NewStats: 3,262,765 , 8,178,081 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 01:45 PM 594i58

Imagine after taking this girl out, promising her heaven and earth and on your way from shopping, she said " Jude, i need to go home first and come to your place in about 10mins"


You wait and wait but she doesn't shows up. Knowing fully well you're bigger than her level.

I had this experience while I was in school, five years later, i met her again and while she shows her desperation to date me, i ed her past deeds and block all her line.

I will reply her never to come again, and I’ll show the video of me and the other lady that happens to show up the way we are vining and happy..

😂

E dey pain true true but you gats take heart base on those you have disappointed in one way or another in life.

Lol

There's always a plan B

Whenever a girl promises to visit., always program your mind to believe that she won't turn up.
That way you won't feel disappointed when she doesn't show up

That's why if you understand girls very well, it doesn't make sense to have only one. Chat up 5 if you need 3, and 4 if you need 2. One fumbles, call the other. You should also play on them based on their temperament. Some are emotional and empathic while some are stone-hearted. You use their soft spot to catch them

After 5 years you still have all her line, Nawa o

I usually keep the possibility of being disappointed by a no show on the lady's part. The main problem we have in this age and time is our lips are disconnected from our hearts. Hence people for some reason they choose not to disclose are not completely honest with you even when they know your intentions are honourable. Many young people, particularly ladies nowadays are too fond of hiding their true feelings for you. As a result, you are forced to depend on guesswork even though the door to leaving the relationship remains open. Most of them (ladies) act like that because to them, you are nothing more an means of survival, their last resort when they need airtime or money. They are confused about where to place you in the scheme of things because you have not given them a solid reason to dump you and walk away but you're not the kind of man they want. So you get friend-zoned and you are a ready shoulder to cry on when the main man hurts their feelings

Teenagers with all the rioting hormones easily fall prey to female whims and caprices.
But as maturity sets in and with experience, you'll know that the chances of a girl fulfilling her promise is 50-50.
If she shows up fine. If she doesn't, fine.
If she calls to apologize, she has to fix a new date by herself.
Otherwise, just move on

Lol it depends on the guy... If you deh friend babe and na you deh chase her, that's exactly what you gonna expect,,,

So happy, my money is safe

Always have plan B, C and D

It's part of the experience of being a bachelor... it's no big deal unless you wan die on top one toto...

I never expected any girl to show up. It's always easy never to think about it.

Only kids do expect a lady to show up after she promise she’s coming. Back in sec sch ola really show me shage she will promise me to wait for her she’s coming now now mumu me will be waiting.

Next time, invest incrementally. Why promise heaven and earth? How much do you have sef? If I ask you for 1M naira, can you give?

When you meet a girl for the first time, your spending and how you open up to her should be incremental in nature, not instant. Or are you instant milk?

If on first meet up you go to chicken republic, then the next one may be a meet up in the park. At a start, you should Invest in such a way that if she ghost you, you won't even feel it.

Don't just assume that a girl has good morals because she makes your deek erect. A lot of these girls are advance players, forget the innocent face.

100's of men have probably toasted her before you, and she have seen all the game there is, even if she is below 20.

Social media also is giving her daily doses of games and how to deal with you. You just don't know that you are the prey. How foolish are you lol. You still de learn work.

To answer your question, the truth is that there is nothing you can do, or should do. If she flakes, just observe and see if it was a genuine flaking, and not planned. If it's genuine, then she will make it up to you another date.

If it's fake, then accept it and move on. Otherwise, you just postpone your heartbreak to the future, where you would have invested a lot emotionally, financially and mentally. You'll feel robbed when she dump you.

So just as you kill bad habits before it germinates, you should do the same to that feelings that is dragging you to suffer. If a woman give you signs of not liking you, leave her. Don't force it.

She wanted the outing not you. She could not tell you she wasn’t going to come, seeing as you spent money in anticipation of a private moment with her.

Imagine you meet a girl today and she starts talking about marriage tomorrow, would her desperation not scare you? Thats the same way your desperation to knack scares her.