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I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness - Romance - Nairaland 492x
I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness (28229 Views)
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| Effizybozz: 9:30pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
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As I guy I'm always shy around my fellow guys  I don’t know why, im trying to overcome the shyness is not just working  I act a little bit feminine but not all that girly tho, I’m always shy that they will monk me or say something I wouldn’t like…How do I overcome this shyness, it actually ki!!ing Me, im an introvert because of this. There are some guys I’m not comfortable around them, when I’m with them I want them to go, secondly if I see group of guys, I will be shy to there… if I walk into a place sometimes and I see lots of guys I will be shy at first, then when I look at their faces, the shyness will reduce a bit What do I do? Is it normal.. I need advice please from Matured minds only 24 Likes 2 Shares |
| Candidlady: 9:31pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
 Why not just embrace the feminine part of you.. there is no sin in that... Ask Samueltemi337 Miracrood2 and poweredcom 34 Likes 5 Shares |
| MrBrownJay1(m): 9:34pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Effizybozz: you shouldnt really care how you feel around guys, but instead focus on being the best you can around WOMEN. Candidlady: 
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| Effizybozz: 9:35pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Candidlady: Lmao, I’m not that feminine, just a little bit. The way I talk maybe, you know when someone say why you Dey do like woman… that always send chill down my spine, I hate hearing it  
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| Effizybozz: 9:38pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: I actually don’t fancy things like watching football that what 90% of guys do, I only fancy adventure, movies, wrestling and the likes… 24 Likes 1 Share |
| MrBrownJay1(m): 9:41pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Effizybozz: bro, nothing wrong with the above, each to their own pleasures in life. men are different in so many different ways. just be you! 104 Likes 4 Shares |
| OloYeOfEgbE: 9:41pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
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Pshewww Ode. 33 Likes 3 Shares |
| Blackestjunior(m): 9:48pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
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Ok na
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| 4KNGOATS(m): 9:48pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Effizybozz:Gay Modafukkaa 31 Likes 3 Shares |
| Onucs(m): 9:53pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
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Is this dude serious? How would a guy be shy around guys? Jeez, what am I saying. This is the 21st century, shit's glaring. Damn! Another man down 
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| poweredcom(m): 9:59pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Candidlady: Dont mention me again in this type of post 44 Likes 5 Shares |
| Effizybozz: 9:59pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
OloYeOfEgbE: If you have anything reasonable to contribute I suggest you take your self and gediofiok out of here 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| OloYeOfEgbE: 10:02pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Effizybozz: You no go even wan try am.....Na me you wan cyberbully... You just want make I use shine..Avoid ban..Night Don come 38 Likes 2 Shares |
| Candidlady: 10:03pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: LMAO Mrbrown Igave him the best advice He got feminism in him why hide it like it is a curse If samueltemi337 miracrood2 and poweredcom chose not to hide theirs then what are we saying -- need to pipe down on this angel dust---- 7 Likes |
| benqo01(m): 10:05pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
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THIS IS REALLY WEIRD IF IT WAS GIRLS NOW NO PROB BUT YOUR FELLOW GUYS? SOUNDS STRANGE
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| Effizybozz: 10:09pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Onucs: Another man down?? Get over your self boy  
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| Onucs(m): 10:18pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Effizybozz: If you say intimidated, I will understand but shy? DAMN! (in a loud voice)
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| Onucs(m): 10:19pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
benqo01: Ah ah Wahala |
| Effizybozz: 10:32pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
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Please if you have nothing good to contribute I suggest you leave this thread
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| okunwaye(m): 11:03pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
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| poweredcom(m): 11:13pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Candidlady: Just back d F up ...before u get d smack up , dont mention dis to me any longer you troll 2 Likes |
| youngfocus(m): 11:22pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Effizybozz:How old are u first,I was once like u doing to the fact that I was raise by strict parent,but with time I unlearn so many things ND learn wat needed to b learn how to relate how to socialize I can b both introvert ND extrovert now infact I b master planner now.nothing is wrong with u when u grow older u will blend bro 24 Likes 1 Share |
| udede(m): 4:44am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Effizybozz:something you can stop by smoking igbo. But must i teach you guys everything. Kids every where
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| Puss360(f): 6:42am On Jul 15, 2023 |
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Be who you are.. If you are feminine, continue that way.... Never ever try to be what you are not.... If you are shy around guys, just work on your self-esteem... Don't to mingle with guys... Being alive is a single race... So why leave your lane?? You said you are "a bit" feminine, even if you are very feminine, there will still be people both guys and girls that like you as a frnd... 10 Likes |
| Purvan(m): 8:56am On Jul 15, 2023 |
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How nerdy are you?? Let me check if you're an actual introvert or a gei nigger smooching under an introvert cover 2 Likes |
| Angel55555(m): 9:06am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Candidlady:That's how sissies and fa*gs are born. 6 Likes |
| Sonnobax15(m): 9:41am On Jul 15, 2023 |
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Symptoms of a Gay.. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Mountbatten: 10:00am On Jul 15, 2023 |
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Wallahi it's giving LGTV vibes
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| Namaster: 10:06am On Jul 15, 2023 |
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Start going to the gym. Or do body weight exercises. It's madness to be shy around men. Especially in this Nigeria where a lot of men are dirty, potbellied and dress like crap.
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| kenedyx: 10:07am On Jul 15, 2023 |
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Don't listen to anyone telling you to embrace it.. na man you be! Stop using the word "shy" to explain this problem, use "intimidated," you're feeling intimidated. The right terminology is important so you can know where to put your focus. You can solve this, one habit at a time.. if you try to be James Bond at once you go too suffer. So, find one thing you don't like most about your interactions with guys and start small from there. For example you may want to maintain stronger eye , make firmer handshakes, always stand straight, don't rest on anything. You may like to have more input in conversations.. so, always chip in one or two confidently without caring whether you are right or wrong.. na talk dey bring talk. In no time you will be starting conversations yourself. Start small and once the masculine energy enters you, you can only get better from there. Eventually you'd know how to handle bullies. Understand that they're actually very scared people that's why they act the way they do. These are survival skills you must have as a man if you must make it in life.. and on time, too. Otherwise you would find that people will just pick on you for no reason, that's if it's not already happening. 64 Likes 5 Shares |
| madscientist88(m): 11:49am On Jul 15, 2023 |
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have you been molested by an adult male as a child before?(a homo'sexual),what you are exhibiting is a sign of trauma and lack of self confidence which is often seen in people who have been raped before or bullied and gender shamed.you obviously need to see a councilor, another reason could be that you just find men attractive for some reason.
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| Fhaze(m): 12:04pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
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Lol...wake up from your slumber
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