NewStats: 3,261,986 , 8,175,804 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 12:18 PM 236t4z

My name is Mary
Base in Lagos...26yrs old girl
Content creator and a skit maker
MY PATHETIC STORY

I might be wrong for saying this
Buh it's killing me inside
I can't hurt human not even a woman like me

I am madly in love with a guy
He possess all the qualities I want in a man
He adores me, caring,humble,he cares so much.
His tender touch alone
I didn't know what took him so long to ask me out,..and me was doing big gurl na
I can't ask a man out...I was in location for 2months,we couldn't see and talk well...now
Guess what!!!! He's getting married on 27th of this month
Omoh!!! Heart attack wants to kill me
I lost focus
My heart is bleeding
I dunno who will feel my pains😒and understand am not insane

Is my emotions right or going extreme?
How can I cure this please?
Don't add to my injury if u gat nothing reasonable to tender please
Depression is real

Let go please, it's not worth it. Never marry a man you love too deeply, he'll take advantage of your love and hurt you if he realizes you love him too much, men don't appreciate women that genuinely and deeply love them, they prefer a touch of stubborness laced with a caring habit. Very funny gender

Sorry ”bout your loss sis, I believe time is always the greatest healer and you'll heal overtime. Next time try to always minimize your shakara cos men this days are less patience.

It happens. Find a way to move on.
Note that it might not be possible to finalize marriage in two months. That is to say, he was on it even before your absence of two months. So, reason am well. It's not what it seems.

phorget:
Sorry ”bout your loss sis, I believe time is always the greatest healer and you'll heal overtime. Next time try to always minimize your shakara cos men this days are less patience.

I wasn't doing shakara o
I was only waiting for him to shoot

Las las u will be alright, so just relax it's just a matter of time.

The problem is that you have this mentality of saying you can't ask a man out... If you took the bold step and did it, maybe you'd have been the one getting married to him on the 27th.

If he turned you down, it would've still been okay because life goes on.

I'm a lady and I was the first one to ask my fiance out some years ago, I was still a high school girl back then, but there was no way I was going to let him slip away just like that and it worked...

The best thing you can do now is just accept that he's gone and move on with your life.

Was he in love and in a relationship with you too

Or u were just imagining the relationship on your own.

This one don go use her husband material take do boyfriend material throway finish..Now her eyes don clear,she don dey regret..Her agric fowl don lay cook eggs wey native fowl lay

This should serve as a lesson to those nairaland bannies that are fond of selecting guys like beans.......

Samantha124:
The problem is that you have this mentality of saying you can't ask a man out... If you took the bold step and did it, maybe you'd have been the one getting married to him on the 27th.

If he turned you down, it would've still been okay because life goes on.

I'm a lady and I was the first one to ask my fiance out some years ago, I was still a high school girl back then, but there was no way I was going to let him slip away just like that and it worked...

The best thing you can do now is just accept that he's gone and move on with your life.

na southy that one fit work.

TIN- this is Naija.

Some women deserve to learn the hard way. Never center your life around no damn man.
But with the way you write you still have a lot of learning to do.

U people will be not learn, imagine I ask Genevieve the actress for a date she turn me down even at are grandma age,she will still cry like this when I post her my wedding invitation card

Samantha124:
The problem is that you have this mentality of saying you can't ask a man out... If you took the bold step and did it, maybe you'd have been the one getting married to him on the 27th.

If he turned you down, it would've still been okay because life goes on.

I'm a lady and I was the first one to ask my fiance out some years ago, I was still a high school girl back then, but there was no way I was going to let him slip away just like that and it worked...

The best thing you can do now is just accept that he's gone and move on with your life.

SA are slu..tty in nature. What you did that works for u there, won't/can't work for her here.

How are SA slutty in nature?

Shalommy:
SA are slu..tty in nature. What you did that works for u there, won't/can't work for her here.

Samantha124:
How are SA slutty in nature?

You know better than i do. So dear, deal with it.

Noo, you're the one who started it, so continue.

How is SA slutty?

Shalommy:
You know better than i do. So dear, deal with it.

Samantha124:
Noo, you're the one who started it, so continue.

How is SA slutty?

You wanna cry? I can lend you a bucket.

You're still not answering my question.

Shalommy:
You wanna cry? I can lend you a bucket.

I'll let this slide because I don't like fighting my fellow women on this forum.

But don't test me, for I'll put you in your place.

It's not my fault that you lack self confidence.

Shalommy:
You wanna cry? I can lend you a bucket.

Samantha124:
I'll let this slide because I don't like fighting my fellow women on this forum.

But don't test me, for I'll put you in your place.

It's not my fault that you lack self confidence.

Chaii.. . Wow! I can see that you're pained. But as long as you've gotten the message, you'll be fine. Just the message to your people. One love!

what message?

Shalommy:
Chaii.. . Wow! I can see that you're pained. But as long as you've gotten the message, you'll be fine. Just the message to your people. One love!

Samantha124:
what message?

don't mind that lousy girl

I find it funny that she can't finish what she started...

She's afraid to face me head on and she keeps going around in circles and not going straight to the point because she knows that I'll embarrass her in front of her people and no one will dare come to her rescue.

If I can face nairaland trolls all by myself, then she's just a piece of cake...

blazepascal:
don't mind that lousy girl

Sister I feel your pains
My dear if you love someone see how you can express yourself. The highest the person will say is no and you won't die for expressing yourself.

Let it go. A better one will come
Perhaps I'm always here for you.
I'm all that you described above but I don't have money presently o but the money is coming.

Samantha124:
I'll let this slide because I don't like fighting my fellow women on this forum.

But don't test me, for I'll put you in your place.

It's not my fault that you lack self confidence.

Don't mind my Shalommy the wall lizard.

She has a clitoris which is larger than her brain hence she reasons with it.

Apologies for her doings

I will see to it that she is disciplined

Sniper has always been a solution in situations like this

CCIA:

Don't mind my Shalommy the wall lizard.

She has a clitoris which is larger than her brain hence she reasons with it.

Apologies for her doings

I will see to it that she is disciplined

Hor..ny hego..at. Apologies kee u and samantha there.