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Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..

She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men).

She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve.

And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

One day when she would be with husband number three, you will be ed as husband number one. It's a SIMPle storves.

SImpLE man

You're seeing traits you can't cope with but you won't run. Later you will come here and be disturbing us with your wife this, your wife that.


As for the phone chat, just forget about that.

Brother, you're seeing red flags with your korokoro eyes, instead of you to abort mission and move on, you're here wailing.

Somebori will stand and be fighting you like a man and you are still there. Wait until she Marian sanda you my hand no dey

wahala

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..
She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men)
She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve
And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

What piercing?
Ear or nose OP.

Holly Gram


70yrs OLD MAN!


U NO 1 GET SENSE..


WAITING DE WORRY U!


NA EXPRESS U DE GO SO ooo


LITE UP my WEED in peace..

WTF MAN

Ok....continue I dey pity u sha..

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..
She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men)
She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve
And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

When fire jam fire, this beautiful earth would become destroyed........

When signs are pasted all over the earth, but this beautiful earth refuses to heed, the beautiful earth, shall become a very dangerous earth & regrettable earth......

Only few are very lucky in relationship things.

No perfect person, there will always be that

BUT.

Decide so you won't regret later.

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..
She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men)
She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve
And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

This could get really violent. She could draw a knife or other weapon on you someday. You both don't seem compatible enough for marriage and you need to get help for your anger issues

Imagine a grown up man placing more priority on fidelity over physical violence..u wan die early?it baffles me d way some people dey reason sha

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..
She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men)
She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve
And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

I pray for your total freedom
You will be free my brother.
You won't marry Jezebel
Receive Ur sense and get loose now

You have to make a decision and live by it. For exact same reasons and background issues I left someone that I really loved. Eventually her first marriage crashed like I suspected. But today she is settled, but she still hates me. Sometimes I keep wondering if getting married to her might have broken that jinx in her family but I couldn't take that risk, make nobody vex including the SIMP side of me. O yes, every guy has a SIMP tendency. That's why I said make a decision and live by it, that's life

I'm gonna be here to read the news of how she beat you and murder you.

The red flags are all over but you are looking for who to your union with that lady.

None of my business.

so after all these signs and symptoms you are still there asking questions

You met her wearing leg chains, multiple piercings and several necklaces and you want to change that.

Whoever that told you guys you can change someone to suit your taste in a relationship.

Who says leg chain has something to do with prostitution, people with wack reasoning.

oyetunjibaba:


What piercing?
Ear or nose OP.

3 on the ears and one on the nose

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

an agbero, thank God I'm nt married or in a hurry to, naija ladies are trash bro. She gets physical wt u, na your corpse remain. She fit stab u for dream,sleep. U wan marry an agbero,an okpoe on code

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..
She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men)
She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve
And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

run o!

You're a mumu man with a dysfunctional mental attitude also... Why go physical with a woman in the first place.. it seems your values in life are very low.
2morro now, you will come here to spew rubbish about your marriage, while the obvious reasons you supposed to leave are in front of you. What's the problem with young guys of nowadays... Maybe it's high time subject like "Relationship" be introduced into the school curriculum.
Marry someone who has the same mindset and values in life with yours... If not, it will be a difficult marriage

fashionale:
You're a mumu man with a dysfunctional mental attitude also... Why go physical with a woman in the first place.. it seems your values in life are very low.
2morro now, you will come here to spew rubbish about your marriage, while the obvious reasons you supposed to leave are in front of you. What's the problem with young guys of nowadays... Maybe it's high time subject like "Relationship" be introduced into the school curriculum.
Marry someone who has the same mindset and values in life with yours... If not, it will be a difficult marriage

Nice one

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..
She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men)
She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve
And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

na Edo/Delta girl?

Angrygoat:
an agbero, thank God I'm nt married or in a hurry to, naija ladies are trash bro. She gets physical wt u, na your corpse remain. She fit stab u for dream,sleep. U wan marry an agbero,an okpoe on code

cokahot how far

beautyhd:
You met her wearing leg chains, multiple piercings and several necklaces and you want to change that.

Whoever that told you guys you can change someone to suit your taste in a relationship.

Who says leg chain has something to do with prostitution, people with wack reasoning.

ashawo spotted

Let her go. You can certainly do better.

Hopefully, she finds the right person that inspires healthy love and commitment in her. You don't have to be that person.

RUN!

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..
She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men)
She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve
And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

TechSpecialist:
na Edo/Delta girl?

Na all these Yoruba woman dey get that attitude, let him not run now while he can……pray he doesn’t learn the hard way when it’s too late