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Yes I can. Team no sex before wedding

So I go take my time hustle money, wan buy new car and I no go fit test drive?

What if na car with no shock absorber?

Sex is very important in a relationship.... If u like listen to religious bigots.... Its ur life, its ur happiness, make the best decision

paulolee:
placing religion aside, I think sex before marriage isnt dt bad, when its bad is when she gets pregnant by mistake and the guy starts behaving asif it was all her mistake...

Even without her getting pregnant.
The same turns around and says he wants a virgin
Who looose

KimVenom:
Good evening every please I just want to know if any of you can live without sex with your potential future partner.

Incase you can please drop a hint of the secret behind it.�

Also, what's your opinion about sex before marriage subtracting religious belief out of it what just you plain opinion.

Thank You very much.

I know your body is doing to fornicate if not you won't be asking us for religious belief of which you know clearly where yours stand.

If the potential future partner is the child of/from a wealthy family will you not remain celibate till your wedding night if you were told to do so?

Bluehill1051:
I'll never marry a lady that denies me sex. After I've cut off all others, for the sake of fidelity and respect.
I wonder how some people see marriage as if it's a maximum prison. What's my own there anyways? Just misbehave thinking marriage has a hold on me n I'll treat u like a girl I met 2 days ago.
The koko is trust, understanding and communication. Like my friend use to say "Marriage is just a ceremony", If u guys don't start seeing each other as one from the early stage, marriage will not change it.

What would you do if a girl you're dating should become pregnant, but you're not ready to commit to her for life?

My opinion about sex before marriage is that if you can help it then don't have sex till you get married... There are some things that are involve in premarital sex that are way bigger than us... You have unplanned pregnancy, sexual diseases, abortions that sometimes cause emotional breakdown for the woman...
If your partner is understanding and really want to be with you then the lust will die... Communication and understanding is what matter... Cos sooner or later when reality of life kicks in sex stop being a priority...

Rubbish talk..I don dey see comments of women.Na them dey no sex before marriage.. You want to have a boyfriend you don't want to fuccckk..

Who does that? Rubbish

People shouting sexual diseases up and down there like say Married couples don't still cheat after getting married nd start giving each oda the disease legally

falcon01:
same as getting married, only you loose interest and is stuck with some annoying prick you thought you loved!!

helinues:
So I go take my time hustle money, wan buy new car and I no go fit test drive?

What if na car with no shock absorber?

After you went from test drive and drove the car from lagos to maiduguri.
You now say you no want again.
Is it not tokunboh value you have placed the car

When I body count, I feel ashamed for some women. Guys hold the rod, the hole feels it most. Women shouldn't be advocate of premarital sex.


What helps abstaining; IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE, KEEP NO RELATIONSHIP.

I'm not a V, but I've been celibate for over a year and I want it to remain that way till I'm ready to get married

R

The Christians are against it
The Muslims are against it
The Africa religion is also against it
I don't know were the practice is coming from.

for me sex before marriage it's no big deal as long it is not done on a regular basis it should be respected it should be done mutually in connection with it.

Virginity is a woman's treasure and a man's worse nightmare

I was in courtship with my wife for more than a year being a born again Christian we did not engage in any kiss or romance or sex. I met her as a virgin. The simple solution is to be born again and the urge for fornication or pre-marital sex would vanish. You can't divorce accepting Jesus from this because a carnal man cannot please God.

Religion....All Religion Should be Banned Because if This OP wasn't Religiously confused we won't be having this conversations here in the first place.

samwash:
The Christians are against it
The Muslims are against it
The Africa religion is also against it
I don't know were the practice is coming from.

prove it bro .. honestly if you are free with your church pastor ask him if sex before marriage is a sin ? if he want to tell you the truth he will or else he will continue with the religious programming of telling you what you have been programmed to believe. do your findings and know the truth bro . I rest my case

For you to mention sex before marriage, you have already included religion. Why do you want to make sex a case study and suffer in silence, when you can have it and free your mind? 90% of married couples married because it has entered. And then they began to see possibilities in their future together. And most of them are still successful. So, it doesn't matter whether you did it or not. By the way, that's why we still have extra marital affairs these days. Someone will like to have it with their ex, because they never tasted it with him or her before

RoRoo:
My opinion about sex before marriage is that if you can help it then don't have sex till you get married... There are some things that are involve in premarital sex that are way bigger than us... You have unplanned pregnancy, sexual diseases, abortions that sometimes cause emotional breakdown for the woman...
If your partner is understanding and really want to be with you then the lust will die... Communication and understanding is what matter... Cos sooner or later when reality of life kicks in sex stop being a priority...

Sex is and will always b very important in marriage

Baba I pity ur mindset, may Suleiman no Bleep ur wife behind ur back ooo

There's nothing wrong with it. .

inoki247:
People shouting sexual diseases up and down there like say Married couples don't still cheat after getting married nd start giving each oda the disease legally

That is the funny thing!
The wife or husband who is sexually correct will detect immediately that the other person is cheating.if found out that there is an infection.
It happened to a young girls pre wedding counselling.she initially hard a medical exam without the man knowing and she was healthy.3 months later before meeting the church council,they had a t medical exam at the church hospital.
See gbege they both had sti infection( sometin A,B or C like that)
She was shedding tears like mad
Omo! Phone call from deacon to elder to pastor to parent to gbogbo ti gba.
Wahala no be here o
She cancelled the wedding straight

Your choice.

Sex before marriage is normal leaving religion aspects outta it....But it's not when you haven't grown psychologically...

Even retired olosho for Nairaland go still dey yarn opata for here say sex before marriage nor good

Sex is absolutely NOT on my menu.
When I get married, I'll have legal sex. Till then.

My opinion about the topic is I sex after marriage..

I don't want to be religious but I believe that sex is not everything in marriage.
You can have sex with your partner and still not get married to each other.

Moreover, is sex a criteria for a good marriage?

BTW..
this is the 3rd year without having sex but I'll it it isn't easy but with God and discipline, I'm still standing strong..

Like I said, MY OPINION

Rexnegro:

prove it bro .. honestly if you are free with your church pastor ask him if sex before marriage is a sin ? if he want to tell you the truth he will or else he will continue with the religious programming of telling you what you have been programmed to believe. do your findings and know the truth bro . I rest my case

Prove what to you
From the Christian perspective?
It's of no use Bro, if you are a Christian just take time to search your Bible.

Ihatebuhari.

I've come to realize most girls pretend to not want sex each time such topics are brought up, but these same girls will be sleeping with one strong guy tonight. Most, not all, but most girls pretend when it comes to this sex issue.