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I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with good characters just like you described yourself you would have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

U just believe he not busy, so u should be he priority coming to Nigeria. Common sis he also have something doing. If he fail to call u call him.

Miss 33,first & foremost,I want to start by telling you that you're no shit,and I love the level of self worth that young man got for himself & how he's not willing to play your BS mind games.

Great guy,he did the right thing.

You read his messages,ignored it for two days because you want to play nonsense mind games,and you're trying to make it his fault for respecting himself to withdraw from a situation he's not considered important to get a response ?


I actually love how he decided to mind his business,because that's what all self respecting men will do in this kind of scenario.
You don't treat people like an option ,and you expect to be treated like a priority.
I hope he moves on,and never look back.

Confused , irrational & fickle ladies like you have no right to be in a relationship.

LOL

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

it's either of the last statements...thats how I collected a lady's number who stopped me on the road supppsedly saying I looked cute...only for madam to be replying me late or not at all. We turned status viewers till one day, while in church, pastor said its only when you open up that people come in, nobody should hold you down if they themselves are not ready to move forward.

The Holy spirit instructed me to delete her number that instant.
Life no suppose dey hard

You read his chats but not replying them for 2days
He will think you're a witch
He will think you don't like him
He will think you just wanted to go out with for fun
He will think you're really not serious
He will think you're with another man
He will also think maybe you're married self but lying to him
Men once you don't pick or reply their messages our first thought is you're with another niqqa

Someone like me you read my message and did t reply I will block you straight that's just me Sha

You're yet to fully understand him and you're already trying to form for him lol

Baba fit don move on Sha
No time to waste time

This life no hard ooh. Na we just dey make am hard. You were wrong ignoring the young man,
If you want him go after him.

You vagina ppl can be so confused, u didn't respond to his messages and he did same to u now ur bothered. Overthinking things my feet. I wish he will never talk to u again, u felt u threw ursef at him? U like him n followed your body's intuition then ur head come de think trash .. u use hand spoil ur luck, 33 years na here, menopause de junction de come ur side.

The same thing you have been doing... Now you are 33, still doing it.

Keep doing it and expect not to remain the way you are.

Franky70:
You read his chats but not replying them for 2days
He will think you're a witch
He will think you don't like him
He will think you just wanted to go out with for fun
He will think you're really not serious
He will think you're with another man
He will also think maybe you're married self but lying to him
Men once you don't pick or reply their messages our first thought is you're with another niqqa

Someone like me you read my message and did t reply I will block you straight that's just me Sha

You're yet to fully understand him and you're already trying to form for him lol

Baba fit don move on Sha
No time to waste time

I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

You said it yourself, you gals wants dude from abroad, only if you know how Nigerian ladies send nudes to them because they believes when he comes back , he will be theirs


You still noticed how to gave him all your time without delay , oshodi lads can't get that ( because they are street dude )

Seems to me that you have enjoyed your time with him , let's other gals to flex ( na turn by turn )

Even your profile ladies are laughing to this .....

Franky70:
You read his chats but not replying them for 2days
He will think you're a witch
He will think you don't like him
He will think you just wanted to go out with for fun
He will think you're really not serious
He will think you're with another man
He will also think maybe you're married self but lying to him
Men once you don't pick or reply their messages our first thought is you're with another niqqa

Someone like me you read my message and did t reply I will block you straight that's just me Sha

You're yet to fully understand him and you're already trying to form for him lol

Baba fit don move on Sha
No time to waste time

.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

Gather here if you are confused

Franky70:
You read his chats but not replying them for 2days
He will think you're a witch
He will think you don't like him
He will think you just wanted to go out with for fun
He will think you're really not serious
He will think you're with another man
He will also think maybe you're married self but lying to him
Men once you don't pick or reply their messages our first thought is you're with another niqqa

Someone like me you read my message and did t reply I will block you straight that's just me Sha

You're yet to fully understand him and you're already trying to form for him lol

Baba fit don move on Sha
No time to waste time

don't mind the toddler in 33 yrs old body, instead of to keep expressing herself she wan form hard 2 get just to create useless impression of I'm not cheap when reasonable don't count things like that. Hope he blocks her till infinity. Her type hasn't learned anything all her years of dating sge still acts like a kid, a grown azz woman.

jackals:


I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

Men are tired of chasing after things that won't bring something to the table. Men are now chasing after things that will offer them lots of values

jackals:


I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

That's the problem, you don't generalize that mindset of yours about men, now that you've met someone "maybe not in that category of what you think of men" you're about to ruin everything just be of what you think about men. You ladies should not always jump into conclusion soo quick, I hope he replies your text.

Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for not being interested. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

I'm a submissive woman, appreciative and also have my own things going on for myself. I don't bag and I'm peaceful. Thanks �

jackals:


I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

Oya now continue until you reach 40...you think men have time for your games...continue

jackals:

.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

but ur desperate naaa but if guy likes u we don't care we appreciate u n might take u serious, I respect a lady that acts on her emotions n not try to complicate things with kid reasoning. He has moved on bc he understands you're not emotionally intelligent

jackals:

.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

It's your type that grows old and jealous when men starts picking young girls in their 20s to wife up...you better know what you're doing

even 27 years still dey find husband,you way he 33 see one,you turn mumu

jackals:


I'm a submissive woman, appreciative and also have my own things going on for myself. I don't bag and I'm peaceful. Thanks �

Oh very good of you to posses all these sterling qualities. But where were you when your mates with similar or even lower characters were getting married in their twenties. I bet you were busy rejecting men or whoring away your life and now reality has dawned on you hence the reason for your desperation

Every day, the same topics in this forum. If na oyibo get this place them for automate bots to repeat queries which appear here every other day. Nairalanders for don tire to rant about waist beads.

jackals:

.I was just being careful of not making it look like I'm desperate to have him. I already showed him I like him. I think if he wanted things to escalate, he wouldn't back out that way

The thing weak me bro
Na all these girls wetting jamb supposed de do this one not person at her age

Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

My dear, try and reply his messages too, he is human too, not replying someone's message is in its own way a message as well.
He could think you're not interested as well.

Why do you guys make it difficult for yourselves?

Bluezy13:
The same thing you have been doing... Now you are 33, still doing it.

Keep doing it and expect not to remain the way you are.

jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

You're responsible for the outcomes you get so who cares...you're so used to getting attention from men in your prime years and playing mind games was fun until you subconsciously did it till your 30s now you're looking for someone to console you...you have the fruit of your labour now...eat it

jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

Just to call the guy you are missing now turns to lamentations

jackals:


I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

I hope he deleted the message asap since you've not learned all these years. If u can learn or posses the ability to learn then read and have this at the back of ur mind. A man that really wants u and have future plans with u and want u in his family won't underate you bc u showed or showing him how much u care, he will appreciate n reciprocate thise feelings but in all ur dating u haven't learned that bc probably u have been dating Bleep boys that has no future interest with u. Leave that innocent guy, he's not ready for bullshittt, do u know how many ladies are hunting for him? Normal guy wey get small money get car babes de hustle for am for naija let alone the one that came back from Yankee??!? As him de message u leave other girls u no appreciate am, him suppose don link up with better girls with something upstairs, lick ur wound n move jooor no come stress the guy abeg. Men no need ur type in their life that complicates stuff.