NewStats: 3,262,878 , 8,178,444 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 10:02 PM 45l5j

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Why na?

I always say this to myself one of my greatest mistakes in life was not marrying an urhrobo chic i met in school.
She everything in a lady,my lodge mates were after me to organize her for them cos of her beauty.

I lost her due to my i dont care lifestyle and waywardness.I still cry till today....my dearest Joy,u really showed me love but i was really carried awsy by bleeping others.









quote author=ahnie post=89139536]I ve never been in love.

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Westernlove:


Lol I just always love to see your comments, You will never stop to amuse me..... At the bolded, Naso your blood dey Hot reach, I know you wouldn't even dare do such thing....

Only kidding jarey. I'm chill and ready to have my heart broken. The pain is a High on itself

machiavelli95:


You are loud and uncouth!!! The OP said he transferred over 500,000 euros back home. PTDF scholarship lasts for one year. The per-capita income of Greece hovers between 16,000 Euros to 20,000 Euros.
Now the op was not even a citizen, but was a student qualifying him for only part-time jobs.

... do you know if he was a fraudster? Let the sleeping dog sleep... two people ni dey miss lie

grafixdon:
Though she's my crush then, but I love her so so much.

She was schooling in ado, it was around 2010... I travelled from Lagos to Ado just to see her. Bought provisions (milk, bread, 5alive,soaps,bounvita etc).

I got to her hostel around 2am because there's a heavy traffic. I almost fainted when I met a guy at her place at that time putting on just boxer, she later introduced the guy as her boyfriend. Both of them slept on the bed while she gave me mat to sleep on. I couldn't sleep because I could hear them fvcking.

The following morning, she prepared the bread, milk and bounvita I bought with my money for her boyfriend. Oboy, I don suffer.

I've been in that shoe before. Bros, I understand it pain. Pele

DonroxyII:
Dont stir this nest please .... !!

I Long stopped.

gift2xl:
I have always been careful to love any woman, because of what it did to my friends and sister's. The issue I have is any woman I date, wants me to marry her on a serious note. I don't care if she have another guy or am the only one she's dating. My advice to her would be babe try and spend time with other guys am not caging you, she will be like what!!!.

To cut the story short, I do attend those one's that invites me to there wedding's to pay respect. And after there wedding, they keep telling me I can't forgive you completely, you left me to another man. I just say am sorry please be happy with your man and never call me again. I know love Hurt's , so I transferred it to my mum, I mean only my mum.

exactly me I swear down....all the love for mum,if u come my way na too remove pant go they hungry me!

The only stupid thing I did all in the name of love which I can't stop regretting is putting my relationship on social media and at the same time engaging in a long distance relationship which I was the only one visiting my ex gal in Lagos. She only came visiting one time in 11 months. That is stupidity. The relationship got crashed in spite of my commitment and sacrifice.

Get a tattoo of the selfish girl's name..

Stevecreativex:
Me if I I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

How do i process this kind of scholarship too.. i am in my finals in a Nigerian state University.. upper credit business istration

Samfloxin:

Lai Mohammad

Don't be surprised bro, what if I told you that I'm also in this category.

Dicktion:
Prolly the lady was fvcking him better.. Blame the lady. They make men like your ex loose their senses especially when they know how to do like a po.rn kini
May the lord heal you

So out of 3 women, none of them do him better?
Your mumu na follow come.

SweetCunt97:
Only a very stupid son will choose a deadbeat dad that abandoned him at infancy over his mom that cared for him. Boys code my ass

Yen yen yen yen, seeing one's father doesn't mean one hates the mum.

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if your story is true,by now i never recover oo.

I believe u may be saying d truth,cos am d guy of person that loves good things do if i have d money i can send it down to d person that sacrificed for me....take heart,shiy happens











quote author=Stevecreativex post=89139739]Me if I I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives.. [/quote]

Amazing007:
2012 ... I travelled from Adamawa (jimeta ) to asaba to go see babe o , funny thing is that she was the person that woke me up for the said journey , i hurriedly took my bath & off to park with my luggage of stuff I packed for her , dry fish , rice etc. . Started journey past 7a.m , called her 3hours into the journey & she didnt pick my call till I got to asaba around 2a.m the next day ,
luckily I met a lady in the bus who accommodated me for 2days in her family house (mother , father , brother ,sisters were all home) as I was only having my t.p back to north , i had to open up to the kind girl , she told all her family what happened & they were mad @ what the lady did , Still great friends with the girl that help me ,we like family now sef

Hope you gave them the rice and fish?

julieeni:
I'm over it now, at least I didn't give in to thoughts of commiting suicide I used to hate him and wish him death, but not anymore because I have forgiven him and I wish him well, but he will never see his son again.

Why una like this talk of "he will never see his son again"

ahnie:
I ve never been in love.

if you fall for me, i will take around the world, jst say yes?

CXLVII:
Had to drive 30 miles to get a pack of cigarette.

That`s undiluted love

At least the cigarette won't disappoint

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[whenevet i hear this story it seems like a movie.

How can one date someone who has married n had children without knowing?

I advise u leave such union because the future will bring more disaster especially if you bore kids for him












quote author=julieeni post=89140513]Getting married to a father of two kids from two different women , it ended in tears, emotional trauma and depression. I guess I loved the very wrong person [/quote]

danduchi:
You all don't know what God has done for you all oo.
One time, many years ago, I traveled to calabar to go see this girl. She picked me from the parked and we got to her one bedroom apartment, nice and cozy. I baff, wear singlet and boxer, crossed leg on the table changing TV channels.
2 secs my girl received a call, followed by a knock on the door. It was very obvious he paid for the apartment from the look on his face. My girl just said 'I'm sorry Dan'.
I got dressed, this guy and my girl dropped me off at the park. I reached PH by almost 11pm.
So Me go calabar to just go baff, I can't still believe it.

this is quite hilarious

Mine happened in church, some years back, omo E get one babe weh dey choir wey i dey eye oo, d girl dey sing well well, anytime i go church i go sit down for choir side so i go dey see her.

one day this girl come release album, our pastor come launch the music and he come say make we come dey buy, that day money nor too dey my hand, i manage go church, but base on say i dey like this girl for inside my heart, na so i waka come out like big man go use my transport money take buy... omo after service, i treek go house, and my house and church be like north and west he far die... i see oba that day... hahaha.
As i fit reach house na so i dey play d music dey enjoy myself.


las las d girl don marry one of our senior pastors.
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Stevecreativex:
Me if I I use to smile and swear for her with my smile
She's grace, fondly called Gracey, I met this werey when I was serving at Abuja 2014, But with the way we met seems like God wanted us together.

She works where I did my PPA, The first day we met I was working on some files and she was kinda asking her colleague who Steve is when she walked up to my desk, she called my name I looked up and she lost it like I could we both lost at each other for like 60 seconds before the lady sitting beside me called her name loud( that one don grab watin dey sup)

To cut the past lost story short.. we started talking we exchange and weeks later we started dating... Later she came over to the apartment whey I rented, I could tell her reaction she does not like the place (it single room thou )

Months later our relationship became so close that people started noticing in the office, exactly August they paidsalary and to my surprise, as we were going home together she gave me her August salary asked me to add some few bucks to it I should move out of the one-room apartment am staying saying she doesn't want me sharing toilet and bathroom...

Like I was wow. To be very honest that night I was so happy to the extent I had to cut all my spouse off and focus on only her... Like that night I vowed not to cheat on her ever...

So I finished my NYSC in Abuja and luckily my PDTF scholarship application was successful I was preparing to move over to Greece for my masters...

I and Gracey parted ways but we still dating, we call each other text each other... Months later I started sending money to grace for our building project, all the money I sent was around £125,500+ (54,233,804.62 nairas)

During this process, grace sends me pictures of the land she brought and how the construction is going on.....

To round up this painful crab only for me to come back home to meet my wife, married with a kid...

I arrested her and all she could say was "she thought I was just joking with her" that she never thought I still love her... Out of 54m, she could only recover 2.5m...

I was hospitalized for two weeks then... I sort I almost died the shock and trauma almost killed me... But thank God later I just have to return to Greece and start all over again... But what she did then is still the reason why am single today...

The truth sef is I insult any Nigerian girls I see in Greece... Nigerian girls in Greece are all lonely so anyone of then that comes across Nigeria guys is always waiting to be loved but I can't stop hating them...

The trauma still lives..

No other story has touched me like yours. God will direct you to the right partner. Be strong ma guy!

One of my correct guys in 2012 who was a Mikano staff at their Ikeja branch do send 10k monthly, out of his salary of 25k to his girlfriend at Uyo. He never failed a month. He was consistent to the point of even doing top up some times within a month when she tendered her humble request. He always do all he could to please and satisfy her.

A weekend came he took permission at work on the pretense that he was going for a burial ceremony at home. When he got to Uyo, to his greatest surprise, he caught his girlfriend in the act with another guy. And he knows the guy back in university days.

His heart was shattered! It knocked liked one of those diesel engine of "fanagone" beyond repair. He came back to Lagos with pain. He tried to gather himself and moved on.

Whenever he re today, he do say, "Back in those when boys no get sense." And we just laughed over it! He is married and blessed with a child.

lantres000:


Why una like this talk of "he will never see his son again"

They talk as if children belong to mothers alone. That's why you will see a woman arrogantly tell her husband "I am done with this marriage, and I am taking the kid(s)."

grafixdon:
Though she's my crush then, but I love her so so much.

She was schooling in ado, it was around 2010... I travelled from Lagos to Ado just to see her. Bought provisions (milk, bread, 5alive,soaps,bounvita etc).

I got to her hostel around 2am because there's a heavy traffic. I almost fainted when I met a guy at her place at that time putting on just boxer, she later introduced the guy as her boyfriend. Both of them slept on the bed while she gave me mat to sleep on. I couldn't sleep because I could hear them fvcking.

The following morning, she prepared the bread, milk and bounvita I bought with my money for her boyfriend. Oboy, I don suffer.

Buari Buaha Buaha

So she probably introduced you as her relative or friend.

Yours is epic.

You mean you were dating yourself all along. Forming boyfriend.

You for beg the guy nah: Bros abeg if you do finish make I just put tip and remove.

FiremanP:
Get a tattoo of the selfish girl's name..

Hope it ain't permanent

Martinez39s:
Yen yen yen yen, seeing one's father doesn't mean one hates the mum.

Dad that deceived ur mom and abandoned you? Pssssh.

Guys in Norway don't even make that kind of money. May be the guy was talking about other type of money though.

Pascal9:
oga you did not make any 54million in poverty Greece, your part-time 1yr masters hustle give you 54 m, did you Robb a bank or do drug come clean now, make we decide in time to fly there or not

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Its very possible to make even more than that within four years,i dont doubt his spirit to make money bro.All fingers are not equal.....


When the rat follows the lizard to cross the stream,The water dries faster on The body of The lizard but doesnt on that of The rat.











quote author=NonsoNathan100 post=89141717]
Served in 2014
Maybe left for Greece in 2015
Came back 2019 (i guess) and she is married with a kid.
Made more than 54 million wethin that space of time.
Bro invite me to your place of worship please [/quote]

danduchi:
You all don't know what God has done for you all oo.
One time, many years ago, I traveled to calabar to go see this girl. She picked me from the parked and we got to her one bedroom apartment, nice and cozy. I baff, wear singlet and boxer, crossed leg on the table changing TV channels.
2 secs my girl received a call, followed by a knock on the door. It was very obvious he paid for the apartment from the look on his face. My girl just said 'I'm sorry Dan'.
I got dressed, this guy and my girl dropped me off at the park. I reached PH by almost 11pm.
So Me go calabar to just go baff, I can't still believe it.

Chisos, kikikikikikikikikikiki, I can't stop laughing.

SweetCunt97:
Dad that deceived ur mom and abandoned you? Pssssh.

First of all, if your son has a good IQ (which I am sure you would want), he wouldn't take everything you tell him about his father hook, line, and sinker without conducting his own investigation. Even you yourself know how manipulative and deceptive you and your fellow women can be. Just accept the reality that boys will usually seek out their fathers.

penisilin:
Like someone said - it has been flogged very very well but women matter will continue to flog men as long as them still get yansh and bleast cool.

One of my many mumuness.

It was 2000, I was very young (after SSCE) and had a girl crushing on me but for reasons known to only God & devil, I just no send the babe.

But for the mumuness in me, I was seriously pursuing one yeye girl because of her yansh so tey in my bid to win her favor, I took a family cherished flask and made a sumptuous chocolate beverage with bread and sardine (from money I fapped from my sister) for her on a rainy day.
I told her from our balcony that I was coming with the goodies and she beckoned on me to come quickly. Only for me to reach her house, she asked to carry the flask follow her until we reach her boyfriend house angry. She jumped on him and said "Thank you Ola, shebi you have given me the flask" and they shut the door while I was standing there and smiling like Ganduje.

Anger no gree me sleep for 2 days

The geh go go hell fire I swear