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190: 9:06pm On Jul 12, 2011
gwenevier:

*yawns*
Secret?? Mscheww

HUH?

Cuddlemii: 9:07pm On Jul 12, 2011
dude i reject it for u

remove this pix jor

lets some more sexy
190: 9:08pm On Jul 12, 2011
Cuddlemii: 9:10pm On Jul 12, 2011
190:



what what? ok bring the animal over for a cuddle to become a prince. the pix is not appealing, gives me the creeps
upendo98(f): 9:11pm On Jul 12, 2011
oP

Wow thts a major issue u got in there .

Back up your prayer and fasting with some real action like anger therapy.

If ur mum came out of it then you too can. Get busy with life and whnevr u find urself in a situation ,walk away fast and try not to react.

keep doing that til u learn to tame urself, cz truth be told ul will always come across very tight situations.

yes you can smiley
upendo98(f): 9:12pm On Jul 12, 2011
the animal again??/
grin grin grin grin
cuddle this 'thing'cracks me up like crazy.
grin grin
190: 9:15pm On Jul 12, 2011
Cuddlemii:

what what? ok bring the animal over for a cuddle to become a prince. the pix is not appealing, gives me the creeps


angry angry
Cuddlemii: 9:17pm On Jul 12, 2011
upendo 98:

the animal again??/
grin grin grin grin
cuddle this 'thing'cracks me up like crazy.
grin grin

Abeg I don't want to fight anyone today o.

I am so love moody abeg

Im confused about Nland baby love
bayour02(m): 9:23pm On Jul 12, 2011
Na waooooo, anyway ur problem physical. The bible says its only bastards dat gets angery so see mummy. And 2 remind u, Dis is a romance section so cary ur problem comot.
Atreides(f): 11:00pm On Jul 12, 2011
Wow. . I can totally relate to OP!
I have anger-management issues;though they're nowhere as serious as his.

I think you need to really examine yourself and find out why you get so angry.
If you're the religious type,your faith could help.
Re: My Anger Is Something I Don't Understand: How Can I Handle It? by Nobody: 12:03am On Jul 16, 2011
Atreides:

Wow. . I can totally relate to OP!
I have anger-management issues;though they're nowhere as serious as his.

I think you need to really examine yourself and find out why you get so angry.
If you're the religious type,your faith could help.
Yeah i am a good christian, But i am trying to understand things that really pisses me off. Buth the good thing about my anger is that once i av reacted and given the attacker a pice of my dosage i calm down quick
190: 12:06am On Jul 16, 2011
^you think u get pissed!

its cos u havent met who crace u before

by the time u're well munched then no one would tell u to cool down
Pweety4me(f): 12:11am On Jul 16, 2011
@OP Why not put it to bed [i]g[/i]ood use brutha! cheesy


Brutha try all the 'sensible' suggestions given hia e.g anger managment & if you say your trully a good or strng christian?you need to really deepn your relationship with God that's one of the major ways as a believer to conquer all them type of angry emotions leading you to do some things you may regret.

I really can't stand guys who vex 2 much, it's not cool.
undecided lipsrsealed
toyemz(f): 12:40am On Jul 16, 2011
@poster

are you a Leo by any chance?
seem to see loads of characteristics in you
Re: My Anger Is Something I Don't Understand: How Can I Handle It? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jul 16, 2011
Pweety4me:


I really can't stand guys who vex 2 much, it's not cool.
undecided lipsrsealed
Can we hook up personally so dat u can teach me ways outta dis? wink
Atreides(f): 6:39pm On Jul 16, 2011
Pweety,he will break bottle on your head oh!
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You haff been warned
snookies(f): 12:19am On Jul 18, 2011
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Re: My Anger Is Something I Don't Understand: How Can I Handle It? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Jul 20, 2011
Atreides:

Pweety,he will break bottle on your head oh!
grin grin grin
You haff been warned
Haba naaaaaaw, grin Av always had special interest in her
Pweety4me(f): 6:52pm On Jul 20, 2011
Special ineterest? that's how it starts. . .
Re: My Anger Is Something I Don't Understand: How Can I Handle It? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jul 21, 2011
Pweety4me:

Special ineterest? that's how it starts. . .
I don't even know how it came so suddenly, Maybe its just lust. Loool
Atreides(f): 10:51am On Jul 22, 2011
That's how his anger will come suddenly oh
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Brisingr(m): 3:19am On Jul 25, 2011
anger is relative it probably because u haven't met some crazy dudes in yur lyf
my own remedy for people wit anger issues provoke a bus conductor unda d hot afternoon sun and see if he won't use his fists to treat yur anga problem
Pweety4me(f): 3:21am On Jul 25, 2011
Atreides:

That's how his anger will come suddenly oh
grin grin
Lol i no even send undecided


Ijogz K:

I don't even know how it came so suddenly, Maybe its just lust. Loool
U get mind sha.
Rapmoney(m): 5:34pm On Jul 25, 2011
The best medicine for you now is SEX!!! In abundance too!!!
easyglo(f): 6:47pm On Jul 26, 2011
My only counsel 4 u as a Social Worker is dat u should b concious of urself especialy wen u notice u are getin angry. U can decide 2 walk away 4rm d scene. As 4 ur girl, i think u should plead wit her 2 assist nd stand by u while u fight dis spirit anger. Most importantly, dont 4get 2 always pray abt it. U can do it especialy wen u are feed up. Peace.
livedit(f): 9:42pm On Jul 26, 2011
You've been given some very good suggestions already.  So Livedit don't have much more to add to those suggesions/comments.  Everyone get's angry, but if it's too the point where it's really affecting your well being along with your family life, then you definitely dealing with something much more serious.  It sounds to me, you are dealing with a spirit of "rage".  You said that you've been praying and fasting.  Have you also tried deliverance?  By this I mean not only spiritualy, but counciling to find the root cause of why you are having these episodes.  It's always good to pray and fast so you can talk and hear from God more clearer, but when you dealing with a strong hold such as this.  You will also need to be delivered. 

Far as your woman.  Maybe you can try talking to her again and stressing  to her that you do recognize you have a problem with your anger and asure her you are seeking help for it.  You can try asking everyone whom you offended for forgiveness and for their prayers as well that you will get the help that you need.  Maybe they all can go to counciling with you to help and learn how to deal with this problem until it's resolved.  This is all you can do.  I'm sure your woman means alot to you and you don't want to lose her.  But you will have to understand she has her choice if rather or not she want to stay and continue to stick this through with you.  This is a lot to deal with and it will take alot of patience from loved ones.  Just think if the roles were reversed and it was you that had to deal with someone like that.
mashnino(m): 9:50pm On Jul 26, 2011
the rock and undertaker won't even mind weda u were angry, before u'd realize wat you were trying to do, u wuld ve been loooooonnnnnnnggggggg dead,, so don't use htem for examples, you could try using 190 and co
Saraha1(f): 11:21pm On Jul 26, 2011
I have this same problem,but thank God now it has reduce to a minimum,
i cloud recall that one day a man of God(Pastor ) told me that i should pray seriously regarding my
anger or else,that very moment i decide to change that Act as possible as i can,and even now people have
said severally thing regarding my positive change.
I heard anger is a spirit and until you rebuke it ,it will continue to torment your life
haroldvicks: 6:47am On Jul 04, 2012
that was a wrong advise...he has a problem of anger and you want him to go and get more problem adding to the one he already suffering.... [color=#990000]that was a wrong advise...he has a problem of anger and you want him to go and get more problem adding to the one he already suffering....
trendphemmy(m): 7:08am On Jul 04, 2012
Dere is nothing like spiritual here, U̶̲̥̅̊ need to visit a psychriatist first den U̶̲̥̅̊ will be directed. Thanks. I see many of this cases daily

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