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Yes, but it depends on the tribe. If you marry a white person, you won't have all this problem because your inlaws automatically feel you've married a superior specimen.

That's why I want to marry a White woman.

Romanoff:
I don't know about others but I ran away from marrying from my state and I am thankful for my choice.

It saved me from plenty wahala, yeye culture and traditions etc.

Hanty why you come day lie naw? You for talk say you don wait taya but no husband coming from your tribe, so you no have choice than to marry even a fulani herdsman, a desperate woman has no choice, so don't use culture and tradition to deceive us, we know the game

Are married people from the same tribe not divorcing? Are they exempted from divorce?

I nearly got married to a girl from my tribe (Igbo) and that would have been the greatest mistake of my life. Thank God it didn't happen. I later married an Urhobo lady born and brought up in Benin City and that's the greatest decision I have ever made. So it's not about marrying your tribe.

DroppingLiquid:
Yes, but it depends on the tribe. If you marry a white person, you won't have all this problem because your inlaws automatically feel you've married a superior specimen.

That's why I want to marry a White woman.

Not my own family o.... We no dey send whites like that

Where are you from?

SonOfEl:


Not my own family o.... We no dey send whites like that

Baba na olden days brain you dey take reason Aswear This days na Olosho be wife and Dem dey all tribe okay

Righteousness2:
If you Like marry from your Village or community , if you marry outside GOD'S Will and Choice or you do away with GOD'S Order for the home, it will end in tears.

Success in Marriage is never a function of tribe or language.

Success in Marriage lies in 2 major things.
1. Marrying GOD'S will for you
2. The both parties deciding to adhere to GOD'S order for marriage. Which is Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands as unto the Church and Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.

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Romanoff:


Same way I ed mine.

Like someone have told you before stop disrespecting your culture because that heaven you married to still have culture

DroppingLiquid:
Where are you from?

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Umuahia.... My family are core igbos....however, we are so exposed thst we don't discriminate (whether tribe or nationality). Everyone is treated equally. We aren't clannish.

SonOfEl:
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Umuahia.... My family are core igbos....however, we are so exposed thst we don't discriminate (whether tribe or nationality). Everyone is treated equally. We aren't clannish.

Wow that good. But families like yours are rare though.

If you in nigeria marry from your tribe and religious inclination

It solves some marriage friction

Naijabad:
I know alot of people will come for my head for this thread.

But the truth is, if you are a Nigerian, please marry from your tribe. You will be fine.

A lot of women and men are crying in secret today because they married outside their tribe.

Please, consider the words of your parents, do not make the mistake of marrying outside your tribe.
It almost always end in tears.

Learn from what happened to others. Ask questions, do research, you can find love among your people and folks.

I have seen alot. A greater percentage of inter tribal marriage is on manage mode.

Finally, 50% of marital problems are solved when you marry within your tribe.

You are on point .....but as life is, there are always exceptions. Thanks for sharing.

Entprys:
Marry yoruba women and exprience peace in your life.
Omoluwabi - the best wife material

The one that will fuc.k her secondary school boyfriend while in your house?

Rubbish post!
I wonder why I open this sef

Kriss216:

I just ed a subtle message. All these rants are not necessary.

Nairaland and dull topics these days

Romanoff:
I don't know about others but I ran away from marrying from my state and I am thankful for my choice.

It saved me from plenty wahala, yeye culture and traditions etc.

Your marriage is still too young for you to conclude.

Wait till it's after 5 years

Lightway:


Your marriage is still too young for you to conclude.

Wait till it's after 5 years

The signs are already there and by God's grace, nothing will make me have regrets in Jesus name.

one of my bro marry ibo woman and he make sure paid all the expensive dowry, the woman still having indefinite secretly after the marriage... before we know the woman had ran away from my brother house left his daughter that she give birth for my brother... since that day I fear ibo woman.....

If them see white woman now, everyone go kneel down to propose and forget "Marry from your tribe"

Hi OP. Quick question. Are you married?
if yes, did you marry from your tribe? how is the union progressing and how old is your marriage? did you father marry from his tribe? if yes, i can see that the union progressed but how old is the union now and is it still waxing strong in love and the main objective of marriage?
if your response to my question above is not in the affirmative then you are not in the right position to give advice on marriage, kindly desist from it. Tribe does not guarantee a lovely and lasting home. Love, in all its entirety guaranties that.

Naijabad:
I know alot of people will come for my head for this thread.

But the truth is, if you are a Nigerian, please marry from your tribe. You will be fine.

A lot of women and men are crying in secret today because they married outside their tribe.

Please, consider the words of your parents, do not make the mistake of marrying outside your tribe.
It almost always end in tears.

Learn from what happened to others. Ask questions, do research, you can find love among your people and folks.

I have seen alot. A greater percentage of inter tribal marriage is on manage mode.

Finally, 50% of marital problems are solved when you marry within your tribe.

Comrade, marriage is beyond tribe matter.
Lalasticlala

Righteousness2:
If you Like marry from your Village or community , if you marry outside GOD'S Will and Choice or you do away with GOD'S Order for the home, it will end in tears.

Success in Marriage is never a function of tribe or language.

Success in Marriage lies in 2 major things.
1. Marrying GOD'S will for you
2. The both parties deciding to adhere to GOD'S order for marriage. Which is Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands as unto the Church and Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.

Stop lying to people abeg! There is no such thing as marrying outside God's Will. Even the one who is God's Will, Jesus Christ, clearly told you straight up that your Marriages are of this world and not of His Kingdom - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 .

Stop deceiving people using the name of God to coat your lies!

Romanoff:
I don't know about others but I ran away from marrying from my state and I am thankful for my choice.

It saved me from plenty wahala, yeye culture and traditions etc.

Madam, did you marry from your tribe or outside your tribe? I dey ask because for south west & south east, there are many states with people of the same tribe. I can be from Ogun but marry Ekiti woman, which means I still married my tribe. Honest question, no pun intended.

TheWolfen:


Nahh u did him dirty

if u check wella u will discover that most of those kinda people are among the tribal bigots we have on this forum

Very true. I saw one mumu there talking about ancestral erosion. Who ancestral tinz epp?

I have always cherished the idea of marrying from other tribes. If I have my ways, I'd marry a white girl.

It just excites me.

boyfrank:

Stop being afrocentric, some cultural practices belong to the dustbin if history. Eg Female genital mutilation etc.

God bless you ojarey

ViperAda:

e.g Osu caste system and drinking corpse water


-Viper

I don’t how true that drinking corpse water is, but the osu/ume caste thingy? Yes.

Sometimes, I wonder how people who are affected by it feel.

ViperAda:
Personally, I hate intertribal marriage. The fact that you lose a part of you and significantly erodes one's culture. Imagine a parents from Edo and Efik whose child married from Yoruba tribe whose child also grew up to marry from ibo tribe. That's a ridiculous height of ancestral erosion.
Besides, it is the force behind the unity of the country thus, making it increasingly difficult for separatists groups achieve their demands


-Viper

@ ancestral erosion

Mariangeles:


I don’t how true that drinking corpse water is, but the osu/ume caste thingy? Yes.

Sometimes, I wonder how people who are affected by it feel.

That corpse water thing is sheer wickedness!

Asking someone to drink waste matter/germs

DroppingLiquid:
Yes, but it depends on the tribe. If you marry a white person, you won't have all this problem because your inlaws automatically feel you've married a superior specimen.

That's why I want to marry a White woman.

Lol. I like that you have a fantastical idea of White people. You will learn.