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Please I wish to know the advantages and disadvantages of marrying a single mother.

please your opinions are welcome.


Is the dowry cheaper?

You will keep catering for a child/children who isn't/ain't yours. And be ready to be secretly sharing her with the baby father.

My 1 coin

If you cannot love and accept her child(Ren) just leave her alone.

This question you're asking is evidence that you don't love her.

zedegit:
Please I wish to know the advantages and disadvantages of marrying a single mother.

please your opinions are welcome.


Is the dowry cheaper?

The only thing the offer is sex. Usually these women finished seeing life. They don't need your love. They don't believe in it. But pretend like they do. They seem to look for innocent men to use as second chance. They hardly love those men. Cause their main priority is their kids



So forget love ,they use it as weapon .

Is she wealthy ?

Or

She has power to help you climb the laddar in life ?

If she helps you then she truly loves you. Marry her. But if she is one damsel looking for money RUN!


But if she helps you and you dump her , it is evil.

Romanoff:
If you cannot love and accept her child(Ren) just leave her alone.

This question you're asking is evidence that you don't love her.

So, what will the man benefit from loving and accepting her children?

Romanoff:
If you cannot love and accept her child(Ren) just leave her alone.

This question you're asking is evidence that you don't love her.

No, he's asked a harmless question. Wisdom dictates that one should make enquiry before making any life decisions. Everything in life has pros and cons. It depends on an individual to choose his/her poison.

Persephone1 are you a single mother?

Romanoff:
If you cannot love and accept her child(Ren) just leave her alone.

This question you're asking is evidence that you don't love her.

Not really. I do but I still need honest opinions.

DarkGray:
Persepho ne1 are you a single mother?

Yes! 58 years old mother of three precisely .

Do i know you?

OGwales:
You will keep catering for a child/children who isn't/ain't yours. And be ready to be secretly sharing her with the baby father.

My 1 coin

You're wrong. Not all single mothers are irresponsible to the extent of sleeping with their baby daddy after being married!

GLouis:



The only thing the offer is sex. Usually these women finished seeing life. They don't need your love. They don't believe in it. But pretend like they do. They seem to look for innocent men to use as second chance. They hardly love those men. Cause their main priority is their kids



So forget love ,they use it as weapon .

Is she wealthy ?

Or

She has power to help you climb the laddar in life ?

If she helps you then she truly loves you. Marry her. But if she is one damsel looking for money RUN!


But if she helps you and you dump her , it is evil.

Trash.

Persephone1:
Yes! 58 years old mother of three precisely .

Do i know you?

You are joking right?

DarkGray:
You are joking right?

Why would i?

I ask again, do i know you? I see you sharing and liking my posts even though you ed few minutes ago. Should i be worried?

MufasaLion:


You're wrong. Not all single mothers are irresponsible to the extent of sleeping with their baby daddy after being married!

Okay, I hear you prophet Isaiah

Marrying them is easier because of the fact the family knows she has married before and not an idea of better men.


The only problem is that they don’t love men anymore. Don’t be deceived by the open discussion and they way they sex. They are too demanding and insecure. Be ready to take take of the child. They also cheat and see men as cash cow. If you loose guide you will face unending billing.

Persephone1:
Why would i?

I ask again, do i know you? I see you sharing and liking my posts even though you ed few minutes ago. Should i be worried?

Nevermind

Humans are humans.

Are you marrying a single mother or a person who happens to also be a single mother?

zedegit:


Not really. I do but I still need honest opinions.

Many men here who haven't been in that situation will discourage you. Your best bet is to look for men who married single mothers.

Na single mum and women haters full here, many small boys who are still being fed by their parents.

You can also talk to elderly married folks.

fineboynl:
Marrying them is easier because of the fact the family knows she has married before and not an idea of better men.


The only problem is that they don’t love men anymore. Don’t be deceived by the open discussion and they way they sex. They are too demanding and insecure. Be ready to take take of the child. They also cheat and see men as cash cow. If you loose guide you will face unending billing.

By single mother, I meant the one impregnated without marriage

GLouis:



The only thing the offer is sex. Usually these women finished seeing life. They don't need your love. They don't believe in it. But pretend like they do. They seem to look for innocent men to use as second chance. They hardly love those men. Cause their main priority is their kids



So forget love ,they use it as weapon .

Is she wealthy ?

Or

She has power to help you climb the laddar in life ?

If she helps you then she truly loves you. Marry her. But if she is one damsel looking for money RUN!


But if she helps you and you dump her , it is evil.

Kindly go with the above counsel, pele'.

MufasaLion:


You're wrong. Not all single mothers are irresponsible to the extent of sleeping with their baby daddy after being married!

You may be right. However, the possibility is there.

Marry her if she's got what you need as a married man.

But don't segregate her wedlock kid from hers, love them together with same level of sacrifice.

Be ready to trust her completely but don't be dumbed.

State your principle. If you have any.
Tell her the consequences if she breaks it.

Run for your dear life

zedegit:
Please I wish to know the advantages and disadvantages of marrying a single mother.

please your opinions are welcome.


Is the dowry cheaper?

Some comments tho!!!!!





Cringe

The Pro's marrying a single.mother are no different from the Pro's of marrying any girl without kids ...

it's just dependent on the personality of the individual, but the cons however, are a different ball game entirely ...

Here's some of them...

You're responsible for a child whom may turn their backs on you and look for his/her father in the near future...

You may not be able to discipline the child as it may be misinterpreted as wickedness...

You would ALWAYS come second in her life in respect to the child...

If the baby daddy is still alive, there's a huge possibility of him getting involved in your affairs via the child...

The same thing that made the baby daddy run away, may very well be a bone in your neck...

There's chances of emotional baggage that hasn't been dealt with...

All the above in addition to the regular female mad.ness is what you'll have to deal with ...

Honestly eh...
There's too many cons to marrying a single mother than a girl without kids...

I'd advice you marry a virgin girl instead ...
Chances of having a successful marriage with a virgin girl is A WHOLE LOT HIGHER than with nonvirgin girls and single mothers ...

And Oga sir...
Please go and pray and fast...
The issue of a life partner is not something anyone should take lightly....

Godspeed my friend...

Persephone1:
Why would i?

I ask again, do i know you? I see you sharing and liking my posts even though you ed few minutes ago. Should i be worried?

How can you know he's the one liking your post?

Hmm, abi you're chatting yourself

Idonweak:

How can you know he's the one liking your post?

Hmm, abi you're chatting yourself

You missed the sharing part of the comment sir

Only an extremely stupid man, ends up marrying a Single Mother.

Women are extremely demonic and manipulative. She wants you to accept and care for her previous child or children unconditionally.

Reverse the table in your mind, and glimpse at what would have happened if you were to bring to her, a child born to you, by another lady. You will then realise that you married a Monster. No matter how close I get to a lady or ladies, I never get fooled by who they truly are: Manipulative Monsters!