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Please, i need ur candid advise. There is this woman in my area (street) for the past 1year now, she has been giving me green light. I understood all her moves but i do pretend because i do not want any relationship, moreover i am happily married with kids. But the more i resist her the more she continue to try. This very evening i was about buying some drinks from a store close to her store, she sent her daughter to me , her daughter said i quote '' my mum said i should tell you she is greeting you''then I went to her just to extend my greetings, she said'' run away man, where have u been? i was shocked.
this wowan knows my wife and i don't known why she needs me. she is not married but she got some kids. please, nairalander what do i do, ?

you are fool why pay attention to her advances or chit chat when you know the motive behind that

would you keep a friendship with someone who said s/he would kill if s/he gets a chance though s/he smile at you everyday?

ZIM DRILL:

you are fool why pay attention to her advances or chit chat when you know the motive behind that

ye !
@poster, you asked for it

she is trying to get you to patronise her bussiness it's just like when you go to a bar and the bartender is this really friendly girl. All she is doing is being friendlt to get tips.
She hasn't explicitly said she wants to F@#k you so stop imagining things and focus on your wife

Mr op, first of all go and find out if this woman really wants to sleep with you then come back here and ask your question again. OK!

Yes.

Omolola1:

Yes.

Hope your future husband doesnt do the same thing

Zim drill, why can't you give someone a talk without attaching insults? If he is a fool, then you are uncivilized.

He won't dare

OP kindly stay away from that woman, unless you are interested in increasing your expenses.

Are you asking for permission or what? If you want to sleep with her go ahead if you do not want to that is your own concern but whatever is the resultant effect is your own "ofuna". A grown man with kids and you cannot decipher what is proper  or improper.

If you are truly 'happily married' what is the need for this thread?
If you were married and happy, then having s3x with this woman would
be out of the question automatically. Men have fantasies, so being human
you may dream about it lol or think about her however you wouldn't be
on here asking if you should if you are truly happy with the wife. Bottom line.

@OP
Fire dey burn they con say make you put hand inside, you go gree?

Guy you are projecting your desire on to the lady, the day you try anything you might just the worst slap shocker of your life.

Maintain your lane guy!

You are a married man with kids? and a woman is showing intrest in you and you don't know what to do?

Tell me are you 18 and married?

Men will always be men nonsense!

rokiatu:

You are a married man with kids? and a woman is showing intrest in you and you don't know what to do?

Tell me are you 18 and married?

Men will always be men nonsense!

insalt!!

rotiaku i wont tolerate such words from you

newcomer2:

Please, i need your candid advise. There is this woman in my area (street) for the past 1year now, she has been giving me green light. I understood all her moves but i do pretend because i do not want any relationship, moreover i am happily married with kids. But the more i resist her the more she continue to try. This very evening i was about buying some drinks from a store close to her store, she sent her daughter to me , her daughter said i quote '' my mum said i should tell you she is greeting you''then I went to her just to extend my greetings, she said'' run away man, where have u been? i was shocked.
this wowan knows my wife and i don't known why she needs me. she is not married but she got some kids. please, nairalander what do i do, ?

She need more kids 1 or 2 from you jerk, like someone here said, if you are happily married WTH is this thread all about? if you re happily married as you said I don't think you would have got to notice this adulterous green light, . Smh

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insalt!!

rotiaku i wont tolerate such words from you

Go jump in a cliff and make life easier for me

@poster , i know your wife aint serving you A$$ the right way so you're bored as phuck!! but see, dont bother moving on the next one (mama esther) cos naija women are ALL the same ,  POOR IN BED ! 

rokiatu:

Go jump in a cliff and make life easier for me

Insalt

Rotiaku i wont condole such words from a young girl like you

bang your head on a wall.

rokiatu:

bang your head on a wall.

Wait till mzdark coms she would deal with you

LOL is that your intention? to make two girls fight?

Never gonna happen

rokiatu:

LOL is that your intention? to make two girls fight?

Never gonna happen

newcomer2:

Please, i need your candid advise. There is this woman in my area (street) for the past 1year now, she has been giving me green light. I understood all her moves but i do pretend because i do not want any relationship, moreover i am happily married with kids. But the more i resist her the more she continue to try. This very evening i was about buying some drinks from a store close to her store, she sent her daughter to me , her daughter said i quote '' my mum said i should tell you she is greeting you''then I went to her just to extend my greetings, she said'' run away man, where have u been? i was shocked.
this wowan knows my wife and i don't known why she needs me. she is not married but she got some kids. please, nairalander what do i do, ?

These Notes below will help you

"Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body." - 1 Corinthians 6:13

Matthew 5:28
"
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart."

Matthew 5:29

"And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.
"

Matthew 18:9
"
And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire."

1 John 2:15-17
"Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world eth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever."

1 Corinthians 6:8-10
"Nay, ye do wrong, and defraud, and that your brethren. Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abs of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God."

Galatians 5:19-23
"Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law."
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The true Gospel of GOD Most High-
"Behold, all souls are mine; as the soul of the father, so also the soul of the son is mine: the soul that sinneth, it shall die"(Ezekiel 18:4);
"For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23);
"As I live, saith the Lord GOD, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live:" (Ezekiel 33:11);
"For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." (Romans 6:23);
"Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved." (i.e., The Lord Jesus Christ, The SON of GOD (Acts 4:12);
"The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly." (John 10:10);
"So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God." (Romans 10:17).

RUN

newcomer2:

Please, i need your candid advise. There is this woman in my area (street) for the past 1year now, she has been giving me green light. I understood all her moves but i do pretend because i do not want any relationship, moreover i am happily married with kids. But the more i resist her the more she continue to try. This very evening i was about buying some drinks from a store close to her store, she sent her daughter to me ,  her daughter said i quote '' my mum said i should tell you she is greeting you''then  I went to her just to extend my greetings,  she said'' run away man, where  have u been? i was shocked.
this wowan knows my wife and i don't known why she needs me. she is not married but she got some kids. please, nairalander what do i do, ?

Im sorry o, is this her method of making an advance 2 u?? Cant this simply mean that she hasnt seen u around that area for a while, pls keep ignoring it, infact tell ur wife about it,

newcomer2:

Please, i need your candid advise. There is this woman in my area (street) for the past 1year now, she has been giving me green light. I understood all her moves but i do pretend because i do not want any relationship, moreover i am happily married with kids. But the more i resist her the more she continue to try. This very evening i was about buying some drinks from a store close to her store, she sent her daughter to me , her daughter said i quote '' my mum said i should tell you she is greeting you''then I went to her just to extend my greetings, she said'' run away man, where have u been? i was shocked.
this wowan knows my wife and i don't known why she needs me. she is not married but she got some kids. please, nairalander what do i do, ?

Chei! See this married cargo!
He wants us to give him permission to tap another woman. Go on, ur poor wife will understand.

@OP
I wont scold you because i understand saying NO to most punny is heck of a job.


As much as i enjoy us nacking those punanis, you case is different; you are married and that floozy on your street still don't give a damn about your status and wife; She's evil!

My Advise!

Tell your wife about this lady's erotic advances. Your Iyawo knows exactly what to do.

I knw very well that d Op has made up his mind 2 fvck dat lady, he just want someone 2 give him d go ahead. Certainly that person isnt gonna be me. Still 2 ur wife dude! U dey make me shame.

Thanks to all positive advisers in house, God will surely bless u all. I think the purpose of this house is to educate, advise and inform mature minds of what is happening in our Good nation -Nija.
Honest speaking i am not interested in this lady, just that i keep on imaging why a lady who knows my family will be thinking or doing all these. Inshort, she has done worst things which i can 't express in words,

newcomer2:

Thanks to all positive advisers in  house,  God will surely bless u all. I think the purpose of this house is to educate, advise and inform mature minds of what is happening in our Good nation -Nija.
Honest speaking i am not interested in this lady, just that i keep on imaging why a lady who knows my family will be thinking or doing all these. Inshort, she has done worst things which i can 't express in words, 

the purpose of this house is to speak our mind  then from that you can pick what is good for you

this aint a school where you get educated

poster, thank God u are not interested in her, but what if the lady in question is not mama esther as someone here called her, but someone pretty and u sort of find her attractive, wud u come on here askin this same question??