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Reasons Why You May Not Date Or Marry The One You Love That Loves You (29537 Views)

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noblle(m): 10:05pm On Mar 20, 2022
To love is one thing, to be obsessed about someone is another.

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Divoc19(f): 10:05pm On Mar 20, 2022
Hmm
marooh: 10:06pm On Mar 20, 2022
Solofresh2:
I'm one word,love with sense
I appreciate people that love me though.
If I love you and you are not reciprocating it then I will force myself to let you be
nice move
HRSweetness(f): 10:08pm On Mar 20, 2022
I love hard quite alright. My love is an expensive investment, I can't afford to waste it wink
folake4u(f): 10:09pm On Mar 20, 2022
BirtherOfKings:
Marry man wey fear and love GOD
Preferably a winner member
They fear GOD and listen to his servant so u won't have issues, they are also ordained to be Giants so it's a good choice

Winners church member wey I know na choir leader wey dey sleep around. undecided

Which fear of God he come get?

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Haywhymido(m): 10:09pm On Mar 20, 2022
almarthins:


Girls/women will be looking for God fearing men but do these ladies fear God?
No bro, while looking for God fearing men(simps) to marry they are flirting and having serial of sexcapade with the rough guys(alpha males). Take a lady's word serious at your own peril.

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vikstandon(m): 10:12pm On Mar 20, 2022
Love doesn't hurt... obsession does!!!
jaxxy(m): 10:17pm On Mar 20, 2022
BirtherOfKings:
Marry man wey fear and love GOD
Preferably a winner member
They fear GOD and listen to his servant so u won't have issues, they are also ordained to be Giants so it's a good choice

U are only being religious not real. Are winners perfect? Heard their ushers dey run serious things.

A God fearing person is ok bt the individual character and principles of the person matters too.
Kobojunkie: 10:21pm On Mar 20, 2022
BirtherOfKings:
Marry man wey fear and love GOD
Preferably a winner member

They fear GOD and listen to his servant so u won't have issues, they are also ordained to be Giants so it's a good choice
Tell that to the millions who married simply that and are living to this day in regret. undecided

Even the Pharisees and Sadduseeics claimed to fear God but we know they were nothing but hypocrites.. undecided

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Nonexisting: 10:21pm On Mar 20, 2022
BirtherOfKings:
Marry man wey fear and love GOD
Preferably a winner member
They fear GOD and listen to his servant so u won't have issues, they are also ordained to be Giants so it's a good choice
Continue lying to yourself with religion.
Zealag(m): 10:22pm On Mar 20, 2022
Some relationship is good at arm's length,once it gets past there it becomes a problem.

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Maxxim: 10:22pm On Mar 20, 2022
BirtherOfKings:
Marry man wey fear and love GOD
Preferably a winner member
They fear GOD and listen to his servant so u won't have issues, they are also ordained to be Giants so it's a good choice
I wish someone could write how women uses Religion and fear of God to dominate and control men, I fear who no fear hooks of women manipulation.

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jaxxy(m): 10:23pm On Mar 20, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
The truth is that when you love someone truly and deeply, you become clingy, addicted and insecure... especially if you've not worked on yourself in that regard.

A person who loves deeply can as well hate to kill... they can be blind to reason and logic and can even hurt the one they love If the one they love fails to keep simple relationship assurances.

A guy killed his partner because he caught her pants down with her employer making out in his office.

A lady silently drugged and killed her fiancee for cheating.

Love is a lot of work. It is not easy to say you love someone... be careful the type of love you allow to lead u into any relationship or marriage.

If a guy loves u too much as to be clingy, insecure, addicted to you, you must be careful. Same applies with the ladies too.

There is something called, the other side of love.cheesy


Ok the people u described didn't love their partners they were obsessed, lust or infatuated.

Love doesn't hurt the other, it's not overly possessive, love forgives, love is kind, wise and many other good attributes of love.

Even when u offend each other which can happen there are ways to resolve It or let go.

I think people don't understand love and go into relationships with faulty ideas and emotions.

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Akachai2030(m): 10:25pm On Mar 20, 2022
BirtherOfKings:
Marry man wey fear and love GOD
Preferably a winner member
They fear GOD and listen to his servant so u won't have issues, they are also ordained to be Giants so it's a good choice
na by that one
Vitamin17(m): 10:26pm On Mar 20, 2022
BirtherOfKings:
Marry man wey fear and love GOD
Preferably a winner member
They fear GOD and listen to his servant so u won't have issues, they are also ordained to be Giants so it's a good choice

Winner member? Keep deceiving yourselves

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Bahamas95(m): 10:27pm On Mar 20, 2022
I don't understand this OP sef.

Do you prefer I marry a woman I don't love or what? undecided. This is one of the reasons I don't straff every girl without condom. I don't want what happened in 1945 to repeat itself. The only girl I can straff without condom and have peace of mind is a girl I truly love. I don't want a situation where I will be forced to marry a girl simply because I impregnated her.
Tinymayour: 10:40pm On Mar 20, 2022
RapistOnBail:

Alpha Males Dont fall in love with females only males. We don’t understand what you are talking about!





Were kuku sokpe gay ni e .. who wan bite you got it
house10s2: 10:43pm On Mar 20, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
The truth is that when you love someone truly and deeply, you become clingy, addicted and insecure... especially if you've not worked on yourself in that regard.

A person who loves deeply can as well hate to kill... they can be blind to reason and logic and can even hurt the one they love If the one they love fails to keep simple relationship assurances.

A guy killed his partner because he caught her pants down with her employer making out in his office.

A lady silently drugged and killed her fiancee for cheating.

Love is a lot of work. It is not easy to say you love someone... be careful the type of love you allow to lead u into any relationship or marriage.

If a guy loves u too much as to be clingy, insecure, addicted to you, you must be careful. Same applies with the ladies too.

There is something called, the other side of love.cheesy

u not making sense not one n d that forwarded ur post wanted us to see u have no sense
Rosement(f): 10:45pm On Mar 20, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
The truth is that when you love someone truly and deeply, you become clingy, addicted and insecure... especially if you've not worked on yourself in that regard.

A person who loves deeply can as well hate to kill... they can be blind to reason and logic and can even hurt the one they love If the one they love fails to keep simple relationship assurances.

A guy killed his partner because he caught her pants down with her employer making out in his office.

A lady silently drugged and killed her fiancee for cheating.

Love is a lot of work. It is not easy to say you love someone... be careful the type of love you allow to lead u into any relationship or marriage.

If a guy loves u too much as to be clingy, insecure, addicted to you, you must be careful. Same applies with the ladies too.

There is something called, the other side of love.cheesy

I once felt I was deeply in love with a particular guy but when I realised he was already in a relationship and he did not have the same feelings for me. I did not throw myself at him or try to force my love on him. The feeling you are describing is obsession not love, love doesn't hurt and love is not toxic.

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VenumX: 10:47pm On Mar 20, 2022
Op is on weed. lipsrsealed

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Wanny20(m): 10:51pm On Mar 20, 2022
Love is NEVER ENOUGH.

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SocialJustice: 10:56pm On Mar 20, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
The truth is that when you love someone truly and deeply, you become clingy, addicted and insecure... especially if you've not worked on yourself in that regard.

A person who loves deeply can as well hate to kill... they can be blind to reason and logic and can even hurt the one they love If the one they love fails to keep simple relationship assurances.

A guy killed his partner because he caught her pants down with her employer making out in his office.

A lady silently drugged and killed her fiancee for cheating.

Love is a lot of work. It is not easy to say you love someone... be careful the type of love you allow to lead u into any relationship or marriage.

If a guy loves u too much as to be clingy, insecure, addicted to you, you must be careful. Same applies with the ladies too.

There is something called, the other side of love.cheesy

Love is not destructive or insecure or able to kill or clingy or seeks assurance. Sounds more like you were trying to talk about greed, obsession, deceit, gluttony and every other evil out there that people believe is love.

Humans are just a very primitive species that have barely scratched the power locked in them because they can't handle something as simple as love. The same reason advanced non human civilizations minise with us.

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donb06: 11:02pm On Mar 20, 2022
Bahamas95:
I don't understand this OP sef.

Do you prefer I marry a woman I don't love or what? undecided. This is one of the reasons I don't straff every girl without condom. I don't want what happened in 1945 to repeat itself. The only girl I can straff without condom and have peace of mind is a girl I truly love. I don't want a situation where I will be forced to marry a girl simply because I impregnated her.
What the OP is saying that there is a chance that girl doesn't love you in return.. grin
Tourcc: 11:03pm On Mar 20, 2022
Kobojunkie: 11:05pm On Mar 20, 2022
Maxxim:

I wish someone could write how women uses Religion and fear of God to dominate and control men, I fear who no fear hooks of women manipulation.
What do you when you claim women use it to dominate and control men?. undecided

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Kobojunkie: 11:12pm On Mar 20, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
1. The truth is that when you love someone truly and deeply, you become clingy, addicted and insecure... especially if you've not worked on yourself in that regard. A person who loves deeply can as well hate to kill... they can be blind to reason and logic and can even hurt the one they love If the one they love fails to keep simple relationship assurances.

2. A guy killed his partner because he caught her pants down with her employer making out in his office. A lady silently drugged and killed her fiancee for cheating.

3. Love is a lot of work. It is not easy to say you love someone... be careful the type of love you allow to lead u into any relationship or marriage. If a guy loves u too much as to be clingy, insecure, addicted to you, you must be careful. Same applies with the ladies too.
There is something called, the other side of love.cheesy

1. What you describe is not love but bothers on obsession, and control. undecided

2. The cases you mentioned have nothing to do with love instead they seem more like cases that have to do with obsession and control. undecided

3. Such relationships are unhealthy and anyone who finds himself in such needs to realize the risk involved in remaining in such relationships. undecided

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kelspinall(m): 11:15pm On Mar 20, 2022
eye opening fact
macho44(m): 11:22pm On Mar 20, 2022
BirtherOfKings:
Marry man wey fear and love GOD
Preferably a winner member
They fear GOD and listen to his servant so u won't have issues, they are also ordained to be Giants so it's a good choice
It's a two way thing, na vice-versa grin

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sweetjohn(m): 11:27pm On Mar 20, 2022
Women are bunch of confuse sex. They makes me confuse about them infact, I don't even understand them. Anything you do they pretend about everything and I hate pretenders. Case closed. Am outta here

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Kobojunkie: 11:30pm On Mar 20, 2022
sweetjohn:
Women are bunch of confuse sex. They makes me confuse about them infact, I don't even understand them. Anything you do they pretend about everything and I hate pretenders. Case closed. Am outta here
The problem isn't the women but you. Many of you seem to need counseling when it comes to Adulting. undecided

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sweetjohn(m): 11:34pm On Mar 20, 2022
sweetjohn:
Women are bunch of confuse sex. They makes me confuse about them infact, I don't even understand them. Anything you do they pretend about everything and I hate pretenders. Case closed. Am outta here
Women don't really love. Women only to love men or guys that is a fool to them or guys or men they can control like remote control. And not all men or guys likes being foolish. I hate it. I like being myself and this female gender hate guys that are themselves. Ok! Am tired of any topic that has to do with love this love that. It doesn't exist. Am outta here jaree

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