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I found out that she has been exchanging texts with an alfa about me.
I didn't know they were discussing about me and I never asked.
She sent my name (native name inclusive) to the alfa.
As soon as I found out, I ran!!

dona4real:
Saw where the guy was telling her he misses the things

what thing?

Let's say I check it and find him exchanging some innocent jokes with his female colleague, or a female acquaintance... Next thing I start suspecting him for something that's not even there.

Whenever I see him with a female talking, I start getting paranoid and insecured, then I end up losing the trust I had in him.

We start fighting all the time for something that's not there and in the end he ends the relationship, what do you then have to say about that

jaxxy:


I will advise people to check their partners fones when unsure of the behaviour atleast once. It will be a revelation and a lesson about the human nature.

That's where I caught she dey cheat on me with different guys. Thank God intro I planned for this year no go happen again

Samantha124:
Let's say I check it and find him exchanging some innocent jokes with his female colleague, or a female acquaintance... Next thing I start suspecting him for something that's not even there.

Whenever I see him with a female talking, I start getting paranoid and insecured, then I end up losing the trust I had in him.

We start fighting all the time for something that's not there and in the end he ends the relationship, what do you then have to say about that

There is nothing wrong in checking ur partners fone, u were already suspicious b4 u checked it innit?

For me it shouldn't be a big deal and if I can't check a girls fone in a serious relationship that relationship isn't going anywhere.

It's not even about cheating or not cheating for me bt the lack of trust I feel a decent relationship should have. She should go and date sm1 she can't trust..

When sm1 gives me reasons to doubt them in a serious relationship I walk away from the trash because it's not worth my time. I don't even to to confirm anything or check ur fone.

I advise you check for sometime. E get why. Know what you have. From experience sha..

millstone:
Found out I am the side guy yet we dey talk marriage

So wat later happened

Heroicvic:
She saved my name as Victor eleko😂 my head wan blow that day

Later she changed it to orangutan saying I'm annoying her

But today, guess what

This chat reminds me of my ex Rosslyn.

I don't mind people using my phone.

Some secrets are only for us to know even if we're in relationships and I prefer finding those secrets while I'm using his phone for other reasons.

What if his friend just confided in him and next thing I start reading the messages and I start telling my friends about it?

achimendy:




Don't talk like that


Alot of secret have been exposed while checking one's partners phone, even when they intend to use it for other reasons, which the guilty partner ends up apologising.

No matter how you claim to be mr or mrs privacy, your partner or fiancee will one day use your phone for one reason or the other, even me I dont like people going through my phone but I might ignore for some certain reasons. The only solution is to stay clean and avoid cheating.

Samantha124:
If I catch you doing that, I'll put s everywhere even if I'm not cheating or anything like that.

I hate it when people invade my privacy, especially if I know that I'm not up to anything.... And you'll only give me a reason to start suspecting you.

U NEVER gonna catch me doin that and moreover i only do it beginning of d relationship. Thats how i build my trust one gatz b careful dis days..

Kobicove:
Only idle people have time to be snooping through their partner's phone

Dey play until it's late

Angelfrost:


Calm the fvck down Egbon!

Checking the phone 24-7 would never have prevented acts of Infidelity!

That would only make the person smart enough to hide his secrets better! Abi na only phone dem dey hide such things??!

Were people not cheating recklessly before the advent of Phones??!

If there is no trust or love in a relationship, constant monitoring will not change that...! It will make it worse!

It better be checked, Incase break up need to happen fast, you never know if you are the side chick or side guy. Only a CAWORD can not dare to seek the truth.

If you like don't check. All of my exes till I eventually got married I dey always check their phone, if.you like make you be virgin Mary, I go still check.

I'll pretend not to know your whenever I ask to make a call with your phone. You'll believe I'm dumb, till midnight when I wake up to read all your texts, chats, call logs and everything on the phone, then I make my decision based on what I saw.

Check for your mental health and sanity.

It's not for fun. When all was suspicious about our relationship. I demanded to check her phone. She resisted. but when I applied some force. She decided to save the phone from distruction.
It was then I knew that my wife has deleted my name from her phone. I then checked the call logs.my number ed 34.while a strange number has 125.
As I write. We don't communicate to each other.for over 3 month now.

Found a fantasy chat on how much fuckery she had with a guy the last time they met.

It was so so disappointing.

I discovered that my name is no longer in my wife's phone.
A check on the call log shows my number ed 34. While a strange number has 132.
All the reasons for suspicion started when she visited her family. As I write. We don't call each other for the last 3mont. Still with her parents.

SatanKeepOff:
why should i check my partner's phone?

Except if you want to cry

Samantha124:
If I catch you doing that, I'll put s everywhere even if I'm not cheating or anything like that.

I hate it when people invade my privacy, especially if I know that I'm not up to anything.... And you'll only give me a reason to start suspecting you.

which privacy are you talking about? When the main private part is being entered in and out

DaddyRochie1642:




Oga to slap you dey hungry me

why you go slap am? That's how she saved those s with MTN & Airtel

Since you know better, then okay.

hamedollar:
which privacy are you talking about? When the main private part is being entered in and out

I will not check and don't check mine , the worse is ing HIV from a cheating partner , if you like give 20 women belle na ur cup of tea .

If I'm not feeling the vibe anymore , I will also press the ignored button.

I trust my wife.🙂

SatanKeepOff:
why should i check my partner's phone?

Me too. I don't need it

I discovered she was in a love triangle with her soon to be married lecturer. I know the guy bleeped her, but she said it was only a kiss

What To Do When You Are Afflicted.

Apostle Joshua Selman.

Listen And


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mUP_LdmEnTA

Sermwell:
It was back then in school. My girl was made assistant bible study secretary in the campus fellowship. They kept disturbing her that she can't date anyone because of the position she occupies. She asked me to hold on with the relationship till her tenure ends. I agreed.

After about 3 months, she came visiting and I checked her phone. What I saw was heart wrenching.

Another one was after graduation! I checked my girl's phone and saw how my landlord's first son was willing to transfer 25k to my girl if she will agree to sleep with him. She didn't agree tho

Was it the same girl?
Can you share what you saw after 3 months?

zeenaman:
"were the sexes out of love" she sent this to the guy she introduced to me as her religious mentor

She might be referring to "gender" here o. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

moscobabs:
I found out that my Wife and her friend always discuss about their husbands.

Common among ladies o, even at boyfriend-girlfriend stage they still do that. 😂😂

wonder233:
Almost everyone is saying they don't check their partners phones because they want "peace of mind". It simply means that deep down, people know their partners/spouses are unfaithful.
Whether we it it or not, monogamy is unworkable. Humans are just deceiving themselves by imposing an impossible condition on themselves.
Humans, just like other animals, are instinctively drawn to varieties. Mental acuity can't eradicate this, highest, it moderates it. But there must be variety

You are smart. I learnt this the hard way.

And in this Nigeria jungle of a country, it gets worse.

Him, telling other women that he isn't married when we already have children

LookinguntoGod:
Of what purpose is the reason checking my partner's phone? I don't see the need for me even if she's cheating and that is her business honestly

Hope you don't engage in premarital sex with her, cos if you do engage in coitus and she gets infected with HIV while cheating, it will definitely become your business. 😂😂

payosehtor:
I discovered that my name is no longer in my wife's phone.
A check on the call log shows my number ed 34. While a strange number has 132.
All the reasons for suspicion started when she visited her family. As I write. We don't call each other for the last 3mont. Still with her parents.

is it your wife or fiancee or just girlfriend, if na wife just make more research about who the person is to her before you decide,if na fiancee do same,but if na just girlfriend you know what to do.