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Ever tried breaking up with someone and the person refused?
How did it go?

Lol... how can the person refuse? It takes two to tango. Once one person is done, there's no relationship anymore.

yeah....back then when I visited my uncle in p.h...she say she be virg n am her first BT it didn't seem so to me because she also brought up dier normal rape lamba as her first....
she was soo into me n just CNT free me even after seeing me flirting with other girls openly to make her forget me
she Do say she normally dream abt d both of us getting married and cnt wait to leave her dreams, I jus bear her madness n craze till I leave pH BT also enjoyed her nice care n swet love but it all got boring at some point bcoz she was restricting oda girls n even fighting with them bcoz of me..
d Bea was d main reason why I left pH soo early, mk obsession no go mk Bea read my chats n stab me for night... after all even my mama no fit carry me for head like dt..
and now am dead single for years...maybe na karma...

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Loool

We that we've been single all our lives... Let's gather to read comments

Lol. I lola dat yr. We were never in a relationship bt in her delusions, she thought we were, cuz her momma nd my momma be calling her my wife. Bt dat one no talk xay mke i no chop kpekus. Time reach, i tell am, wa dz thing we wey dey do, mke we define am, she xay bt we ar dating na, i b lyk 'u nd wu' tell am" go nd luk 4 ur own bf oo. She vex comot. I no send am.
lata lata sha, if she con see me wit oda girls, she go dey hala nonsense dy quarell wit dem chik. Me vex go confront am xay wetin dey sup na, shey bomb dy her head ni. Babe con dey yarn me bcuz i chop kpekus, xay na only she go have me. O boy me start 2 dy fear unto d girl na cele babe, mke she no go run white candle package on top my mata. Naim me dy do jeje until dem pack comot area. I don happy die. E tey small, naim one gel see me dy waka con talk xay 1n of her friend wan c me xay i luk familiar. I ask am her friend name she xay na lola. O boy my heart nearly cut. Naim me japa o

He went to meet a friend of his that is my colleague, to give him a list of all the males I talk to at work, thinking I broke up with him cos of one of them,

He called me 70 times everyday, I didn't pick

He sent me 20 sms of disfiguring my face and body threats, 30 sms of death threats, 20 sms pleading for me to take him back,

He came knocking at my door, I didn't open, he shouted at me to the hearing of my neighbours that if I dont open the door, he'd burn the house with me inside, my neighbours flung him out of our compound,

How he eventually left me alone was when I got his elder brother's number, reported everything to him, the elder bro then told their mum, the mum called my ex to leave that state, and start coming to Lagos, this dude actually quit his job and left for Lagos the next day, weird but a relief,

The tory plenty but I'll stop here, this happened 4 yrs ago, I saw signs of obsession thinking it was 100% love and loyalty.

I ghost them, quite simple
But I know say e go pain them, emi ika

Lol. I can’t relate. Imagine one babe telling me I can’t break up with her. WTF That sh!t is scary.

If you meet guys that never takes NO for an answer you will understand.
Back then in school i dated one guy,when the love wasn't there any longer i plainly told him.
The next day i was still sleeping he came over and refused to agree to my 'NO'. stayed with till evening,same thing happened the next day.
I had to pack my bags and travel home that weekend because of ASUU strike.
Even uptil today he still reminds me i'm his gf.

She pleaded. She cried. She begged. But my mind was made up. We couldn't continue anymore. The game was over. I had to move on. Very sad. Sometimes i miss her

Favy1235:
If you meet guys that never takes NO for an answer you will understand.
Back then in school i dated one guy,when the love wasn't there any longer i plainly told him.
The next day i was still sleeping he came over and refused to agree to my 'NO'. stayed with till evening,same thing happened the next day.
I had to pack my bags and travel home that weekend because of ASUU strike.
Even uptil today he still reminds me i'm his gf.

how old was he abeg?
this one kolomental

Stephen2324:
Ever tried breaking up with someone and the person refused?
How did it go?

NO, it never gets past the usual questions; Why do you want to end it? Why are you doing this to me? What are you saying?

Probably because I made it a necessity to never date women with mental health issues.
No matter how pretty or well put-together a woman is, I can usually tell.

But now that I think of it, I'm still friends with my exes surprisingly...

Fountainofyouth:
He went to meet a friend of his that is my colleague, to give him a list of all the males I talk to at work, thinking I broke up with him cos of one of them,

He called me 70 times everyday, I didn't pick

He sent me 20 sms of disfiguring my face and body threats, 30 sms of death threats, 20 sms pleading for me to take him back,

He came knocking at my door, I didn't open, he shouted at me to the hearing of my neighbours that if I dont open the door, he'd burn the house with me inside, my neighbours flung him out of our compound,

How he eventually left me alone was when I got his elder brother's number, reported everything to him, the elder bro then told their mum, the mum called my ex to leave that state, and start coming to Lagos, this dude actually quit his job and left for Lagos the next day, weird but a relief,

The tory plenty but I'll stop here, this happened 4 yrs ago, I saw signs of obsession thinking it was 100% love and loyalty.

I'm interested in these signs of obessesions...care to share more ?

JIMMY1393:


I'm interested in these signs of obessesions...care to share more ?

Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

Fountainofyouth:
He went to meet a friend of his that is my colleague, to give him a list of all the males I talk to at work, thinking I broke up with him cos of one of them

He was insecure.

He called me 70 times everyday, I didn't pick

Wow that is much.

He sent me 20 sms of disfiguring my face and body threats, 30 sms of death threats, 20 sms pleading for me to take him back

This is plain dumb, death threats for what

He came knocking at my door, I didn't open, he shouted at me to the hearing of my neighbours that if I dont open the door, he'd burn the house with me inside , my neighbours flung him out of our compound.

Wow someone is revealing his hidden character.

How he eventually left me alone was when I got his elder brother's number, reported everything to him, the elder bro then told their mum, the mum called my ex to leave that state, and start coming to Lagos, this dude actually quit his job and left for Lagos the next day, weird but a relief,

The tory plenty but I'll stop here, this happened 4 yrs ago, I saw signs of obsession thinking it was 100% love and loyalty.

I hope this doesn't change the way you see guys.

AfroKnight:
Lol. I can’t relate. Imagine one babe telling me I can’t break up with her. WTF That sh!t is scary.

Heard of hydrogen bond before

crackhaus:

NO, it never gets past the usual questions; Why do you want to end this? Why are you doing this to me? What are you saying?

Because I made it a necessity to never date women with mental health issues – no matter how pretty or well put-together a woman is, I can usually tell.

Very well

Favy1235:
If you meet guys that never takes NO for an answer you will understand.
Back then in school i dated one guy,when the love wasn't there any longer i plainly told him.
The next day i was still sleeping he came over and refused to agree to my 'NO'. stayed with till evening,same thing happened the next day.
I had to pack my bags and travel home that weekend because of ASUU strike.
Even uptil today he still reminds me i'm his gf.

I guess he was attached, do you feel bad for him?

Fountainofyouth:



Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

He must have had a troubled past when growing up.
Look at how his family ordered him to come and he obeyed.
Sometimes, we have to look beyond what these people are doing and see if we can help them.

Stephenmoka4:
He was insecure.
Wow that is much.

This is plain dumb, death threats for what

Wow someone is revealing his hidden character.

I hope this doesn't change the way you see guys.

rubbish

obviously the ìdiot loved her but she didn't love him!

descarado:

He must have had a troubled past when growing up.
Look at how his family ordered him to come and he obeyed.
Sometimes, we have to look beyond what these people are doing and see if we can help them.

Thinking of it now, you are right, but i couldnt help him, his behaviour and reactions didnt give me that chance,

I realised he doesn't make concrete decisions without his mother's acknowledgement and approval, she literally tells him what to do, I heard later on that, not too long after leaving, his mum got him a job in Lagos, which is not bad anyway,

I think this is sassysure, with your kind of comment, why did you delete that ?

Fountainofyouth:



Calls 11 times in a day

Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute

Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,

Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,

Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"

A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me

Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man

He cries anytime I miss his calls

A sex freak

Sends 5 love sms to me everyday

Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,

He drives me everywhere I want to go,

Etc.

What the actual Bleep....I thought at 1st that maybe you just exaggerated but damn this is clear obsession....the calling 11 times per day alone is draining enough for me I can't now imagine all the rest...maybe you were his 1st girlfriend/love?

JIMMY1393:


What the actual Bleep....I thought at 1st that maybe you just exaggerated but damn this is clear obsession....the calling 11 times per day alone is draining enough for me I can't now imagine all the rest...maybe you were his 1st girlfriend/love?

I wasn't, we had this deep connection, I guess his own was way deep.

Yeah.. My Ex.. shes kinda older and ready to settle. ..
I had to let her go because she want a response real quick... I gave her the fact... I Love you dear but ain't ready.. Still got lot to figure out... She doesn't wanna let go but I had to make her listen and we finally became best of friends

I ghost them, quite simple But I know say e go pain them, emi ika

Fountainofyouth:
He went to meet a friend of his that is my colleague, to give him a list of all the males I talk to at work, thinking I broke up with him cos of one of them,

He called me 70 times everyday, I didn't pick

He sent me 20 sms of disfiguring my face and body threats, 30 sms of death threats, 20 sms pleading for me to take him back,

He came knocking at my door, I didn't open, he shouted at me to the hearing of my neighbours that if I dont open the door, he'd burn the house with me inside, my neighbours flung him out of our compound,

How he eventually left me alone was when I got his elder brother's number, reported everything to him, the elder bro then told their mum, the mum called my ex to leave that state, and start coming to Lagos, this dude actually quit his job and left for Lagos the next day, weird but a relief,

The tory plenty but I'll stop here, this happened 4 yrs ago, I saw signs of obsession thinking it was 100% love and loyalty.

wow

The title of your situationship is called ... WEDIEHERE..

AfroKnight:
Lol. I can’t relate. Imagine one babe telling me I can’t break up with her. WTF That sh!t is scary.

lol their type love playing victim. I have been there

JIMMY1393:


I'm interested in these signs of obessesions...care to share more ?

in my experience, he or she will think you love them more when clearly they are choking you with their presence. It's like mental illness

Fountainofyouth:



Thinking of it now, you are right, but i couldnt help him, his behaviour and reactions didnt give me that chance,

I realised he doesn't make concrete decisions without his mother's acknowledgement and approval, she literally tells him what to do, I heard later on that, not too long after leaving, his mum got him a job in Lagos, which is not bad anyway,

I think this is sassysure, with your kind of comment, why did you delete that ?

U must have discerning eyes
The haff teee
All mummies boys are obsessive.

Most times they are really in love but lacks proper expression of love. It's forceful cos they are afraid. Thats what they were given and the only one they know of.

I can't relate ,I've been single all my life