NewStats: 3,262,882 , 8,178,452 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 10:22 PM 4j5a3b

pocohantas:


Then he isn’t interested, he is distracted and he is most likely isn’t sexually attracted. Men do not travel across miles to talk about NATO and Russia/Ukraine. I also advise he comes to you. If you are going to him, take the high road and pay your tfare. That way you hold all the aces. If you don’t want to do that, then let him come to you. If he isn’t coming, he just doesn’t think it is worth his time. Free him…

People meet online every other day and get married. I know too many examples.

He shouldn't initiate something he can't work out. As my topic states, I just miss d fun in dating. I'm not here to talk about him. Thanks alot for your imput

mirexxx:
he initiated it all so it's his concern if he doesn't wanna work it out. As my topic states, I just miss d fun in dating. I'm not here to talk about him. Thanks alot for your imput

Oh well, it is sometimes easier to salvage old ones. At least it would let also help us know what we might be missing. I wish you goodluck.

pocohantas:


Oh well, it is sometimes easier to salvage old ones. At least it would let also help us know what we might be missing. I wish you goodluck.

mirexxx:
how were u insulted here? Let's reason abeg

Girls here are very disrespectful. I had a clash with some of them very recently, although those ones are very stupid tribalists. I hardly frequent this section because the attitude of a lot of girls here ain't encouraging.

PressMyButton:

Girls here are very disrespectful. I had a clash with some of them very recently, although those ones are very stupid tribalists. I hardly frequent this section because the attitude of a lot of girls here ain't encouraging.

none of my business

mirexxx:
none of my business

Sure.

BrightDr:

Noted. In case you change your mind someday.

As if you'll be waiting

mirexxx:
I'm not here for that. I only expressed myself

What are you feeling like?

pocohantas:


It is normal, not just with online dating, even physical. In the first few weeks, the fire is high, there are too many things to catch up on.

-How many are you in your family?
-Do you eat ogbono?
-Where did you school?
-What is your favourite colour?
-I am an Arsenal fan so I am used to disappointments…etc

When you guys have exhausted the dating past questions, then the real work starts.

I think if we women put in as much work as men do. You know, they are most times the ones calling, asking that you guys meet physically, initiating video calls and you just turn these things down because you don’t want to see his face that day. Maybe we should try doing the work sometimes. What do you think?

Poco be talking like someone wey get sense. You now acknowledge the fact that you ladies are lazy & boring. You ain't forward thinking but always expecting the guys to initiate the moves.

mirexxx:
you're right but what if I say reverse is the case. He tried calling a few times. To my surprise this guy has not for once spoken about video calls and when I asked for it he gave an excuse. Okay he planned a meeting cos we live in different states....so I told him to pay 4 my train tickets online so I can travel he kept wasting time. He ended up blamming the interview I had on that day as the reason we couldn't see. Okay let's plan another one, he said he is earnestly working on it. So I let it rest

Can't you pay for your own transport? you na hungry girl

PressMyButton:

Girls here are very disrespectful. I had a clash with some of them very recently, although those ones are very stupid tribalists. I hardly frequent this section because the attitude of a lot of girls here ain't encouraging.

I asked a girl if she could visit Lag so we could see, she said what if I wanted to use her for ritual. I just weak.

Putindbutt:

I asked a girl if she could visit Lag so we could see, she said what if I wanted to use her for ritual. I just weak.

Her concerns are legit.

Ishilove get your ass here.

mirexxx:
As if you'll be waiting

Time will tell.

Putindbutt:

I asked a girl if she could visit Lag so we could see, she said what if I wanted to use her for ritual. I just weak.

Can you imagine. That's the type of insults I was talking about. It was on Nairaland I heard ladies calling men as horseband. I heard it here for the very first time in my life.

mirexxx:
you're right but what if I say reverse is the case. He tried calling a few times. To my surprise this guy has not for once spoken about video calls and when I asked for it he gave an excuse. Okay he planned a meeting cos we live in different states....so I told him to pay 4 my train tickets online so I can travel he kept wasting time. He ended up blamming the interview I had on that day as the reason we couldn't see. Okay let's plan another one, he said he is earnestly working on it. So I let it rest

If I'll have to travel to meet someone .I'll make sure I hold my tp for hand. to and fro. Unless the person offers help. I don't like stories that touches the heart.

Life happens. When the time is right you will date again.

Kobojunkie:
Her concerns are legit.

Then let everybody be suspicious of each other and forget about dating. Na women go lose.

Putindbutt:

Then let everybody be suspicious of each other and forget about dating. Na women go lose.

Ofcourse you have to be sensitive suspicious until you gather enough information to convince you otherwise.

Women actually have more to gain from adequately vetting any and all prospective suitor.

PressMyButton:

Can you imagine. That's the type of insults I was talking about. It was on Nairaland I heard ladies calling men as horseband. I heard it here for the very first time in my life.

They are dying in the inside, yet forming shít here. Na hungry girls full here.

Kobojunkie:
Ofcourse you have to be sensitive suspicious until you gather enough information to convince you otherwise.

Women actually have more to gain from adequately vetting any and all prospective suitor.

As you be CIA, how can she gather enough information without knowing each other up close & personal?.. Let her stay far away & Anonymous to help her hack my information.

Putindbutt:

As you be CIA, how can she gather enough information without knowing each other up close & personal?.. Let her stay far away & Anonymous to help her hack my information.

She can review his online social media history and try to connect with people who may know him from online or his neighborhood.

Kobojunkie:
She can review his online social media history and try to connect with people who may know him from online or his neighborhood.

Stop talking like a clown. Social media life is different from real life.

@mirexxx


I suppose dating is one way we get to live nearly true to ourselves. That surge of emotions, the tingling feeling that seems to put us on our toes while waiting impatiently to have a surreal adventure without boundaries or coercion to explore a new terrain...

I doubt if the married ones have that liberty to be who they are and experience more life. Nevertheless, sooner than later, most relationships get kind of muddy in time especially if it is fueled with expectations.

Putindbutt:

Stop talking like a clown. Social media life is different from real life.

Yet, many crooks are caught daily by following their social-media trail?

Kobojunkie:
Yet, many crooks are caught daily by following their social-media trail?

It doesn't apply here. We ain't talking about business dealings here.

Putindbutt:

It doesn't apply here. We ain't talking about business dealings here.

It applies in all cases, and I don't understand what any of what I said has to do with business dealings.

Kobojunkie:
It applies in all cases, and I don't understand what any of what I said has to do with business dealings.

How can you trail me when I only exchange personal texts & romantic messages.

Putindbutt:

How can you trail me when I only exchange personal texts & romantic messages.

There are many ways and hacks to do this.

Kobojunkie:
There are many ways and hacks to do this.

You wanna hack my for requesting for a date. So, what happens when we finally meet... you bug my house?

Bluezy13:
Hehehe...

Coming from someone who got lost in wonderland.
Indeed, you are yet to find yourself.

Modafvcker!!!