NewStats: 3,261,966 , 8,175,677 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 09:42 AM j433g

FahBuLous:
They now realise that they (women) have nothing to offer apart from here overused, stretched, rotten, smelly and stinking pussy, just like that of jennyclay and prettygirl200

What do you already have on the table and what do you want a woman to bring to it?

Sanguine:



So does it mean in the "10 freaking years" you don't practice all these things you listed out? 🤔

At times we are limited by finances and really weighed down by family responsibilities.

Meeeen it’s not easy atal.

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

Na you lose interest for your wife na now our love 💕😘 cum even strong💪 sweet🎂 dye even with 3kids. God I love my wife

Jossyfine:


At times we are limited by finances and really weighed down by family responsibilities.

Meeeen it’s not easy atal.

Oh wow. You know, as much as I know marriage is good and beautiful (for those that are doing it right), I don't even envy anybody. Each one with his own cross that he's carrying.

It is well ma.
Sending you love from here. ❤️❤️❤️
The Lord provides all that you need and much more, and strengthen you in every ramification.

Sanguine:



Thank you🤗🤗🤗

Oh wow. You know, as much as I know marriage is good and beautiful (for those that are doing it right), I don't even envy anybody. Each one with his own cross that he's carrying.

It is well ma.
Sending you love from here. ❤️❤️❤️
The Lord provides all that you need and much more, and strengthen you in every ramification.

Mindlog:


Then in their later years when their children are grown and left the house, those people outside are long gone, same men would accuse the wives they ignored in their youth of now ignoring them in their old age as their wives have divested emotionally.

frozen70:




While she is still faithful and looking forward to being with him and Stay close to him at home, he is busy avoiding her because he got a big fish outside

By the time she discovers that he is not giving her the attention she wants, she will face her directions towards the children who will never ignore her and find solace in them

By the time the man is getting old, he starts coming close to the wife, meanwhile she is already done with him but still living with him

That's when the man will become lonely while he is married to his wife

You can only harvest what you sow that's what this life will offer you

You both have solid points.

NoToPile:





You both have solid points.

Thanks dear

Has any of the partner become fat? Have the man becomes broke?

There lie your answer.

the man is not your toy,he can go out and come back as he pleases,that statement alone shows that woman is trouble.secondly all the Men you see at the bar it is because there wives are trouble at home.so from work you run to waste as much time at the bar before you go home and face your devil.the painful part is most demonic women always think themselves good women,na them they like religion too,like say God na fool.

EriMma1:


What of in a situation where the woman doesn't nag or do any of those things you pointed out, yet the man still prefers to hang out with friends for the most of the day, coming back only when he needs to eat or go to bed.

See, I feel it's a case of greed and lack of affection on the men's side. If you don't have affection for your wife, it will be difficult to stay with her and that is why I don't want arrangee church marriage where the church feels bro and sis are getting old therefore they should get married whether the affection is there or not.

church marriage na scam,emotional marriage also scam.
three things for marrage
1)RESPECT very very important,without it no man can love any women,he can only bear you for a while.
2) character,that is what sustains marriages ,that emotional feeling go expire but the character na the real deal
3)understanding,once you and your partner understand una self,na paddi relationship be that,nobody fit use una head rather na una go dey use people play.let me give you a case study,I know someone him and wife marry,them they get issues for bed.some times the wife no go like make him touch am,some other time she want head only nothing else.one day him tell the woman ,you better come straight with me or this marriage go end.she come tell am say she dey fear to talk the man start to pack bag,na him the woman come open mouth say the thing is she is into girls but she like the man anything just say him no fit do am as her girls fit ,brother shock leave bag go drink for like three days because him no reason him wife like so,when he return him tell him wife well ,na me get you mean say any woman when touch you,I must touch am.so na there understanding be that,they are 12 Years married now 2 kids and I swear,if you see two of them ,na like 2 paddi dey leave.nobody fit run them street.

EriMma1:


What of in a situation where the woman doesn't nag or do any of those things you pointed out, yet the man still prefers to hang out with friends for the most of the day, coming back only when he needs to eat or go to bed.

See, I feel it's a case of greed and lack of affection on the men's side. If you don't have affection for your wife, it will be difficult to stay with her and that is why I don't want arrangee church marriage where the church feels bro and sis are getting old therefore they should get married whether the affection is there or not.

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

occurrence like this will happen if either of the partner got married on the basics of "necessity", "forced to marry", or "married because the other partner was what was available".

Amongst other things when you marry, make sure to marry who you fancy and equally fancies you likewise.

See finish

It's not easy watching only African Magic for the rest of your life.

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

Jman06:
Because women go out of shape once married due to excessive eating and laziness that hinder them from exercising and keeping fit.

Before you know it they become potbellied, oversized and unattractive. So it is natural for the man to lose interest in her.

It is not an excuse accepted by all men. After given birth and house chores, do you expect her to be the same?
We should always help our spouse irrespective of our status

Have you lost urs?

There are 2 main reasons. 1) Men are polygamous in nature 2) There's a lot of infidelity in d society

EriMma1:
I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

After u marry, then you can repeat your boast. For now, just keep your thoughts to yourself.

Meanwhile, which research did u do to have arrived at your conclusion about married couples?

How can a man be forking the same smelly vagina for 5,10 or 15 years? No way!!! And oh! A man marries his slim, clean, pretty, hygienic and smells nice wife, suddenlly after few years of marriage his wife turns into a fat assed nearly obese, smelly, rotten teeth, lazy wrinkled woman who smells really bad and snores in bed.

Jman06:
Because women go out of shape once married due to excessive eating and laziness that hinder them from exercising and keeping fit.

Before you know it they become potbellied, oversized and unattractive. So it is natural for the man to lose interest in her.

Juju Austin Obasi on the beat. Its not easy to eat only Egusi soup for 15years or eat only fried rice and chicken for 15years. Naija men will always find excuse . Look at Yul and May Edochie.
Look at Medlin Boss and her bestie marriage she wrecked. She is not even better attractive than main wife.

Jman06:
Most women become unattractive once married. That's why married men cheat.

Imagine seeing one hippopotamus with oversized grandma panties everyday. The man is bound to lose interest in her. If not for children and what the society would say, most married men would chase their wives away after few years of marriage.

Have respect for women, at least no be animal gave birth to you.

According to some men want variety, some no longer find their wife attractive due to weight gain or child birth, some are financially frustrated etc

We are still animals . Male can never be sexually satisfied.

Many people dont fancy love.....we are only getting married for reasons

Bukata

EriMma1:


You're sure this is the reason? I doubt.

I think after a while, men lose their appetite for their wives and desire something fresh and new especially ones that seem hard to get. It's just a thing with the men. This is the reason I'm not ready to be tied to one man who will get tired and want to explore other options . Chai!

But for how long will you wait?

Except you have made up your mind not to get married.

EriMma1:


Prayers? These ones are pastors o

Na two by two the man need.

Go and kill your brother in-law na. It's attitude like yours that made your brother in-law to always curve your sister when they are in public.

[quote author=EriMma1 post=123709124]I've been observing this for some time now. Once a couple has lived together for ten years,
the closeness between them reduces. As in.. the man no longer sits with the wife to gist or even play. Meanwhile, you'll still see the woman trying to bond and wanting her man to always be around her.

I noticed this in one couple. In fact they are pastor and Mrs. The woman always follows the man every where and wants to sit where he's sitting but the man would clearly avoid her and go out of sight completely when the tailing becomes too much and only come back when the woman is no longer in sight. Why?

No man born of a woman will try such with me, I'll blank you like you're not there.

Women, you too should wise up and stop making yourselves too available. Make yourself a bit scarce and they'll value you.

[/quote ] Unfortunately if a wife gives much space to her husband because she doesn't want to be too available to him,that will give him more room to cheate

EriMma1:


I want to believe this the cause because one day the woman approached me and said I should make the cream I'm using for her saying she wants her color to come out. I was shocked cos I felt she's dark and don't know which color she wants to come out again. Or is it because the man is always jokingly calling me girlfriend... I don't know but I suspected she was feeling less attractive or what? Hmmm....

oooh. you're actually the problem but seem not to know because you dont pay attention.. the man is now wishing he had you as his wife and not the actual wife only if the wife can be as good as you..... see woman... na that pastor wife go pour you acid .. you go say i talk am

Is not easy to stay with one person for years, it takes a lot of discipline