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BigDick70inch(m): 8:14pm On Mar 02, 2023
Lamanii22:



How about surrogacy? I never knew people go through so much just to have babies… I told God that I’m not ready for a second baby cause of the economy but he still gave me…. Isn’t there a cure to your wife’s ailment?

U pregnant again??
success4love(m): 8:32pm On Mar 02, 2023
Keep trying, go and see gynaecologist. You can also try adoption pending the time
4ward4: 8:44pm On Mar 02, 2023
Wodu89:




We've heard you. Your daughter would one day get to that age and if she's unmarried, my dear, kill her !

His daughter is far fetched , his sisters and cousins are very much unmarried at that age

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okerekingsley90: 9:04pm On Mar 02, 2023
Socratiz:
My friend's daughter was married for four years before they got a baby following the simplest of method. It may be as difficult as it is painted to you.

There is a very simple formula that can assist you. You don't have to divorce your wife.

I cannot reveal much online but you can send me a DM.

I believe there is a solution, you just have to find out where you can get it.

Please how can I have your phone number or send a dm. God bless you as you respond
ElijahIme1992(m): 9:11pm On Mar 02, 2023
eglobalcafe:
Good morning to everyone, please i sincerely need your advice please, i see no reason why people should insult me but all i plead is just a sincere advice. Am confused on what to do thats why am here, help a brother.

I have been married for 4 years now and my wife has pcos which is preventing her from ovulating and now am 35 years of age and she's 30 years now and our marriage is 4 years but we have been together for 6 years. Please what should i do, yes i understand this is hereditary that's why she can not conceive according to Doctor, but she can only get pregnant if she uses supplements thats going to enhance her ovulation that's when she can conceive, might not be easy but the drugs will assist.

We have done 1 ivf that failed already and we are about to go another round of ivf again. Am positive it will work, the last ivf we did, she had miscarriage so am kind of scared for another miscarriage again, ivf is expensive cost almost 2m because of other drugs you pay weekly 54k for tge next 3 months.

Please i don't want another wife because i know its not a good road because Walhalla, once i carry another woman my wife will start to give me different treatments as a wife. I love my wife so much but how long can i continue to stay childless, and this thing makes my wife cry almost all night and even i cant sleep because of we can't have a baby because of PCOS that she has.

So mentally it's drains me cos am only pretending am okay while am not okay because i dont want her to panic. Please advise me, my family advised i get another woman pregnant but i should not divorce her. And sometimes i says to myself will i be happy if i was the one who has this problem and i said to my myself if i was the one with this issue i will let my wife go marry another man.

And my wife loves me so much and she hate to see me or hear me talk about another wife or another woman

Please help a brother, what do you guys think i should do please.

My wife has clearly told me if i want to take another woman she will leave me instantly because of the wahala of polygamy.

Please should i get another woman pregnant.
Should i still be patient
Or what's your advice but just know its not easy as i have been doing my best not to hurt my wife, this days people die any how, sometimes i feel what if i die today and no children that's my greatest fear because i have hustle so hard to build a house and financially we are managing.

Should i get another woman pregnant or divorce my wife by telling her this thing is not working please advise me. According to doctors me as a man am healthy no issues with me
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A305: 10:28pm On Mar 02, 2023
I feel bitter not because your wife can't conceive but for her having the guts to still manipulate you with leaving if you get another woman pregnant.

If she loves you, she should reach a compromise with you to either try surrogacy or get another girl pregnant, while you keep trying with her. She is being manipulative with love and you too blind to see it.


To cure PCOS, try getting rid of belly fat and drastically lower blood sugar and ensure her biles are functional. If her biles isn't functional, it wouldn't enable her produce the optimum amount of estrogen.

But bros, if I be you, I for don give one girl belle outside, rent house for her and tell your wife after the girl don born. You no go spend reach that 2 million self. Don't be blinded by love son.

To love is to suffer and you suffering now.

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Senkasa(m): 10:28pm On Mar 02, 2023
If you will listen, just get a second wife ASAP. Don't remain a fool till 40. Your wife toyed during her youth days, and it has come to hunt her.

Ask your self, if tables were turned, would your wife stay? Use your head man.. we women don't genuinely love.

If you had low sperm count, she wouldn't even blink an eye lid before leaving you. You know the truth but choose to live in denial. Continue...


To be forewarned is to be forearmed.
jedisco(m): 10:28pm On Mar 02, 2023
Alot of people talking what they do not know. PCOS has absolutely nothing to do with virginity or how chaste a lady is.

@op, consider the option of trying for another IVF, surrogacy, adoption or moving abroad. Sit and discuss with her in a non-emotional way

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TheCongo2: 10:32pm On Mar 02, 2023
Senkasa:
[/b]If you will listen, just get a second wife ASAP. Don't remain a fool till 40. Your wife toyed during her youth days, and it has come to hunt her.

Ask your self, if tables were turned, would your wife stay? Use your head man.. we women don't genuinely love.

If you had low sperm count, she wouldn't even blink an eye lid before leaving you. You know the truth but choose to live in denial. Continue...


To be forewarned is to be forearmed.[/b]

Are you a lady ?
I have never heard of a lady who left her marriage because of childless issue
frozen70(f): 10:37pm On Mar 02, 2023
eglobalcafe:
I married her a virgin

You have other options like adoption and surrogacy

When you are able to achieve any one of the two, you will become a father and she a mother

Then if you allow your family to push you out to pregnant another woman due to pressure, she will not leave the child for you as she will want you to marry her

May God direct you on what to do

But try the options I mentioned, then she will be busy with a child

As for IVF, age affects IVF too, just to avoid another waste of money

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Senkasa(m): 10:43pm On Mar 02, 2023
TheCongo2:


Are you a lady ?
I have never heard of a lady who left her marriage because of childless issue

Maybe. We ladies are incapable of love. And are very cunning to the last! undecided grin
MarketDispatch: 11:28pm On Mar 02, 2023
eglobalcafe:
Good morning to everyone, please i sincerely need your advice please, i no issues with me

The treatment I have is for men. I don't know if it will work on your woman, except you try it.
Littlechild(m): 12:38am On Mar 03, 2023
My words will always look foolish to the typical Nigeria man, but not so to the spiritually minded.

You have a good job
You built your own house
You own a car/cars
You have a wonderful wife

Didn't you achieve all these above through patient?

You are a 35 years old man.

Now just take a look at me. I am 38 years old and don't have all the things you currently have, yet I have no worries about having them. So why are you a good 35 year old man in a hurry?

If truly you love your wife as you say, why don't you exercise more patient and fight it through with her?

Don't you see you are spiritually very ignorant, lazy and foolish?

Don't you know that you have a good woman? And anything good will always be attack by enemies (demonic powers)?

Don't you see that your marriage is under spiritual attack?
Can't you see that the barrenness of your wife is spiritually rooted?

What do you think if I say that the eggs of your wife is constantly under spiritually attack?

Even if you try medical/science, the powers that made her barren will still kill the fetus which will always lead to miscarriage. You can't by the spiritual.

Why don't you patiently try God?

Even your own violent and commanding prayers can undo her barreness and open her womb.

Awake from your ignorance and pray

eglobalcafe:
Good morning to everyone, please i sincerely need your advice please, i see no reason why people should insult me but all i plead is just a sincere advice. Am confused on what to do thats why am here, help a brother.

We have done 1 ivf that failed already and we are about to go another round of ivf again. Am positive it will work, the last ivf we did, she had miscarriage so am kind of scared for another miscarriage again, ivf is expensive cost almost 2m because of other drugs you pay weekly 54k for tge next 3 months.

Please i don't want another wife because i know its not a good road because Walhalla, once i carry another woman my wife will start to give me different treatments as a wife. I love my wife so much but how long can i continue to stay childless, and this thing makes my wife cry almost all night and even i cant sleep because of we can't have a baby because of PCOS that she has.

So mentally it's drains me cos am only pretending am okay while am not okay because i dont want her to panic. Please advise me, my family advised i get another woman pregnant but i should not divorce her. And sometimes i says to myself will i be happy if i was the one who has this problem and i said to my myself if i was the one with this issue i will let my wife go marry another man.

And my wife loves me so much and she hate to see me or hear me talk about another wife or another woman

Please help a brother, what do you guys think i should do please.

My wife has clearly told me if i want to take another woman she will leave me instantly because of the wahala of polygamy.

Should i get another woman pregnant or divorce my wife by telling her this thing is not working please advise me. According to doctors me as a man am healthy no issues with me

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radiance26(f): 1:01am On Mar 03, 2023
Advice from here, will only compound your problems and mess up your mind.
Pls be patient,God is on your case.If at 35yrs God had blessed you with a car, house and comforts of life,He really loves you.
He will definitely perfect your life.Children will come,just a very tiny patient to go.
I experienced a bit of delay,and I had no money nor a job then,but God shewed up when I least expected.
Degree positivity!
Lamanii22(f): 5:59am On Mar 03, 2023
BigDick70inch:


U pregnant again??

Lol yes by God’s grace…
cocolacec(m): 6:01am On Mar 03, 2023
eglobalcafe:
Good morning to everyone, please i sincerely need your advice please, i see no reason why people should insult me but all i plead is just a sincere advice. Am confused on what to do thats why am here, help a brother.

I have been married for 4 years now and my wife has pcos which is preventing her from ovulating and now am 35 years of age and she's 30 years now and our marriage is 4 years but we have been together for 6 years. Please what should i do, yes i understand this is hereditary that's why she can not conceive according to Doctor, but she can only get pregnant if she uses supplements thats going to enhance her ovulation that's when she can conceive, might not be easy but the drugs will assist.

We have done 1 ivf that failed already and we are about to go another round of ivf again. Am positive it will work, the last ivf we did, she had miscarriage so am kind of scared for another miscarriage again, ivf is expensive cost almost 2m because of other drugs you pay weekly 54k for tge next 3 months.

Please i don't want another wife because i know its not a good road because Walhalla, once i carry another woman my wife will start to give me different treatments as a wife. I love my wife so much but how long can i continue to stay childless, and this thing makes my wife cry almost all night and even i cant sleep because of we can't have a baby because of PCOS that she has.

So mentally it's drains me cos am only pretending am okay while am not okay because i dont want her to panic. Please advise me, my family advised i get another woman pregnant but i should not divorce her. And sometimes i says to myself will i be happy if i was the one who has this problem and i said to my myself if i was the one with this issue i will let my wife go marry another man.

And my wife loves me so much and she hate to see me or hear me talk about another wife or another woman

Please help a brother, what do you guys think i should do please.

My wife has clearly told me if i want to take another woman she will leave me instantly because of the wahala of polygamy.

Please should i get another woman pregnant.
Should i still be patient
Or what's your advice but just know its not easy as i have been doing my best not to hurt my wife, this days people die any how, sometimes i feel what if i die today and no children that's my greatest fear because i have hustle so hard to build a house and financially we are managing.

Should i get another woman pregnant or divorce my wife by telling her this thing is not working please advise me. According to doctors me as a man am healthy no issues with me

Let her loose 5-10% of her weight,avoid bread or gluten.She should be on non starch diet for 6 months.
Concentrate on veggies,protein and fruits.Milk,sugar should be expelled for sometime.

She can supplement with natural Progesterone cream to balance her hormones.Let her treat infections too with anitibiotics.
PCOS is like a prediabetic patient.

She can include exercise in her routine (walk for 30 mins -1hour),4 times a week.

How many times a year does she have her periods?
BigDick70inch(m): 6:03am On Mar 03, 2023
Lamanii22:


Lol yes by God’s grace…

Hahaha....
Yo hubby nah Sharp shooter.....u sef be sharp catchers......

Safe delivery.....
Lamanii22(f): 6:12am On Mar 03, 2023
BigDick70inch:


Hahaha....
Yo hubby nah Sharp shooter.....u sef be sharp catchers......

Safe delivery.....


😂😂😂😂 as in eh… and I avoided this man eh….


Amen thank you 😊

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07kjb: 7:24am On Mar 03, 2023
Make una dey marry virgin you guys won't hear
knowhowk: 7:49am On Mar 03, 2023
Soonest ,You will Conceive.

Check My Signature to send You Testimomies.

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annford: 12:45pm On Mar 03, 2023
JapaToDNext:
I love this your advice, but not everyone can be like u

U have the Money for all the test and also seeing different doctors with experiences,

Which at the end of the day, u achieved your heart desire(children)

What of those that do not have money to conduct test or see a doctor,

What will they do then?

To tell you the truth, the tests we carried out from time to time, weren't even expensive, neither were they regular. Some tests cost 5k, 9k and i think the highest we paid for a test was 25k. We did all sorts from hormonal to virginial. A desperate person never really calculates their loss, not when they have their eyes on their set goal. I refused to go for Ivf because my Doctor-friend kept reassuring us that we would be fine, eventually. We followed all the routine instructions and today, we have 3 children of our own. Was it easy? far from it. But with time and patience, our story changed.
eglobalcafe: 1:11pm On Mar 03, 2023
Thank you all for your advices
annford: 1:20pm On Mar 03, 2023
deewhydoski:

Can you give the details of what you did?, It might help some people here

OK. If I told you, you may doubt it but I have no reason to lie. We did quite a number of crazy things, some out of desperation and others, well, let's say we were just being humans. 1. We knew we only had to trust in God and his word. What options did we have? 2. We took all the instructions my Doctor-friend gave us. 3. We were prescribed hormonal drugs for my wife. We always prayed and fasted. My wife and I never stopped buying stuffs for random kids and carrying them every chance we got (this always works). 4. We made a vow to God that if He gave us kids of our own, we would forever serve him. Generally, we CHOSE to trust God, always love, carry and bless little children and pray for ourselves and our unborn kids each time we carried them. Like i wrote earlier, you may not like my answer but I promise, those were all we did and had to do.
Daninya33: 11:31am On Mar 14, 2023
eglobalcafe:
We have gone fir surogacy dont mind my spelling please, we gone there but the rules in that way is harder, instantly my wufe gave up on surrogacy because of the trouble in it after making enquiries from doctors. Am grateful to some if the advices here.


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