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Would You Forgive Him? - Romance - Nairaland 431e5d
Would You Forgive Him? (2345 Views)
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| Would You Forgive Him? by Nobody: 3:44am On May 11, 2011 |
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If a guy broke up with you and refused to see you for about a year and a half because his friend lied and told him [as well as your mutual friends] that you two slept together only to be recorded by you saying he [the friend] lied and WHY he lied, then you let your ex listen to it and he says he is deeply sorry and goes out of his way to be with you again what would you do? sorry if it is confusing! 
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| MrsChima(f): 3:46am On May 11, 2011 |
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If he is my boyfriend, no. If he is my husband uhmm.
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| Re: Would You Forgive Him? by Nobody: 3:48am On May 11, 2011 |
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If I am not with someone already better than him, then I may go back
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| MrsChima(f): 3:51am On May 11, 2011 |
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| Re: Would You Forgive Him? by Nobody: 3:52am On May 11, 2011 |
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hmmmm. 
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| Re: Would You Forgive Him? by Nobody: 3:59am On May 11, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima:What's biting you?
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| MrsChima(f): 4:01am On May 11, 2011 |
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Nothing yet.
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| Re: Would You Forgive Him? by Nobody: 4:02am On May 11, 2011 |
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So you are now a man? 
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| MrsChima(f): 4:04am On May 11, 2011 |
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The breasteses were bothering me and I had to get a sex change. But I am still your wife though. I just have uhmm something long between my thighs. 
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| ayomide202(f): 5:41am On May 11, 2011 |
MzDarkSkin:a whole year and half?? i would forgive but i must have moved on, if you wont trust me enough n believed a lie for 18months then u probably aint good enoough for me |
| akpan123(m): 6:21am On May 11, 2011 |
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NO ONE IS PERFECT
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| LordReed(m): 8:32am On May 11, 2011 |
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How does a Mz and a Mrs become male? @topic Men that is some twisted ish! Well I will forgive the person but going back will be difficult, I mean a year and a half? Thats long enough to get over someone so I shoulda moved on but if perchance am still unhooked I would make serious demands of the person if we are to get back together. |
| Godmother(f): 8:36am On May 11, 2011 |
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He didnt believe you for a year and a half and after listening to a tape decides to come back? I dont think I would take him back
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| Atreides(f): 10:12am On May 11, 2011 |
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I would not go back to him. I would not forgive him either. I don't know why everyone is always advicing everyone else to forgive. Resentment is good for the soul in some cases! So he will now come and tell me,oh i'm so sorry,i love you,i want you back,blah blah blah? Shiooor. He will only dive rock. |
| tosyne007(m): 10:24am On May 11, 2011 |
Atreides: u sound so harsh. op u aint like dat for real  Op, it kinda hard to take such a person back cos trust is essential in a relationship and for him/her not to have trusted u in the first place, ow sure are u that he/she wont behave thesame if somtin like that come up again. so, it's really a tough one. moreover, a year and half is really a long time to wait. i would av moved on. |
| MrCork17: 10:28am On May 11, 2011 |
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****190 is the same person as MzDarkskin ****
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| Atreides(f): 10:33am On May 11, 2011 |
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lol i'm not harsh oh. I'm a very affable person,buh i have this imaginary line in my head,this limit,and when i get to that point,nothing,not even a blast of dynamite will get me to cross it. Him believing his friend or whatever shows he doesn't trust me. No trust,no relationship. Pere. And then for him to come back after 18 months? Chances are,i'd have moved on with my life by then. Life's too short to waste on useless elements who have trust issues. Who's to say he wont disappear for 2 years if we have another misunderstanding when i'm married to him and pregnant with his kid? Mi o r'aiye drama. |
| tosyne007(m): 11:54am On May 11, 2011 |
Atreides: hmmmn. i bet u must be fun to be with cos u've performed more than a drama here  but i do agree with all u av said so far.*singing no more drama by Mary J* |
| Dsense(m): 12:00pm On May 11, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima:  OP. NO!!! |
| jaybee3(m): 12:12pm On May 11, 2011 |
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I don't think it had make any sense for me to go back once my trust has been questionied to the extent of us breaking up. I would make it known that the only way we are ever going to become friends again is if the so called friend explains to us in person why he/she lied at the time. |
| Phate07(m): 1:27pm On May 11, 2011 |
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Going back to my own vomit is a no-no for me. Once rejected, the person stands rejected and cant come back. |
| MrsChima(f): 1:41pm On May 11, 2011 |
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No, I will not forgive Phate. 
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| MrsChima(f): 1:43pm On May 11, 2011 |
Lord_Reed: Can you allow me to embrace my transexuality please?
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| MrCork17: 1:45pm On May 11, 2011 |
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D-Sense is the same person as Mrs Chima (m)
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| MrsChima(f): 1:46pm On May 11, 2011 |
D-sense: Shadddup!
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| MrsChima(f): 1:47pm On May 11, 2011 |
Mr, Cork: And you are still denied punny. 
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| InkedNerd(f): 1:52pm On May 11, 2011 |
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@OP: Hmmm, this is complicated. I can understand why the ex would listen to his friend but I'd probably forgive him but not want to be with him again. The fact that things ended as they did would be a bit hurtful for me. We can be friends but nothing more.
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| Phate07(m): 2:10pm On May 11, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima: Why? But i forgave you last year when you disappeared with James Piper! |
| MrsChima(f): 2:11pm On May 11, 2011 |
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Wrong chick. I like being healthy and contaminating and polluting is not my thing.
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| Phate07(m): 2:13pm On May 11, 2011 |
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Sweerry, you wish you were healthy, dont you? |
| MrsChima(f): 2:16pm On May 11, 2011 |
Phate07: You wish I was wishing.
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| jaybee3(m): 2:17pm On May 11, 2011 |
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Shez a flirt 
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