turkey with onions and garlic on the grill. I will keep the bones for you.

That's part of life and just because you have a spouse or a partner doesn't mean they will be invited to the wedding. Invitations are usually base on the size of the wedding and if the wedding is intimate not too many people (married or single) would have an invitation.

rokiatu:

If the person is a good friend and my husband is not invited, yea I will still go.

But for a starter, none of my friends will be out of their minds not to invite my husband. For sure I'll slap some senses into their head.

But if they really do not want him there, then he can stay home and play games, do something important with his time or go out with the boys.


You don't have to go everywhere with your husband/wife anyway.

As for bf, lets not go there.

Logically, married couples should be invited but again each wedding is different and the person may not want your spouse to come.

You are right, you don't have to tag along with your spouse everywhere but needy people wouldn't understand that.

[color=#990000][/color]Couples Need Seperate times alone to do their own personal stuff so yes if i was invited alone i will go alone and if it was the reverse i will stay back it shouldnt take a matured mind to figure out that u dont have to be your wife or girlfriends handbag

eghost247:

[color=#990000][/color]Couples Need Seperate times alone to do their own personal stuff

Many women would prefer to have their mate with them to a wedding especially if they are single and waiting on a proposal from their mate. However couples (single and married) need to be able to stand on their own and focus on themselves as well.

I know most guys feel the same way as SAFO does about weddings.

Hook em' Horns.

I am smoking this nicely seasoned turkey with onions and garlic on the grill. I will keep the bones for you.

That's part of life and just because you have a spouse or a partner doesn't mean they will be invited to the wedding. Invitations are usually base on the size of the wedding and if the wedding is intimate not too many people (married or single) would have an invitation.

I hate when people begin to carve out word to suit themselves. . Why would i be invited and my wife not Na my wife wan destroy the marriage??, aby na she wan chop the whole food and drink finish. Please tell me one genuine reason why she's not needed, knowing fully well, im a married man. My dear, its a choice thingy, i might want to bring her or otherwise. You dont come here to spit IGBOH particles just bcs u cldnt swallow them all, so reduce that IGBOH and drink more water for your health .

@ OP: what you said has happened to me before. I was invited to this wedding and had to RSVP. However, I RSVP'd by mailing my name and a guest, because at the time I did not know who my date was going to be. Anyway, at the wedding reception, they told me they won't allow my date because her name was not submitted in advance. I was upset and left, and told them that it is pure stupidity for you to expect your invitees to know their guest's name 3 weeks in advance.