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I believe we've heard it a million times but it bears repeating, even the strongest relationships face challenges

Building a happy, healthy partnership takes work and may not always be easy, especially when there’s been a breach of trust. “Issues are a part of life and a part of being in a relationship,” says clinical psychologist Stone Kraushaar. “ And the goal is to not fixate on the past, but work to create together in a meaningful way.”

Anytime trust is broken, there’s going to be a rift in the relationship. It might be painful to face, but leaving these issues unaddressed won’t help anyone in the long run.

So let me put to the intelligent Nairalanders,

What is the best way to spice up a dying relationship?

To love.

Is better leave it to die completely…
No be everything them dey repair oh

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The guy above me though

Find a new boo

obembet:
I believe we've heard it a million times but it bears repeating, even the strongest relationships face challenges

Building a happy, healthy partnership takes work and may not always be easy, especially when there’s been a breach of trust. “Issues are a part of life and a part of being in a relationship,” says clinical psychologist Stone Kraushaar. “ And the goal is to not fixate on the past, but work to create together in a meaningful way.”

Anytime trust is broken, there’s going to be a rift in the relationship. It might be painful to face, but leaving these issues unaddressed won’t help anyone in the long run.

So let me put to the intelligent Nairalanders,

What is the best way to spice up a dying relationship?

Complete breakup is the only way to fix a dying relationship.

Every relationship must not lead to marriage. Ladies should or must understand this simple truth.


Ladies need to understand that most of the time, it is desire for sex that pushes men to ask them out, its always about sex drive and every man don't always plan to marry every girl or lady he mates with.


Sometimes men just want to have fun with no intention of going far in the relationship.


When he or she shuts his or her feeling from you, don't go fighting for it, close the door and look at the next door. That you love a guy or a lady does not mean he or she is the best person for you.


Most times humans, especially ladies love the wrong guys and hoping to be loved back when the guy only came for fun.



As a lady, to keep a man that is looking for a committed relationship before he met you, you must meet his sexual needs first which is where sex attraction comes to play, and after you have met his sex desire comes his other manly needs like are you a homekeeper, are you frugal in spending or you love seeing him spend....some men would want a good cook, a listener than a talkative....some will want a financially independent lady as an extra quality, while others may want a highly spiritual or religious person. These are some of the other factors you will need to study about your partner's desire to keep him, if not, he will definitely leave no matter what you do, if you fail to meet some of these qualities he maybe seeking for

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A retreat

How else? You people should go and add atarodo, salt, maggi, shaki, efo and palm oil inside a swimming pool and jump inside. A spiced up relationship and life back, c'est fini.

Love knowledge and understanding

Leave it like that, na waste of time, couple wey don tire don tire

You be Jesus when they raise the dead to life,







Instead of you to give us tip on how to raise dead pocket to life you dey talk relationship,



See that boy/girl should be given a decent State/federal appointment and watch the way one of the party will bring that buried relationship to life

Buy Ariwo, smoke it with your boo before kpanshing, you’ll come back with testimonies.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

Somethings are meant to die...



Just pull the plug.....

Curry, maggi and onions

What's the essence of kicking a dying horse..

Lalasticlala

Leave am make e die abeg. Person wey don tire don tire.

OP.

Well, you have to Re-invent yourself. Like, do some crazy stuff.

If you are a lady, wear shorter gown, tint your hair and have nose ring.

While for the guy, go for Ratty or Dreadlock hairstyle, hit the gym and snap picx with Scantily dressed babes.

In such scenarios, curiousity and Attraction will rise up. From there, You guys can start enjoying urselves again.

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helinues:
Curry, maggi and onions

What's the essence of kicking a dying horse..

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Give it soul to Christ before it die.

On a serious note, communication is very important. You guys should consider a vacation for two of you like weekend getaway. Attend love and relationship retreat with your partner. Create time for the relationship.

Seun

Always using Cristiano Ronaldo to remind your partner that no matter what, you people shouldn’t stop trying to make it work.
CR7 doesn’t give up, mindless of how he’s been criticized.

Let it die

Allow it to die... Then start a new one with a new person.

Kill it

Let it die in peace

Rip in advance to your relationship