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todaynewsreview:
As married nairalanders, how often do your spouse provoke you? And how do you handle such provocations?

Provocation to me comes daily, though depending on the level of provocation from the other partner.

No marriage is perfect but our ability handle each others flaws is what matters more. Considering every provocation as a yardstick to acrimonious living may only lead to broken homes.

How do you handle yours?

Provocations comes daily in marriage but we learn to let it slide sometimes and pretend as if nothing happened, In marriage one person must be calm for the other, two werey nor fit marry each other otherwise na steady gbege everyday

All the time most times it is wise to keep quiet then look for a good time to discuss the issue ,like I told my wife before we got married that all issues are discussable no issue is greater than the marriage

awoniyi1236:
2-4 times a day, followed by baby I’m sorry, but I said I’m sorry nah

lolzz...u nailed it

The anger in me right now ehnnn,this topic just goes well with it because,this is the end of my 2 years relationship. I'm tired of the numerous quarrels nd relationship sef nor easy I'm just wondering how it is for marriage

Am not afraid of death, am not afraid to whether I will be successful, nothing fears me more than the fact that I will one day be married.
These creatures can annoy u more than pussy cat and dog.
If you wanna cut short ur happiness and peace of mind, just invite ur woman for the weekend. You will sure take Panadol extra before she leaves.

Happening now !

My wife knows her limit. She can't go extra miles to provoke me because if she do, she ll receive x3 of it. We no dey too provoke each other like that sef cause we know where to draw the line and we know what each want and don't want.

kikilove:
The anger in me right now ehnnn,this topic just goes well with it because,this is the end of my 2 years relationship. I'm tired of the numerous quarrels nd relationship sef nor easy I'm just wondering how it is for marriage

Patience please.... If you leave just because of what's happening now, you may keep leaving. No spouse is perfect..... Tolerance is key.

simpleseyi:
Women provoke their husbands every 30 minutes. Confirm from your dad and uncles.

Imagine how many times the nincompoop called Mrs Ebelechkwu Obiano provokes her husband daily. It should be once every 5 minutes.

quarelling get category oh, some na to bust head if provoke small

akaahs:
My wife knows her limit. She can't go extra miles to provoke me because if she do, she ll receive x3 of it. We no dey too provoke each other like that sef cause we know where to draw the line and we know what each want and don't want.

such relationship no dey sweet because the day you go vex, na to burst head remain

3 month into my marriage.... And i can say... Marriage been sweet.. Married my best friend... Though we nag.... Once in a while... But trust me everything end within seconds. And we always bang real gud...

wordapostle:
Once in a month or maybe 2 months, though if I notice too much peace I will create problems so she can come and beg me and after the begging... Marriage is sweet with the right woman. This is my 9th year, though it seems we are just starting.

For real?
Pls what is the secret?
Is she working?
Are u footing all the bills?
She is from where

I beg, who marriage epp?

The way women provoke men, do you know men think a lot after such provocations?

That's why most men die before their partners because of all these bullshits they exhibit.

Most men will work their sweats out and all the women cares about are their own comfort and that of their kids...They always leave the men by the sides.

That's why so many die from depression, heart attacks and stress...98% of women do not appreciate the effort of men that's why they are always at loggerheads.

In short, it's best to have baby mammas than being stuck with a nagging partner.

All lions prefer conquering territories than remaining with the pack.

If na to Bleep, just look for a bittch and throwaway the juice and move.

The day you decided to marry, that's your Waterloo to freedom and long life.

I couldn't just say why God created women beside Men!!
Mine provoke me very many times a day, its only when I tried hard to resist her trouble by leaving the house for her, then she reduce it to like 2-3 times a day.

I'm just looking for where to hide after work so I can be coming home by weekends to reduces her provocation to a minimal.

awoniyi1236:
2-4 times a day, followed by baby I’m sorry, but I said I’m sorry nah

Hahahaha

todaynewsreview:
As married nairalanders, how often do your spouse provoke you? And how do you handle such provocations?

Provocation to me comes daily, though depending on the level of provocation from the other partner.

No marriage is perfect but our ability handle each others flaws is what matters more. Considering every provocation as a yardstick to acrimonious living may only lead to broken homes.

How do you handle yours?

Very often. Sometimes I felt like removing her teeth ��

McTobe:
70 times 70 times. Seriously I have learnt not to take everything my spouse says seriously but she must not discover that otherwise it will hurt her. Also I have vowed more than 20 times not to argue with her but you see yourself arguing again and again. My last working solution is to just listen as if to a radio when her argument button is activated. But honestly why the big gap of understanding between men & women?

Because women always want men to reason like them, and men also want women to reason like that... But that's impossible... We are wired differently.

Drakkernoir:
She is just doing it now

Na patience

Lol

greypencils:
I swear. Mine too. Na vex I take enter nairaland 5 mins ago.

Michelle70:
SMH

Wetin?

Pussyassasin:
omo aunty that marriage is gbas gbos

Yoruba will say "afi suru".

todaynewsreview:


Patience please.... If you leave just because of what's happening now, you may keep leaving. No spouse is perfect..... Tolerance is key.

I just feel I have tolerated enough.i am drained already.Too much talk I have to correct nd teach everything nd corrections wouldn't still be taken

Michelle70:
I don't get provoked easily except u go extra mile to deliberately do it, u can't provoke me

Na so one of my paddy talk until they provoke am one Day na him vex that day sef .... Lol �

ogashman:
I never marry but the kind problem I dey get with my girl, marriage don dey fear me

I swear I'm just laughing here cos I dey this ship with you bruh ..... Me want go buy proposal ring before I gat pause the movement cos for now almost everyday now we dey sha get misunderstanding ehn over simple things ehn ....

Rexnegro:

I swear I'm just laughing here cos I dey this ship with you bruh ..... Me want go buy proposal ring before I gat pause the movement cos for now almost everyday now we dey sha get misunderstanding ehn over simple things ehn ....

E choke my bro.....women get drama

ogashman:


E choke my bro.....women get drama

Over choke worry their matter ... Wrong statement bro women no get drama women na drama ... Chai hardly before you fit see a woman wey go understand person inside out with respect application.

Like, I would have opted for baby mama, instead of this per minute fighting and the worst thing is that mine own wife will insist all is OK, while the truth is That she is hurt. Honestly I am sick and tired

rollandben:
I couldn't just say why God created women beside Men!!
Mine provoke me very many times a day, its only when I tried hard to resist her trouble by leaving the house for her, then she reduce it to like 2-3 times a day.

I'm just looking for where to hide after work so I can be coming home by weekends to reduces her provocation to a minimal.

Hmmmmmmm...my brother, you just have to find a way to live with her ignoring her. It's like a natural thing to their gender. Even in mere interactions apart from relationship/marriage, they always have that urge to provoke. I've heard some people say women are just adults with the brain of a child. Never accepting to be wrong which is a major problem.

greypencils:
I swear. Mine too. Na vex I take enter nairaland 5 mins ago.

Hahahaha this is really funny

Óftén ànd often. Óne has to be deaf and blind to cope in marriage.

Toks2008:


That apology thing has ruined many relationships.

I even created a thread concerning it. If we all can learn to apologize even when we are sure we have no reason to, we will experience the best union ever.

true fact.

Isholad11:
Like, I would have opted for baby mama, instead of this per minute fighting and the worst thing is that mine own wife will insist all is OK, while the truth is That she is hurt. Honestly I am sick and tired

Every Female sees it as a normal thing. Even if there's ño need for it they will create one. They enjoy it. Just ignore her