NewStats: 3,261,955 , 8,175,660 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 09:09 AM 1j2z3k

No need of complaining, just focus on your duties and re - edit your cv to keep up applications, instead of causing unnecessary issues for your self - Pple will call you jealous. Mind you the policy your friend is trying to change might be for the betterment of your organisation. Just be calm and let him be d boss at work and padi padi at home.

UYEMDO35:
Hello guys~ my best friend and I live together in the same neighborhood.

I introduce him to were I was working at the moment because he was seriously in need of a job...

Though! He had a job he was doing but the money they are paying him is just token, so when he came for an interview today.

He ed the prescription test that was given to him, and he was made the assistant Boss and I have been working there for long without been given dis offer.

Being his first time of working with us he has started giving out policy in which I don't like, he's trying to change the system for us making it unbearable for us to cope. And to crown it all, his salary his x2 higher than mine and we both have same qualification.

So am thinking of going to my Boss to lunch complain maybe to ask him to renew my contract.

What do you all think about my step....

Should I still go on with it?

Bros... Abeg take am easy with this your LIES... My head dey pain me this hot afternoon

Your guy come for interview today

Your guy ed the interview , get the job as assistance boss TODAY

He begin change policy TODAY TODAY

Haba bross
Bross Why?!
Wetin warrant this lie this Hot afternoon!!!

Be humble

Awesomeking:
you are going through envy and jealousy but because you dont have a bad mind, you dont know it yet..simply use the law of the ftc...turn by turn..as he be your boss,do as he says..u seff senior another person for the same company...one day u sef go be boss..

same qualification with double salary doesn't sound like envy and jealousy to me. That's grossly disproportional. Haba!

OP I guess u are over reacting he might be yr friend outside but in the official environment he is now yr boss do not teach others how to disrespect him u will definitely suffer the burnt u have played yr role by helping him just keep it at that if u try the grace way that guy carry by confronting yr boss baba the outcome would make u more sad if u feel he is on a wrong path talk him over on a bottle of beer @ COB

Hmm

UYEMDO35:
Hello guys~ my best friend and I live together in the same neighborhood.

I introduce him to were I was working at the moment because he was seriously in need of a job...

Though! He had a job he was doing but the money they are paying him is just token, so when he came for an interview today.

He ed the prescription test that was given to him, and he was made the assistant Boss and I have been working there for long without been given dis offer.

Being his first time of working with us he has started giving out policy in which I don't like, he's trying to change the system for us making it unbearable for us to cope. And to crown it all, his salary his x2 higher than mine and we both have same qualification.

So am thinking of going to my Boss to lunch complain maybe to ask him to renew my contract.

What do you all think about my step....

Should I still go on with it?

Two options, resign or it your faith.


Even, after itting your faith, start thinking of how to get a new job because, sooner or later, you will still be disgraced out of that organization.

I wish you best of luck

I fear for that your friend. Make you no go poison am o.

Nigerians can't celebrate other people's success. Must all the good things come to you? If it comes to someone else rejoice with them. Haba! I'm sure that your friend is more intelligent than you.
See your English lunch a complain.... it is launch or lay.

Gba kamu o

bigdammyj:



1. He came for interview

2. He ed the interview

3. He got the job as, assistance boss

4. He his changing the policy

5. Earning x2 of your salary with same qualifications as yours.

All, in one day?

Someone that the OP says he introduced o. How do gou have the same qualifications and introduce your friend for a senior position?

With the way you write, why won’t they make him your boss You don’t even know the difference or how to make use of am/I’m, present and past tense and you want them to make you the CEO

I was his boss for a job he introduced me to and he became jealous. That led to the end of our 13 years relationship

Na grace. You can't fight it. Just chill make ur turn reach

Thank God your friend is now your boss... at least you now have a connection at the top....don't expect help from him...rather try to prepare yourself with total humility, work with your friend and you will receive your own part of the grace..His grace is different from yours....he got his breakthrough through you dont sit on it....abi you don want anyone you help to be above you..

SmartyPants:


Someone that the OP says he introduced o. How do gou have the same qualifications and introduce your friend for a senior position?

His friend is obviously more intelligent.

Kindly talk to him after work in a very private area and see how things unfold for you.

Do ur normal job, free urself and don't reason negative
It maybe his own grace

WillyCassey:


His friend is obviously more intelligent.

Yes, seems so, but point is...why didn't he apply for the position himself?

Why do you want to lodge a complain?,
That ur friend earns higher that you do. If that be your reason then u don't think at all. If your reason is that you deserve to earn higher based on your qualifications and the number of months you've have worked vat your workplace, then that is fine. No mention your friend name for your complain I beg!!!!! Life just happened to you.

Op,i understand your plight that is his turn,you turn go soon reach it can be very annoying,those saying Op dey envy or doesn't want betterment of others would even do more worse than Op

UYEMDO35:
Hello guys~ my best friend and I live together in the same neighborhood.

I introduce him to were I was working at the moment because he was seriously in need of a job...

Though! He had a job he was doing but the money they are paying him is just token, so when he came for an interview today.

He ed the prescription test that was given to him, and he was made the assistant Boss and I have been working there for long without been given dis offer.

Being his first time of working with us he has started giving out policy in which I don't like, he's trying to change the system for us making it unbearable for us to cope. And to crown it all, his salary his x2 higher than mine and we both have same qualification.

So am thinking of going to my Boss to lunch complain maybe to ask him to renew my contract.

What do you all think about my step....

Should I still go on with it?

Jealousy!!

From your write up I can perceive the stench of your jealousy and envy.
You should even be happy for your friend, atleast you have someone that can cover your "fckups" tomorrow.
When Davido said "we rise by lifting others" what do you think he meant?

If your friend is in a position to determine who gets promoted, do you think he will abandon you?

Just believe that God "have sent your own joseph ahead of time to save you in your moments of famine"

Don't push further....people will think you are being jealous here. .just play cool and have a one on one talk with him n remind him u brought him to the company n always your concerns to him and how his new policy is affecting u...
Here what he will respond and from there u knw how to act n relate to him n others in the company..cheers

bigdammyj:



1. He came for interview

2. He ed the interview

3. He got the job as, assistance boss

4. He his changing the policy

5. Earning x2 of your salary with same qualifications as yours.

All, in one day?

I dey tell U.
What post did he apply for?
If it was a senior post, the OP has no right to complain since he wasn't deemed fit to be promoted to that role.
But if he came for a random interview, then this gist no gel.

i am not a fan of asking for salary increase. if they offer it then fine. if not, start looking for another job. most of my salary increment come from change companies. bear it and intensify your job search.

UYEMDO35:
Hello guys~ my best friend and I live together in the same neighborhood.

I introduce him to were I was working at the moment because he was seriously in need of a job...

Though! He had a job he was doing but the money they are paying him is just token, so when he came for an interview today.

He ed the prescription test that was given to him, and he was made the assistant Boss and I have been working there for long without been given dis offer.

Being his first time of working with us he has started giving out policy in which I don't like, he's trying to change the system for us making it unbearable for us to cope. And to crown it all, his salary his x2 higher than mine and we both have same qualification.

So am thinking of going to my Boss to lunch complain maybe to ask him to renew my contract.

What do you all think about my step....

Should I still go on with it?

Alaye go claim Ur right joo, its better to receive queries for asking for your right than to wallow in regret and had I known.

Dirpetaner:
Thank God your friend is now your boss... at least you now have a connection at the top....don't expect help from him...rather try to prepare yourself with total humility, work with your friend and you will receive your own part of the grace..His grace is different from yours....he got his breakthrough through you dont sit on it....abi you don want anyone you help to be above you..

Exactly.

We all have different "graces".

SmartyPants:


Yes, seems so, but point is...why didn't he apply for the position himself?

He doesn't seem sound enough.
He is complaining about the policies his friend is introducing and calling it unbearable, which means he obviously didn't know them or he is the type that likes to do shabby jobs.
So he was not considered even though he has worked there longer.

if he s really your friend, you can sort it with him by joke joke talk you chip am to him to look into his guy issue. dont feel bad, use sense follow am

Helping people is TWO ways, either BAD or Good.

Mutual respect is key. In my job tables turn. Last year my friend was my boss. I respected him. Even when he threw tantrums. I helped his work succeed and gained his respect. This year I got the job and became his boss handling everything including finances. He tried to lord it over me but I held my ground and he eventually saw that my decisions though unfair to him at the time saved our arses. I gained his respect yet again. In this life just learn to respect everyone including the maid. You might be her oga, but when she serves you food, she's the lord over your life (if you know, you know)

UYEMDO35:
Hello guys~ my best friend and I live together in the same neighborhood.

I introduce him to were I was working at the moment because he was seriously in need of a job...

Though! He had a job he was doing but the money they are paying him is just token, so when he came for an interview today.

He ed the prescription test that was given to him, and he was made the assistant Boss and I have been working there for long without been given dis offer.

Being his first time of working with us he has started giving out policy in which I don't like, he's trying to change the system for us making it unbearable for us to cope. And to crown it all, his salary his x2 higher than mine and we both have same qualification.

So am thinking of going to my Boss to lunch complain maybe to ask him to renew my contract.

What do you all think about my step....

Should I still go on with it?

Please don't let envy and jealousy spoil good things God have in stock for you. Be patient and happy with your friend.