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WONDER SHALL NEVER CEASE....

Abeg make una help me shook mouth for this matter

A Nigerian Lady Identified as Elohor Okudu narrates how her husband has refused to help her own family after paying almost N580k bride Price.

The story was shared by a twitter identified as @SmartAtuadi, the lady is seeking professional advice as the issue bothers her.

She Wrote: “I got married 8months ago, my hubby earns 70k monthly while I am yet to get a job, during our wedding ceremony, hubby spent about 580k on the list given to him for the traditional wedding, I persuaded my parents to reduce the list but they said it is a must and a tradition.”

“He was able to raise the money as I wasnt working and I couldn’t help financially. After marriage I suggested that he should be sending something monthly to my parents as he does send to his parents too, but to my surprise the reply he gave me was that he didn’t owe my parents anything that they have collected all they are entitled to fromHelpNigerianally I was not angry about that until my younger brother wanted to get married and his bride family gave him list of things for the traditional wedding which amounted to 400k.”

“My dad then shared the expenses and told my husband to contribute 120k towards my brother’s wedding but to my surprise, my husband said no and told me that my family has collected all they wanted during our wedding and they shouldn’t come to him for any financial assistance, this got me angry and I told him that he is not responsible.”

“Ever since then we have been living like strangers in the house, he doesn’t talk to me, he has just been keeping to himself, and I have never seen him this way before not even in our 2 years of courting.

“Please our mummies and daddies, kindly advise me on what to do to save the situation, I am in between my husband and my family”.

stupid woman selfish and greedy bastard. to strangle you just dey hungry mee

I got married 8months ago, my hubby earns 70k monthly while I am yet to get a job,

Jobless liability of a wife!

Where do you expect a family man that earns meagre 70k a month to get money to help your useless family?

She is not stupid but a greedy woman

mmadu5:
stupid womam

:

“My dad then shared the expenses and told my husband to contribute 120k towards my brother’s wedding but to my surprise, my husband said no and told me that my family has collected all they wanted during our wedding and they shouldn’t come to him for any financial assistance, this got me angry and I told him that he is not responsible.”

Your Husband should contribute money for your brother's wedding

Naming ceremony too I'm sure they'll still contribute for him.

Even the woman father na very stupid man.... If I happened to be in that family, I'll will lock all of them up, let them do the wedding in Jail. Awon oloshi.

Totilopussylick:
She is not stupid but a greedy woman

She's also stupid and foolish for telling her husband he's not responsible. She's just a docile liability! I pity that innocent man that accommodated her.

Absolute nonsense. This entitlement mentality is getting out of hand. So the husband is now his in-laws' ATM. God forbid 🙄

May God punish that man if he ever contemplate spending even 1kobo on ur family. What nonsense!

This topic has graced FP before


Old news

What a family

kyber:

“My dad then shared the expenses and told my husband to contribute 120k towards my brother’s wedding but to my surprise, my husband said no and told me that my family has collected all they wanted during our wedding and they shouldn’t come to him for any financial assistance, this got me angry and I told him that he is not responsible.”

“Ever since then we have been living like strangers in the house, he doesn’t talk to me, he has just been keeping to himself, and I have never seen him this way before not even in our 2 years of courting.

“Please our mummies and daddies, kindly advise me on what to do to save the situation, I am in between my husband and my family”.

Why should your husband be asked to contribute in your brother's wedding? will your husband be allowed to sleep with your brother's wife when she is finally taken?

He's a kind man indeed....

They(her family) weren't told they were selling their daughter out indirectly when they were unnecessarily billing the innocent man who came to pity them by marrying their daughter

kyber:
WONDER SHALL NEVER CEASE....

Abeg make una help me shook mouth for this matter

A Nigerian Lady Identified as Elohor Okudu narrates how her husband has refused to help her own family after paying almost N580k bride Price.

The story was shared by a twitter identified as @SmartAtuadi, the lady is seeking professional advice as the issue bothers her.

She Wrote: “I got married 8months ago, my hubby earns 70k monthly while I am yet to get a job, during our wedding ceremony, hubby spent about 580k on the list given to him for the traditional wedding, I persuaded my parents to reduce the list but they said it is a must and a tradition.”

“He was able to raise the money as I wasnt working and I couldn’t help financially. After marriage I suggested that he should be sending something monthly to my parents as he does send to his parents too, but to my surprise the reply he gave me was that he didn’t owe my parents anything that they have collected all they are entitled to fromHelpNigerianally I was not angry about that until my younger brother wanted to get married and his bride family gave him list of things for the traditional wedding which amounted to 400k.”

Old story

I have lost the number of times I have read and engaged this post on Nl

N580K Bride price how? BRIDE PRICE is different from WEDDING EXPENSES oh. Correct your heading/topic. To the issue, her husband cannot be forced to do anything for her family, besides, the younger brother is not her husband's responsibility. If her younger bro cannot afford to marry he should remain single.
That so-called wife is a liability and she is on mission to wreck the innocent man thaf has married her. Her family too is a parasitic family.

Why will you marry a man that broke

siofra:
Why will you marry a man that broke

And the wife is rich baaa I don't know why most Nigerian girls are just plain senseless!!!

For your information, rich guys now are not settling for fine face, breast and yansh o they now go for valuable girls that has something else to offer apart from vagina.

No go find work inugo.... Dey play'

This is 2023. Except you're damn sure the girl will be a plus to your life, do not date a girl with no job. Her occupation should be included in her cv. No job, no boyfriend.

siofra:
Why will you marry a man that broke

But, the wife is jobless, wretched and miserable na

tochez24:



And the wife is rich baaa I don't know why most Nigerian girls are just plain senseless!!!

For your information, rich guys now are not settling for fine face, breast and yansh o they now go for valuable girls that has something else to offer apart from vagina.

No go find work inugo.... Dey play'

Are you among the rich guys? I don't think so.

When the topic is, "preferences of poor men", we'll let you know.

Old story

kyber:
WONDER SHALL NEVER CEASE....

Abeg make una help me shook mouth for this matter

A Nigerian Lady Identified as Elohor Okudu narrates how her husband has refused to help her own family after paying almost N580k bride Price.

The story was shared by a twitter identified as @SmartAtuadi, the lady is seeking professional advice as the issue bothers her.

She Wrote: “I got married 8months ago, my hubby earns 70k monthly while I am yet to get a job, during our wedding ceremony, hubby spent about 580k on the list given to him for the traditional wedding, I persuaded my parents to reduce the list but they said it is a must and a tradition.”

“He was able to raise the money as I wasnt working and I couldn’t help financially. After marriage I suggested that he should be sending something monthly to my parents as he does send to his parents too, but to my surprise the reply he gave me was that he didn’t owe my parents anything that they have collected all they are entitled to fromHelpNigerianally I was not angry about that until my younger brother wanted to get married and his bride family gave him list of things for the traditional wedding which amounted to 400k.”

oloriburuku woman kuku kill ur husband

Good for him .
Lessom 101 :- Don't marry a jobless woman

Run away from liabilities.

Never house a liability
I repeat, never house a liability

Old old story

Count me far away from Begger girls

Anytime I see them I dust my slippers and run for my life

mmadu5:
stupid woman selfish and greedy bastard. to strangle you just dey hungry mee

Strangle her for adhering to what is a culture and accepted tradition in Nigeria?

Nonsense,they should return his 580k back to him...unfortunately they can never afford it,wereh family.if her papa die self,I no go give shishi.

kyber:
WONDER SHALL NEVER CEASE....

Abeg make una help me shook mouth for this matter

A Nigerian Lady Identified as Elohor Okudu narrates how her husband has refused to help her own family after paying almost N580k bride Price.

The story was shared by a twitter identified as @SmartAtuadi, the lady is seeking professional advice as the issue bothers her.

She Wrote: “I got married 8months ago, my hubby earns 70k monthly while I am yet to get a job, during our wedding ceremony, hubby spent about 580k on the list given to him for the traditional wedding, I persuaded my parents to reduce the list but they said it is a must and a tradition.”

“He was able to raise the money as I wasnt working and I couldn’t help financially. After marriage I suggested that he should be sending something monthly to my parents as he does send to his parents too, but to my surprise the reply he gave me was that he didn’t owe my parents anything that they have collected all they are entitled to fromHelpNigerianally I was not angry about that until my younger brother wanted to get married and his bride family gave him list of things for the traditional wedding which amounted to 400k.”

How many times would this story be presented here??
It has been extensively discussed on this forum.

Totilopussylick:
She is not stupid but a greedy woman

omo she's clearly stupid. who thinks like that? I dont think she' greedy, nah stupid she stupid

And to think she's worth 580k in bride price. Omo the woman nah chinko, fake china product. Her husband was ripped