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So many s are bashing the OP for being petty. But they are ignorant of the real world and how it works.

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7055209/denied-wife-food-night-right


Women are very known for shlt testing a man. His wife gave him a shlt test and OP ed with flying colors but that’s not the end of it.

If OP had cooked the food and invited her to eat, that would be the beginning of

“I cooked yesterday, you should cook today”



Never let a woman catch you unguard. If She had gotten away with her test. She’ll introduce more test to see what and what She can get away with. At last you’ll become “that man wey dey go market for em wife”


One demented called “Iyaebe” said she’ll deny him sex for doing that. That explains everything you need to know. The moment they realizes their shlt test is not working on you, they use their only lifeline to try manipulate you to delusion.

the solution to this is for men to marry more than one wife

our fathers and fore fathers did it heaven did not fall

omo

Typical 'Nigeria's men' mentality. I'm not amazed.

Stargurl20:
Typical 'Nigeria's men' mentality. I'm not amazed.

What would you call the OPs wife mentality?

Carcholce:

One demented called “Iyaebe” said she’ll deny him sex for doing that. That explains everything you need to know. The moment they realizes their shlt test is not working on you, they use their only lifeline to try manipulate you to delusion.

Bro, why trying to make STUPID PEOPLE famous? She's a Low lifer na, na her type full Nigeria now. What else does she have to Offer a Man? Absolutely nothing other than SEX!

Stargurl20:
Typical 'Nigeria's men' mentality. I'm not amazed.

Shut up and be loyal to your man

My own concern is that he's married to that lady...
If she was asleep, we would have considered it, but her majesty, was seeing a movie!

Stargurl20:
Typical 'Nigeria's men' mentality. I'm not amazed.

You better not be!
Those ancient female tricks are becoming ineffectual, the charms are fading!!!
Amazed kor amazing grace ni

Redoil:
the solution to this is for men to marry more than one wife

our fathers and fore fathers did it heaven did not fall

You are 100% right guy, a man shouldn't be at the mercy of just one wife, if she knows she has competition then she won't bring out crazy attitudes.

If not for the economy the best would have been to marry as much as one can then house then separately of course with their knowledge, when A brings out one stupid character you go off to B and chill till anytime her senses are back.

Marriage favours the women most and that's why they don't reason deep before taking some action.

You're very right, OP.

Just look at the way some men were busy attacking the man in that thread, but they saw nothing wrong in what the wife did. They were even defending her.

As a man, the moment you're not firm and cannot make a decision on your own, women will continue to manipulate you for their selfish wants and you'll think you're being romantic.

If he had allowed her eat from the food, that will be the beginning of I cooked today, so you must cook tomorrow and then manipulations enters.

For sanity sake avoid drama Queens

for me as a woman i the man, from all indications the woman was`nt sick. Pls i need mtn card to call my dad. God bless the giver.07068089742

How i wish nairaland could do voice note, I have lots on my mind about the issue.

Fahdiga:
Shut up and be loyal to your man

Oturatetuala:
How i wish nairaland could do voice note, I have lots on my mind about the issue.

You came here again?

zexy2030:

You came here again?

You be monitoring spirit? . How you dey now?

Oturatetuala:



You be monitoring spirit? . How you dey now?

Settle with your wife, isn't it better, this forum don't need this.

Carcholce:
So many s are bashing the OP for being petty. But they are ignorant of the real world and how it works.

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7055209/denied-wife-food-night-right


Women are very known for shlt testing a man. His wife gave him a shlt test and OP ed with flying colors but that’s not the end of it.

If OP had cooked the food and invited her to eat, that would be the beginning of

“I cooked yesterday, you should cook today”



Never let a woman catch you unguard. If She had gotten away with her test. She’ll introduce more test to see what and what She can get away with. At last you’ll become “that man wey dey go market for em wife”


One demented called “Iyaebe” said she’ll deny him sex for doing that. That explains everything you need to know. The moment they realizes their shlt test is not working on you, they use their only lifeline to try manipulate you to delusion.

Iyaebe was totally wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right. I don't want to believe it was a test. I don't the man not giving his wife food. Being suck doesn't mean you can't press phone. Let love lead.

What that lady did was TOTALLY WRONG, but denying her dinner wasn't the right way to go about it ...

spydera:
My own concern is that he's married to that lady...
If she was asleep, we would have considered it, but her majesty, was seeing a movie!

The wife even said she's not hungry, I don't know why people were just calling the Op a wicked somebody.

Favfables1:
What that lady did was TOTALLY WRONG, but denying her dinner wasn't the right way to go about it ...

but she said she was not hungry na. How come she suddenly became hungry when the food was ready.

What Op did was d best way a man of the house should act. She wouldn't dare to do such next time, if she wants to eat. If d husband had given her food that night, she would have taken him for granted and repeat d same thing next time, after all, she will still eat whether she participates in the cooking or not. Men should be men and be in control of their homes. If you as a man continue to tolerate shit from your woman or wife, believe me, that's how it's gonna continue. Men be firm! I don't say you become Adolf Hitler o but let your woman knows you don't tolerate shit. She will respect you for that.

Favfables1:
What that lady did was TOTALLY WRONG, but denying her dinner wasn't the right way to go about it ...

. A man cannot deny his wife food the kitchen belongs to her.. she was found wanting at what ought to be her primary assignment to her family all in d name of gender equality.

Redoil:
the solution to this is for men to marry more than one wife

our fathers and fore fathers did it heaven did not fall

God bless you.

If my wife begin misbehave to me, I will just bring in another woman to reset her brain.

We only have one life to live I can't come and waste it.

Iyaebe is just catching cruise here lol how do you take her matter serious?

Btw, these are irrelevant issues and this is why we need the Holy Spirit for directions when facing situations like this. I cook fine, you cook fine...when there is love, it matters not but I understand we are humans and sometimes these things gets to us, but when you think about it, there are more serious issues in life and this shouldn’t give you headache. Forgive and let go, be at peace with everyone and enjoy life.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them..

Next time out of 3k give her 2k or 2.5 to cook, don’t make bad choices and blame your woman on nairaland for wanting what she wants, you must lead for a woman to follow... the dude is still a simp in denial I’ll repeat it over and over again

Carcholce:
So many s are bashing the OP for being petty. But they are ignorant of the real world and how it works.

https://nairaland.unblockandhide.com/7055209/denied-wife-food-night-right


Women are very known for shlt testing a man. His wife gave him a shlt test and OP ed with flying colors but that’s not the end of it.

If OP had cooked the food and invited her to eat, that would be the beginning of

“I cooked yesterday, you should cook today”



Never let a woman catch you unguard. If She had gotten away with her test. She’ll introduce more test to see what and what She can get away with. At last you’ll become “that man wey dey go market for em wife”


One demented called “Iyaebe” said she’ll deny him sex for doing that. That explains everything you need to know. The moment they realizes their shlt test is not working on you, they use their only lifeline to try manipulate you to delusion.

That iyaebe is very demented

Stargurl20:
Typical 'Nigeria's men' mentality. I'm not amazed.

Yimu position of husband carries no respect anymore that's why. he says he does 80% of the chores, at least pretend to hold your gender able. If this happened in your son's home,your gender will be the first to flip out

Xilsbridalhouse:
Iyaebe is just catching cruise here lol how do you take her matter serious?

Btw, these are irrelevant issues and this is why we need the Holy Spirit for directions when facing situations like this. I cook fine, you cook fine...when there is love, it matters not but I understand we are humans and sometimes these things gets to us, but when you think about it, there are more serious issues in life and this shouldn’t give you headache. Forgive and let go, be at peace with everyone and enjoy life.

*he

Most jobless trolls on NL tend to be male, if she is female then I am dissappointed

qtguru:


*he

Most jobless trolls on NL tend to be male, if she is female then I am dissappointed

Kikikikik you are still this confused because I don’t the brainwashed modern day slavery you guys dishes out on this forum.Youll be disappointed for a long time and hope you’ve left akure because I don’t know what you are still doing there if you don’t have ulterior motives,thank your stars I don’t have your fiancées number