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How Do You Deal With Family Issue When Choosing Who To Marry? (19967 Views)
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| Irijosa777(m): 8:49pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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I'm the last born in the family, all the of the family had gotten married except me. I'm 32 now, just rounded up my study. I'm into farming, school works and doing catering work as well. I'm financially balance. I have not gone into a relationship before, I just ignore that aspect because I believe in the principle of "one thing at a time". Now that I'm through with my study and I have something doing, I'm planning of going into a relationship and get married at least by 2023 but I'm perceiving there's going to be a problem between me and my family. My family is very selective, very selective... There was a time a friend started visiting me anytime I went to the village, my mother notice it and told me that the girl is not welcome in the family, she gave me her reason too, I told my Mom she is just a friend and nothing more. Today my neice got married, I invited my crush and she came to the wedding and I introduced her to my family as my friend, when the ceremony was going on, my sister told me and I quote "this girl you brought is not acceptable, she is too old for you, "common" she is just 27 and am 32... I told my sister that we are just friends and nothing more, then she said better... I don't want to have any issue with my family in marring a girl but I'm afriad problem might be inevitable because I won't want my family to choose who or who not to marry, I have never had issue with my family before, they love me very much and we are living happily. One mind is telling me to follow my heart another mind is telling me don't let a woman bring issue between you and your family... Gosh! family get wahala! What is wrong in marring a girl of 27 years and I'm 32. (5years different) I'm not ready for any family wahala... Please how do you handle this kind of issue. 24 Likes 1 Share |
| Goldbw122(m): 8:51pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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| chatinent: 8:53pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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Kuku marry a girl for your family na since they are the ones to make your happiness forever.
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| Bola146(f): 9:05pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
 They love indeed, pele Continue with them till you reach 40 years, then they will know which lady is your type
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| Cholls(m): 9:18pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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My brother don't worry what you hate is what you'll finally become
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| TheUndercover: 9:22pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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Hmm, this is a complicated issue. What reasons do they give? Hope it's a valid one? Because if you choose wrong irrespective of their stand, you'll be the one to bear more of the consequences. Since you're the last born, it might prove a bit difficult making a stand in order not to go against your family . Sometimes what they see might not be clear to you yet until you get into it. When a man is in love, he tends to make irrational decisions. Reason with them and try to make a conclusion. Since you're a man, you have an advantage. Marriage is not to be rushed into most especially in this generation. You also carry more of the responsibilities.. But in all, never let a woman come between you and your family, or you'll regret it deeply. 35 Likes 5 Shares |
| adadike(f): 9:25pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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Just marry someone you truly love coz your marriage is all about you and your future but I will advice that you marry a really good and wise woman. If you marry a good and wise woman that will apply wisdom in all things, she will be able to win over the love of your family in no time. Trust me
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| danietohbadt(m): 9:29pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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Na you one marry her abi na your family one marry her? Orisirisi. Let them continue to help you waste your time bro. Cos I know that certainly, even if they bring a wife for you, she won't be your choice. And the ones they're seeing with you isn't their choice. You see say this wahala just dey start so? 24 Likes 2 Shares |
| Reex12(m): 9:30pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
adadike:are you married? 6 Likes |
| OBALOLA55(m): 9:37pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
adadike:TACTICALLY AVOIDING RABA KYARI’S THREAD  WELL I CAN UNDERSTAND IF YOU DON’T WANT TO UPSET YOUR NORTHERN LORDS 
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| Nazgul: 9:44pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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So at 32 your family are still influencing your decision in life...Age is truly just a number, grow up please and stop being a child.
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| Re: How Do You Deal With Family Issue When Choosing Who To Marry? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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Your case get as e be 
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| Newboss(m): 9:47pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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When a guy dey fûck pussy real good, the pussy go they behave one kind. To be honest, you sound like a pussy being fûcked by your family. Seems you're enjoying the fûck. You want us to the fûckery? 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Spider20: 9:48pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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Pls avoid marrying old torn newspapers ok Flee from them......... Your family are doing a great work for you not to be a simp Kudos to them 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Irijosa777(m): 9:48pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
TheUndercover:Thanks a lot Sir I really appreciate your advise. 2 Likes |
| Irijosa777(m): 9:50pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
adadike:Noted and Thanks 1 Like |
| Irijosa777(m): 9:57pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
Spider20:. How is 27 years old girl a old torn newspapers? 20 Likes 1 Share |
| Irijosa777(m): 10:03pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
danietohbadt:. No oo My family bringing a wife for me, no way! It's won't work, I am just being careful, I don't want it to be on record that the first time I am having issues with my family is because of a woman. 3 Likes |
| Irijosa777(m): 10:03pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
danietohbadt:. No oo My family bringing a wife for me, no way! It's won't work, I am just being careful, I don't want it to be on record that the first time I am having issues with my family is because of a woman. 1 Like |
| AchalugoNwa(f): 10:12pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
adadike:just like I'll marry you soon because we love each other. you're a good woman so to marry you is a must. can't wait to insert my amu inside your otu  chaiiii it'll be the best moment of my life Adadike say yes naaa I'm crying like this please naaaa 1 Like |
| Irijosa777(m): 10:17pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
Nazgul:. Let me assume you don't understand the topic at hand, but one thing is sure, family will always be part of your life and if they are part of your life they have some degree of influence in your decision. 7 Likes |
| Nazgul: 10:22pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
Irijosa777:Your family will interfere and influence decisions that can change your life positively or negatively when they feel you aren't matured enough to know what's best for yourself. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: How Do You Deal With Family Issue When Choosing Who To Marry? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jul 29, 2021 |
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This is the most ridiculous thread I've ever read in my entire life. Your parents are still making decisions for u? At your age?? Lol......!!! 
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| danietohbadt(m): 4:21am On Jul 30, 2021 |
Irijosa777: I understand, but the truth is you're the one going to marry the woman. Get a woman of your choice and that's it. Your family has to accept who you bring and equally respect your decisions. You can't be tossed around like a coin all because of finding a suitable wife 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Segfaultt(m): 8:55am On Jul 30, 2021 |
OBALOLA55:you this dumbass, must all your existence on earth center on politics? Get yourself a meaningful life please 2 Likes |
| adadike(f): 9:15am On Jul 30, 2021 |
OBALOLA55:be using your brain for once na ibughi tata. What is my own with Abba Kyari? You yourself, are you not corrupt? How many people will even reject such gift in Nigeria? Biko go and sit down . My chief duty is to Igbo land and onye ulo ya n'agba oku anaghi achu oke |
| adadike(f): 9:15am On Jul 30, 2021 |
Reex12:no |
| AchalugoNwa(f): 9:36am On Jul 30, 2021 |
adadike:that's my baby
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| AchalugoNwa(f): 9:38am On Jul 30, 2021 |
adadike:can we discuss our traditional marriage already we are one
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| adadike(f): 9:41am On Jul 30, 2021 |
AchalugoNwa:no dey spoil market for me o. Inugo? 1 Like |
| AchalugoNwa(f): 9:49am On Jul 30, 2021 |
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| MufasaLion: 10:30am On Jul 30, 2021 |
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Your family got no right to tell you who to marry.
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