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Wodu89: 11:24am On Mar 02, 2023
SavageResponse:


Na wetin you wan tell am for phone wey you no fit talk for here? angry

Useless detractors. Mr. Perfect pokenoser. Why not bear the burden if wickedness and righteousness of the world self righteous bloated full
eglobalcafe: 11:47am On Mar 02, 2023
We have gone fir surogacy dont mind my spelling please, we gone there but the rules in that way is harder, instantly my wufe gave up on surrogacy because of the trouble in it after making enquiries from doctors. Am grateful to some if the advices here.
imagrg(m): 11:47am On Mar 02, 2023
Fvck other responsible ladies until belle go show, then tell your wife say a lady get belle for you. She go run herself.

Don't be a mumu and continue to talk about love. If na she, small pikin don give am belle since and she go waka leave you.

Man, try your preek outside to see if e dey work. cool

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XDaBOSS(m): 12:44pm On Mar 02, 2023
Ekpekus:
Reading comments here makes me cringe of how insensitive people are.
This road the op is ing is not something palatable and it is hard.
Again, many don't know what Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS) is and what it causes hence these comments.

@op it is difficult but be courageous and discuss with your spouse the option of surrogacy and adoption.

The thing tire me oo.... People just rush to comment without having a good/clear knowledge of what PCOS is.....


eglobalcafe:
We have gone fir surogacy dont mind my spelling please, we gone there but the rules in that way is harder, instantly my wufe gave up on surrogacy because of the trouble in it after making enquiries from doctors. Am grateful to some if the advices here.
Have you considered adopting a child?
Lee29: 1:10pm On Mar 02, 2023
PCOS can be managed.

I will advise she start taking Metformin 1000mg + Vit E for 3 months and you'll see the period getting normal.

There are other medications that can make her get pregnant after the Metformin treatment if there are no other issues apart from PCOS but I won't divulge them here.

Have you checked your sperm motility (not count)?

Overall, prayer in the name of Jesus give solutions to many things including your current challenge.

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deewhydoski(m): 1:48pm On Mar 02, 2023
annford:



My wife had PCOS and Fibroid too. It took us years before our first child came. It is never an easy process, but in the end, you get to realize how divine the process is. My wife didn't really get any treatments for the PCOS cos we were told some of them have adverse effects like blocking of the fallopian tubes, increasing the fibroids, et al. However, we have three kids now. PCOS could be hereditary but then, it is not untreatable. We considered a lot of options like adoption, IVF, Surrogacy and all, but i stood my ground that i was never going to take any of them. Just be patient and calm, consult fertlity Doctors and Gynecologists and i tell you, you would carry your kids too. All the best Sir.
Can you give the details of what you did?, It might help some people here

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Wodu89: 1:52pm On Mar 02, 2023
Lee29:
PCOS can be managed.

I will advise she start taking Metformin 1000mg + Vit E for 3 months and you'll see the period getting normal.

There are other medications that can make her get pregnant after the Metformin treatment if there are no other issues apart from PCOS but I won't divulge them here.

Have you checked your sperm motility (not count)?

Overall, prayer in the name of Jesus give solutions to many things including your current challenge.


Exactly. I didn't want to disclose therapies like these because the forum is filled with highly negative people who throw negative comments at every suggestions made


With consulting fertility clinics and maximum of 300k, this man would have his first child maximum next year.

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Ate247(m): 2:25pm On Mar 02, 2023
Solofresh2:
Can you just imagine. When we tell this young foolish girl to keep their virginity till marriage they will never listen.Now see what this simp of a man is going through because of his community harlot turned wife foolishness.Even me as a guy am still a virgin and sex cannot be my priority.If at my age as a guy am still a virgin, I wonder what is wrong with these useless women.
I won't advice you because you have stated what you should do already
Oga, stop being ignorant. PCOS has nothing to do with viginity. Its a cyst developing around the ovary and causing irregularities in the reproductive system of a woman. Always try to research before show how ignorant you're.

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Ate247(m): 2:30pm On Mar 02, 2023
Lee29:
PCOS can be managed.

I will advise she start taking Metformin 1000mg + Vit E for 3 months and you'll see the period getting normal.

There are other medications that can make her get pregnant after the Metformin treatment if there are no other issues apart from PCOS but I won't divulge them here.

Have you checked your sperm motility (not count)?

Overall, prayer in the name of Jesus give solutions to many things including your current challenge.
most women with PCOS are insulin resistive. Metformin is one way to go about with control. But lifestyle changes is always the best way to go.

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Chijioke4535(m): 2:33pm On Mar 02, 2023
Guy you need psychological attention...you're gradually running mad without you knowing πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„
jeromestarks:

At 26? You're even more stupid than I thought.

Women get clumsier with age. In your next life, avoid women above 23.
You don't know that these days, women start ovulating every early (especially girls with her condition)

May you never have peace for marrying a woman as old as 26.
Divorce her and find a young virgin. Mumu.

If you like, lie to yourself by saying you're in love with her. Your generation will quickly fade out of this earth. Idiot.

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Guyman01: 2:33pm On Mar 02, 2023
Try and adopt a child then continue with any other procedures. Most times adopted kids open doors to your desires, like they usually say its about Nurture and not nature
obinna58(m): 3:04pm On Mar 02, 2023
Man staying childless bcoz of woman’s fault is the most stupidest thing ever imagined
You think she loves you but she doesn’t, would it have been you met her without wahala you’ll realize she gives no fvck about you.

Women only pretends to love, never forget this
Solofresh2: 3:04pm On Mar 02, 2023
Ate247:
Oga, stop being ignorant. PCOS has nothing to do with viginity. Its a cyst developing around the ovary and causing irregularities in the reproductive system of a woman. Always try to research before show how ignorant you're.
Shut up my friend!
Did I ask for your opinion?
ITK
Sweetvie: 3:28pm On Mar 02, 2023
eglobalcafe:
I married her a virgin
What abt using a surrogate?
LikeAking: 3:57pm On Mar 02, 2023
eglobalcafe:
Good morning to everyone, please i sincerely need your advice please, i see no reason why people should insult me but all i plead is just a sincere advice. Am confused on what to do thats why am here, help a brother.

I have been married for 4 years now and my wife has pcos which is preventing her from ovulating and now am 35 years of age and she's 30 years now and our marriage is 4 years but we have been together for 6 years. Please what should i do, yes i understand this is hereditary that's why she can not conceive according to Doctor, but she can only get pregnant if she uses supplements thats going to enhance her ovulation that's when she can conceive, might not be easy but the drugs will assist.

We have done 1 ivf that failed already and we are about to go another round of ivf again. Am positive it will work, the last ivf we did, she had miscarriage so am kind of scared for another miscarriage again, ivf is expensive cost almost 2m because of other drugs you pay weekly 54k for tge next 3 months.

Please i don't want another wife because i know its not a good road because Walhalla, once i carry another woman my wife will start to give me different treatments as a wife. I love my wife so much but how long can i continue to stay childless, and this thing makes my wife cry almost all night and even i cant sleep because of we can't have a baby because of PCOS that she has.

So mentally it's drains me cos am only pretending am okay while am not okay because i dont want her to panic. Please advise me, my family advised i get another woman pregnant but i should not divorce her. And sometimes i says to myself will i be happy if i was the one who has this problem and i said to my myself if i was the one with this issue i will let my wife go marry another man.

And my wife loves me so much and she hate to see me or hear me talk about another wife or another woman

Please help a brother, what do you guys think i should do please.

My wife has clearly told me if i want to take another woman she will leave me instantly because of the wahala of polygamy.

Please should i get another woman pregnant.
Should i still be patient
Or what's your advice but just know its not easy as i have been doing my best not to hurt my wife, this days people die any how, sometimes i feel what if i die today and no children that's my greatest fear because i have hustle so hard to build a house and financially we are managing.

Should i get another woman pregnant or divorce my wife by telling her this thing is not working please advise me. According to doctors me as a man am healthy no issues with me

Oga simp..

Dump that woman.
Wodu89: 4:53pm On Mar 02, 2023
LikeAking:


Oga simp..

Dump that woman.



Strong man. Be wiser than this. You will have daughters if you don't have sisters. If you choose not to marry to have females, you should have female friends. Use your head when speaking full

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tiswell(m): 5:31pm On Mar 02, 2023
eglobalcafe:
Good morning to everyone, please i sincerely need your advice please, i see no reason why people should insult me but all i plead is just a sincere advice. Am confused on what to do thats why am here, help a brother.

I have been married for 4 years now and my wife has pcos which is preventing her from ovulating and now am 35 years of age and she's 30 years now and our marriage is 4 years but we have been together for 6 years. Please what should i do, yes i understand this is hereditary that's why she can not conceive according to Doctor, but she can only get pregnant if she uses supplements thats going to enhance her ovulation that's when she can conceive, might not be easy but the drugs will assist.

We have done 1 ivf that failed already and we are about to go another round of ivf again. Am positive it will work, the last ivf we did, she had miscarriage so am kind of scared for another miscarriage again, ivf is expensive cost almost 2m because of other drugs you pay weekly 54k for tge next 3 months.

Please i don't want another wife because i know its not a good road because Walhalla, once i carry another woman my wife will start to give me different treatments as a wife. I love my wife so much but how long can i continue to stay childless, and this thing makes my wife cry almost all night and even i cant sleep because of we can't have a baby because of PCOS that she has.

So mentally it's drains me cos am only pretending am okay while am not okay because i dont want her to panic. Please advise me, my family advised i get another woman pregnant but i should not divorce her. And sometimes i says to myself will i be happy if i was the one who has this problem and i said to my myself if i was the one with this issue i will let my wife go marry another man.

And my wife loves me so much and she hate to see me or hear me talk about another wife or another woman

Please help a brother, what do you guys think i should do please.

My wife has clearly told me if i want to take another woman she will leave me instantly because of the wahala of polygamy.

Please should i get another woman pregnant.
Should i still be patient
Or what's your advice but just know its not easy as i have been doing my best not to hurt my wife, this days people die any how, sometimes i feel what if i die today and no children that's my greatest fear because i have hustle so hard to build a house and financially we are managing.

Should i get another woman pregnant or divorce my wife by telling her this thing is not working please advise me. According to doctors me as a man am healthy no issues with me
marry a virgin and save yasef from too much fvcking shalaye sad
tiswell(m): 5:35pm On Mar 02, 2023
jeromestarks:

At 26? You're even more stupid than I thought.

Women get clumsier with age. In your next life, avoid women above 23.
You don't know that these days, women start ovulating every early (especially girls with her condition)

May you never have peace for marrying a woman as old as 26.
Divorce her and find a young virgin. Mumu.

If you like, lie to yourself by saying you're in love with her. Your generation will quickly fade out of this earth. Idiot.
Go very hard on the simp,baba!


Op,is a very legendary anyhow simp!
Ate247(m): 6:02pm On Mar 02, 2023
Solofresh2:
Shut up my friend!
Did I ask for your opinion?
ITK
help yourself please. Your kind will make the country worse.
Sixfeetbelle: 6:13pm On Mar 02, 2023
tiswell:
marry a virgin and save yasef from too much fvcking shalaye sad

Google pcos first. Understand it fully before you comment

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4ward4: 6:26pm On Mar 02, 2023
jeromestarks:

The op is an idiot.
He went ahead to marry a 26 year old woman. I always say that a woman above 23 is no good for marriage. Most of them are battling one terminal disease or the other.
He said she can't ovulate. As in, she has never ovulated in her entire life or what?

That woman ovulates when she was young. Infact, people like her start ovulating every early in life (say at age 12).
The best thing is to marry her at 18 so she can birth all her eggs before she clocks 24. Most girls on the street, like the op's expired wife, are suffering from various illness.

If you didn't marry a young virgin woman, you will be frustrated ( like this mumu op) and you will use your hard-earned money to treat diseases which you know nothing about.
Now this Op's wife is 30!πŸ˜’. She can't give birth πŸ˜’. She's currently useless as a woman πŸ˜’.
All you can do with her now is to have sex with her and VERY soon, she will stop getting wet. You won't even enjoy the sex again πŸ˜’.
Useless woman. Stupid husband. Bunch of fools.

My advice to the op is that he should go and find a young (18-23) virgin and marry ASAP as he discards that empty barrel he called wife. Nonsense!

Once a woman is above 23, fvck her and let her go gently. Never wife her.



Women get clumsier with age.

Stop saying nonsense, know a friend who was a virgin and married at 24, this is 5yrs no child birth. sudden fibroid came in her 1yrs of marriage.
jeromestarks: 6:40pm On Mar 02, 2023
4ward4:


Stop saying nonsense, know a friend who was a virgin and married at 24, this is 5yrs no child birth. sudden fibroid came in her 1yrs of marriage.
I said 23, you mention 24. Are you normal?
Wodu89: 6:43pm On Mar 02, 2023
jeromestarks:

The op is an idiot.
He went ahead to marry a 26 year old woman. I always say that a woman above 23 is no good for marriage. Most of them are battling one terminal disease or the other.
He said she can't ovulate. As in, she has never ovulated in her entire life or what?

That woman ovulates when she was young. Infact, people like her start ovulating every early in life (say at age 12).
The best thing is to marry her at 18 so she can birth all her eggs before she clocks 24. Most girls on the street, like the op's expired wife, are suffering from various illness.

If you didn't marry a young virgin woman, you will be frustrated ( like this mumu op) and you will use your hard-earned money to treat diseases which you know nothing about.
Now this Op's wife is 30!πŸ˜’. She can't give birth πŸ˜’. She's currently useless as a woman πŸ˜’.
All you can do with her now is to have sex with her and VERY soon, she will stop getting wet. You won't even enjoy the sex again πŸ˜’.
Useless woman. Stupid husband. Bunch of fools.

My advice to the op is that he should go and find a young (18-23) virgin and marry ASAP as he discards that empty barrel he called wife. Nonsense!

Once a woman is above 23, fvck her and let her go gently. Never wife her.



Women get clumsier with age.



We've heard you. Your daughter would one day get to that age and if she's unmarried, my dear, kill her !

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jeromestarks: 6:46pm On Mar 02, 2023
Wodu89:




We've heard you. Your daughter would one day get to that age and if she's unmarried, my dear, kill her !
Sharap your mouth.
Ekpekus(m): 6:53pm On Mar 02, 2023
eglobalcafe:
We have gone fir surogacy dont mind my spelling please, we gone there but the rules in that way is harder, instantly my wufe gave up on surrogacy because of the trouble in it after making enquiries from doctors. Am grateful to some if the advices here.
Do you mind elaborating on the rules? It can't be that hard to jettison the idea compared to the challenge on ground.
TheCongo2: 7:11pm On Mar 02, 2023
OP, if I were you, I would have considered adoption
Wodu89: 7:14pm On Mar 02, 2023
jeromestarks:

Sharap your mouth.


Yes. That's what the truth does.it hit you and you're in denial to it

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ItisWell22(f): 7:23pm On Mar 02, 2023
Pells1:
If na u get low sperm count,e sure me your wife for leave your sorry assundecided undecided undecided
You deserve what is happening so your eyes go open but unfortunately your eyes no gree open
undecided undecided undecided
Kicke her out like how Messi use to kick freekick because she don use postinor 2 destroy her system when she dey her early twenties,na you dey suffer from wetin boys don destroy finish grin cheesy
If Dem say marry virgin,una go dey look person like mumu undecided undecided

Oga rest. 🀨

This isn’t about her being a virgin or not, as even a virgin with PCOS will most likely have fertility problems. πŸ˜’

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AyobamiIsaac12: 7:26pm On Mar 02, 2023
Omo. The kind toxicity wey dey this thread no be here shocked
ItisWell22(f): 7:27pm On Mar 02, 2023
4ward4:


Stop saying nonsense, know a friend who was a virgin and married at 24, this is 5yrs no child birth. sudden fibroid came in her 1yrs of marriage.


That guy’s thought process is just waw… 😫
Dshocker(m): 7:32pm On Mar 02, 2023
eglobalcafe:
Good morning to everyone, please i sincerely need your advice please, i see no reason why people should insult me but all i plead is just a sincere advice. Am confused on what to do thats why am here, help a brother.

I have been married for 4 years now and my wife has pcos which is preventing her from ovulating and now am 35 years of age and she's 30 years now and our marriage is 4 years but we have been together for 6 years. Please what should i do, yes i understand this is hereditary that's why she can not conceive according to Doctor, but she can only get pregnant if she uses supplements thats going to enhance her ovulation that's when she can conceive, might not be easy but the drugs will assist.

We have done 1 ivf that failed already and we are about to go another round of ivf again. Am positive it will work, the last ivf we did, she had miscarriage so am kind of scared for another miscarriage again, ivf is expensive cost almost 2m because of other drugs you pay weekly 54k for tge next 3 months.

Please i don't want another wife because i know its not a good road because Walhalla, once i carry another woman my wife will start to give me different treatments as a wife. I love my wife so much but how long can i continue to stay childless, and this thing makes my wife cry almost all night and even i cant sleep because of we can't have a baby because of PCOS that she has.

So mentally it's drains me cos am only pretending am okay while am not okay because i dont want her to panic. Please advise me, my family advised i get another woman pregnant but i should not divorce her. And sometimes i says to myself will i be happy if i was the one who has this problem and i said to my myself if i was the one with this issue i will let my wife go marry another man.

And my wife loves me so much and she hate to see me or hear me talk about another wife or another woman

Please help a brother, what do you guys think i should do please.

My wife has clearly told me if i want to take another woman she will leave me instantly because of the wahala of polygamy.

Please should i get another woman pregnant.
Should i still be patient
Or what's your advice but just know its not easy as i have been doing my best not to hurt my wife, this days people die any how, sometimes i feel what if i die today and no children that's my greatest fear because i have hustle so hard to build a house and financially we are managing.

Should i get another woman pregnant or divorce my wife by telling her this thing is not working please advise me. According to doctors me as a man am healthy no issues with me

My advice for you is, adopt a male child for now, it would lessen the tension of her getting pregnant, because if she is tensed, it also contributes to her chances of getting pregnant.

Then secondly, place her on a diet of Alkaline based food and buy her sea moss


Doctors won't tell you this and probably most of them don't know about this as well.

Just place her on Alkaline and Sea Moss for 3 months, if you wife no take in, then the only option is miracle.

Don't forget, if she takes in and give birth, don't forget to gift me N1m for this information.


Safe My Post

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ednut1(m): 7:38pm On Mar 02, 2023
You posted in the wrong section. Family or health section would have been better. This one hard. Ivf is expensive and draining. Me i no sabi wetin to talk o

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