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I have this female colleague in my workplace she very nice,homely and beautiful infact countless customers have ask me to help them woo her but she is very selective and has a boyfriend,I wouldn't lie I equally find her attractive but I am afraid of having anything sexual to do with her because of my boss and also because she is very demanding financially, I wonder how her boyfriend copes I doubt if she even tax her boyfriend that way.

We are so close people usually think we are dating being that we match in personality, I am the grooming type of guy,looking at me you will conclude I am a Yahoo boy because of my hairstyle and dressing and she is the slutty dressing type usually on short and exposing wears and wears multiple earrings on her ear. ,when I first met her I concluded she is Hookup/Runs girl not until I discovered that she has just one serious boyfriend and he comes to pick her after work I don't see any evidence of her bring wayward.

There is something weird about this girl,whenever we discuss she is always bringing up topics about her boyfriend repeatedly,even if you love your boyfriend to stupor does that always mean you should always tell me about him?I am starting to think she has other motives,as I speak now she has done the same thing again this morning why is she like that?

She's indirectly telling you to apply for the position of assistant boyfriend. But do so with wisdom so that you don't get heartbroken at the end of it all

Personally I don't see anything wrong with that.
Afterall na talk dey bring talk.
We should be asking you what normally leads to that discussion.


And that guy that picks her after work,doesn't he have any other work at all?
Sounds like a 'baby' stage relationship.

I don't see any issue here. She's just an open person that likes to gist you about her bf. You can tell her to stop if you don't like it.

Medianna:
Personally I don't see anything wrong with that.
Afterall na talk dey bring talk.
We should be asking you what normally leads to that discussion.

She brings up the topic even if it's not related to what we are discussing, sometimes she flirts with me ,sit on my laps but I don't want to further things because the girl can tax for Africa,always in need of money.

She's telling you so that the closeness she has with you should not make you catch feelings or have ulterior motive towards her.

MadamVanessa:





She's telling you so that the closeness she has with you should not make you catch feelings or have ulterior motive towards her.

Women are truly illogical..
This is a girl I am even trying my best to avoid because my boss is starting to suspect workplace romance,even she knows I am avoiding her but she still comes to my side every morning to greet and gist with me.

kollinzgee:


She brings up the topic even if it's not related to what we are discussing, sometimes she flirts with me ,sit on my laps but I don't want to further things because the girl can tax for Africa,always in need of money.

Sorry for what am about to say.
Shebi mouth dey pain you that you cannot clear up things with her.
So its because of taxing that you're avoiding not even because she's seeing someone else.
Stay away from another Man's 'property' abeg, girls never finish for planet earth.

Nothing bad about that, but you see that billing part, you better get Sense o cos most of them don't bill their boyfriends like that but only bill their worshipers (asslickers)

Tell her abt ur gf too even if u don't have any now.

kollinzgee:
I have this female colleague in my workplace she very nice,homely and beautiful infact countless customers have ask me to help them woo her but she is very selective and has a boyfriend,I wouldn't lie I equally find her attractive but I am afraid of having anything sexual to do with her because of my boss and also because she is very demanding financially, I wonder how her boyfriend copes I doubt if she even tax her boyfriend that way.

We are so close people usually think we are dating being that we match in personality, I am the grooming type of guy,looking at me you will conclude I am a Yahoo boy because of my hairstyle and dressing and she is the slutty dressing type usually on short and exposing wears and wears multiple earrings on her ear. ,when I first met her I concluded she is Hookup/Runs girl not until I discovered that she has just one serious boyfriend and he comes to pick her after work I don't see any evidence of her bring wayward.

There is something weird about this girl,whenever we discuss she is always bringing up topics about her boyfriend repeatedly,even if you love your boyfriend to stupor does that always mean you should always tell me about him?I am starting to think she has other motives,as I speak now she has done the same thing again this morning why is she like that?

I don't think there's a boyfriend, except you've seen him

Some girls is open minded while some are not, she maybe inviting you into her life or maybe not, just calm down and watch how things unfold

Dude keep calm. Don't say a word .

Your spirit will guide you

OP.That babe has sexual or romantic feelings for you. If a girl truly loves her man, she wont discuss him with anoda guy. If you can take the risk, Stylishly invite her to ur place, seduce and fvck her. If u cant, reduce ur convo wit her and kill dat yeye friendship!

bibianna:
I don't see any issue here. She's just an open person that likes to gist you about her bf. You can tell her to stop if you don't like it.

How would you feel if ur BF is always telling his 'female friend' things about u?

MadamVanessa:





She's telling you so that the closeness she has with you should not make you catch feelings or have ulterior motive towards her.

But they won't ever listen until it's too late

tiffanyfan:





But they won't ever listen until it's too late

All these women una too like to feel important like any man that has you has gold.

kollinzgee:



All these women una too like to feel important like any man that has you has gold.

You can't sleep with everyone, but if you are interested in her.
Get a gf if you don't have one, or another female friend if you don't need a gf.
That will divert your attention.

kollinzgee:


There is something weird about this girl,whenever we discuss she is always bringing up topics about her boyfriend repeatedly,even if you love your boyfriend to stupor does that always mean you should always tell me about him?I am starting to think she has other motives,as I speak now she has done the same thing again this morning why is she like that?

Jealousy .. she sees you are the jealous type and could also see you wanna tap Currents. She is using style to tell you how much she worths with the current boyfriend signifying how much you have to do to take her from him

You have to be a better Simp than the OG

if you toast her she will roast You: Entitlement Mentality kinda girl , Flee from Sin !

MadamVanessa:


She's telling you so that the closeness she has with you should not make you catch feelings or have ulterior motive towards her.

Nope, She sits on his laps. She is telling him what to do to woo her away from her boyfriend ....

She wants him to up his game in order to leave her boyfriend for him ....

Entitlement Mentality kinda girl ... She will roast and wreck you financially @Op

BeautifulSolace:
Dude keep calm. Don't say a word .

Your spirit will guide you

I find solace in your response

Vinnie2000:
OP.That babe has sexual or romantic feelings for you. If a girl truly loves her man, she wont discuss him with anoda guy. If you can take the risk, Stylishly invite her to ur place, seduce and fvck her. If u cant, reduce ur convo wit her and kill dat yeye friendship!

If she loves her man she wouldn't discuss him with another guy?

Doesn't make sense...

BoredBerry:
If she loves her man she wouldn't discuss him with another guy?

Doesn't make sense...

HELL NO, She shouldn't! If a lady really loves her man, she will keep dier affairs private! I have had same work experience as the OP! My boyfriend did this, he did dat! Later, she said i should buying her lunch once in a while! Is it not some Romance in her life or fvck she is looking for?

Vinnie2000:
HELL NO, She shouldn't! If a lady really loves her man, she will keep dier affairs private! I have had same work experience as the OP! My boyfriend did this, he did dat! Later, she said i should buying her lunch once in a while! Is it not some Romance in her life or fvck she is looking for?

Your experience...

If a lady loves her man, she would definitely mention him when she's with other men... She would not keep him a secret... It's a good way to tell other men to fu** off...

There are several reason these women do this, mention their boyfriends while billing other men...

Maybe to let you know that their relationship still matters more no matter what you and her do...

Maybe to make you jealous...

Maybe to make themselves feel better... Some women think being in a relationship is an achievement...

Maybe to be more attractive... Men tend to prefer women that are 'taken'...

BoredBerry:
Your experience...

If a lady loves her man, she would definitely mention him when she's with other men... She would not keep him a secret... It's a good way to tell other men to fu** off...

There are several reason these women do this, mention their boyfriends while billing other men...

Maybe to let you know that their relationship still matters more no matter what you and her do...

Maybe to make you jealous...

Maybe to make themselves feel better... Some women think being in a relationship is an achievement...

Maybe to be more attractive... Men tend to prefer women that are 'taken'...

You will Not understand tho.

Lets leave d matter!