NewStats: 3,262,364 , 8,176,934 topics. Date: Monday, 02 June 2025 at 12:29 AM d3ii

Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, , you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.

Oil de your head

Both of them definitely need to stay away from each other else OP may disgrace his ancestors sooner or later.
Either OP moves to another house or he helps her get a place

Candidlady:



Ipity your daughter thats if you got any.... And all the poor lil girls around you ain't safe..

Do you men rock provocative wears??

That is how you go about driving yourselves into problems. You are just being too emotional than being practical.
Personally I don't do children things and I don't deceive myself with all this your nonsense relative things. I don't allow two adults of opposite sex stay together in a lonely and compromising place in the name that they are related. There is this Igbo adage that says take out the monkey hand from the soup before it turned human hand. The earlier you know and do the right thing the better.

Kobojunkie:
What you consider normal is now classified as a mental problem. So you need to reaccess your definition of normal?

In fact in medical parlance, for a man to react to a almost naked woman is regarded as sexual arousal. So nothing abnormal in that. In fact if a man does not react to that, he is likely going to be diagnosed as impotent. So, as I said, it’s only mad person that dresses skimpily or indecently. That cousin should make good use of that psychiatric appointment.

I almost banged my cousin o! In fact, na small e remain o!! I suck nipple, finger pussy and all just that I no put bullet inside gun. This my cousin was so hot back then. So, OP, I can relate with you. At the end, you go still bang that your cousin o. I swear e go happen!!! You are already tripping for her badly.

kkins25:

You know nothing jon snow.
lol.
When you see a girl you like, what you've seen is not a companion at least at the fundamental core of your being. what you've seen is a "mate".
i wonder though, why does someone with his balls castrated not have a female companion?

Wherever did you get the moronic idea that castrated men don't desire companionship from the female gender?

If your dk leads the way as far as far as your falling falling live, then you should look into your history for clues as the fact that you may need help.

https://www.quora.com/Does-castration-prevent-you-from-falling-in-love

drlateef:
In fact in medical parlance, for a man to react to a almost naked woman is regarded as sexual arousal. So nothing abnormal in that. In fact if a man does not react to that, he is likely going to be diagnosed as impotent. So, as I said, it’s only mad person that dresses skimpily or indecently. That cousin should make good use of that psychiatric appointment.

Abeg waka with this your level of reasoning.

REALretep:
Oil de your head

Both of them definitely need to stay away from each other else OP may disgrace his ancestors sooner or later.
Either OP moves to another house or he helps her get a place

Exactly my view. But is it really sinful to do?! In earliest times, cousins marry each other even in the bible. And till today, muslims still marry their first cousins in Arab nations and even, in northern Nigeria.

Emaprince:
I asked you if you will allow your daughters to be dressing indecently infront of your visitors, you are talking about beaches. Is a beach now a home?

You just had to show how you reason emotionally and illogically with this whataboutism of yours. You should have asked me whether I won't allow them wear skimpy dresses to club too.

Stop trying to depict yourself as a woke woman..it doesn't make you look any bright. You aren't woke after all.

Ok, so she can wear it at the beach in front of the visitors, and the entire public for that matter, but not at home in front of the very same visitors?

Your issue is you think yourself smart.

alizma:

That is how you go about driving yourselves into problems. You are just being too emotional than being practical.
Personally I don't do children things and I don't deceive myself with all this your nonsense relative things. I don't allow two adults of opposite sex stay together in a lonely and compromising place in the name that they are related. There is this Igbo adage that says take out the monkey hand from the soup before it turned human hand. The earlier you know and do the right thing the better.

Okay noted


Iam sorry for been/being too emotional ... Igot my reasons...


Anyways do have a groovy evening

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got itted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight tros or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

na wa for you oh... your cousin sister like say no be still your cousin? Which kind reasoning be that... anyway, she go get friends, reason them instead... take am as your own baby sister and stop thinking like a simp

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got itted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight tros or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

ANY TIME I READ THE WORDS "COUSIN SISTER", "COUSIN BROTHER", I WONDER WHAT KIND OF PRIMARY SCHOOL YOU ATTENDED

Bro sit her down and tell her u are not comfortable with the way she dresses at home that u are a man and u have blood flowing through your vein I believe she will understand or better still if u are financially stable u can get her an apartment or she can b living in the school hostel so as to flee from lust

Don't let anyone tell you it's abnormal to have an erection. The best is to caution her to stop dressing seductively while you are inside. If she doesn't change, don't be afraid to send her packing.

Honestly, by nature, it's a normal thing to be having an erection, as far as you're a man and she dresses the way you described above, it's dangerous for both of you if you both continue living together while she continues dressing in that manner. Haven't you heard a man cohabiting with his daughter or any of her female relatives? This is how it always starts. Don't be a lesson to others.

The house belongs to you and she's a younger sister to you. Besides, she's with a healthy man, and not a horse drawn on a book.

Caution her from that aberrant dressing that she brought from her parent's house.

For the meantime she's going to stay with you, tell her honorably to always dress well anytime you are around. Tell her to be concealing her body from you. Don't be shy to avoid commiting an act of abomination. Don't be shy to protect your reputation and your mum's and family's.

If she doesn't yield to your advice, send her away. Otherwise, you will have yourself and your mum to blame later.

Thank me later.... Please, be guided accordingly.

Kobojunkie:
Abeg waka with this your level of reasoning.

Yes, higher level than yours.

Normally, a woman family-zoned by a man does not excite him, no matter what she does. You simply don't see the sexiness again. It is part of our socialisation. Even when it is the wife of your friend, she simply does not turn you on. But where such socialisation is lacking, then take every precaution to fend off evil. Tell her to cover up. If she does not change, send her away.

Kobojunkie:


Wherever did you get the moronic idea that castrated men don't desire companionship from the female gender?

If your dk leads the way as far as far as your falling falling live, then you should look into your history for clues as the fact that you may need help.

https://www.quora.com/Does-castration-prevent-you-from-falling-in-love

Hehehehe.
My thumbs are quite huge and can ne a pain in the asss when typing. You are someone i hold with high regards, so I'd boot up my dusty PC for the response.

Non the less, Masturbators have a reduced urge to seek companionship with the opposite sex.

Inorder to battle temptation, priest would get casterated.

I wonder what could be the correlation. see you later

Fapemz:
before reading the story, i don condemn you for my mind. You are a gooner . Though shall not tempt the Lord your God .....flee from every appearance of evil. my guy i no envy you!
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My brother if you are 30 years as claimed shey you also do not have a girlfriend that comes visiting?

Are you not planning on settling down at your age? That your cousin is now entering your eyes

I don't want to say u need deliverance cos it seems that's what you need ooo

You that should even be protecting from wrong guys in the institution na you still wan dey tear her ponmo

Oga ooo

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got itted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight tros or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

call ur people and tell them exactly what u wrote here and thank me later.

Beware of those who write lies in order to gain attention or entice .

Beware of .........


Name them .

With the way you ended the writing it communicate something else even if the story should be true


Well it is try then talk to her and preach the word of god to her .
onish her
Correct nd direct her .

If no changes then tell your parent .

Wahala no dey finish. I can now see why my father rented my own self contain appartement for me during my NYSC. My cousin and I lived in the same compound but different appartement. The purpose was to avoid tempting the devil (So my father said).

Op that lady needs to move out of your house if not, one day, something will happen.

NO PICTURES?

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got itted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight tros or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

fallacy as usual.who cares?next please.

kkins25:
Hehehehe.
My thumbs are quite huge and can ne a pain in the asss when typing. You are someone i hold with high regards, so I'd boot up my dusty PC for the response.

Non the less, Masturbators have a reduced urge to seek companionship with the opposite sex.

Inorder to battle temptation, priest would get casterated.
I wonder what could be the correlation. see you later

General human desire for companionship has little to nothing to do with sexual urge. This you can learn from the fact that even men who have been castrated, and women with near no sexual desire still crave and seek companionship with those of the opposite sex.

As for the claim you made of masturbators...yet another unsubstantiated claim.
https://www.chicagotribune.com/news/ct-xpm-1997-02-25-9702260003-story.html

Priest's battle temptation by getting themselves castrated but there are many more Priests out there who find they don't need to resort to such extreme measures since developing basic mental discipline about such things does a better job.

In civilized climes where dresscodes for women are not monitored at all, most men do not walk around with erections on sight of scantily clad women, nor do male nurses get erections when caring for patients of the opposite gender, since mental discipline is the norm in those climes. Nigerian men who live in these parts of the world intuitively develop the same mindset towards such things or face jail. So why are men in Nigeria to be exempt from this same commonsense pool?

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got itted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight tros or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

I be your cousin too, mak i com i stay in your house abeg

Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, , you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.

I haven’t seen someone this matured on this forum in a while..

Bryan88:
call ur people and tell them exactly what u wrote here and thank me later.

Ofcourse they will extract their kids from that environment immediately and even warn others from letting their daughters anywhere near the OP.

Is that really what you desire for him? To report himself to his relatives as a pervert?

Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, , you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.

This is one of the best response I’ve read on this issue, people up there are just being hypocrites

Dont even consider the possibility. This is totally wrong

Na waa ooo !! If no be for one thing, I will say you are a rapist.

Kobojunkie:
So men who work and care, even bath naked females as part of their professional responsibilities are what, super humans? Go get your head checked because this level of resistance to what is commonsense is dangerous.

Which kind junkie is this again?which profession do men bath naked female?sexual arousal starts from the brain...some men can get aroused by a nude mad women but some men has conditioned their minds to see it as an eyesour,unclean, abomination.

bizzibodi:

Which kind junkie is this again?which profession do men bath naked female? sexual arousal starts from the brain...some men can get aroused by a nude mad women but some men has conditioned their minds to see it as an eyesour,unclean, abomination.

So, why don't all men condition their minds(brain) in order that they are not sexually aroused as in the OP'S case? Are those men who condition their brains superhuman?

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Medical practitioners, EMTs, nursing, mortician, etc., are some of the professions where people, even men are likely to work with naked bodies.