NewStats: 3,262,864 , 8,178,404 topics. Date: Tuesday, 03 June 2025 at 08:44 PM i3e2w

Alvin007:
Lawyer wey get secretary, maid...and influential...wey no get CCTV for office...mtcheww...I quick review of what transpired, on CCTC, would've helped solve this case.

CCTV will see him holding her shoulder

StrongandMighty:


The only place you can see this kind of thing is in nollywood movies...
Is either you touched her inappropriately that made her raise an alarm, you've been wooing her and she refused or this whole story never happened.

The op could be saying the truth, i have witnessed lots of this kind story myself, some girls can be devil tool just to mess up your life.

#STRONGVILLAGEPEOPLE#

Hmm this was probably your village people in disguise... Hope your boss reconsiders you, if your and intentions are true guess she will be possessed and she has seen a higher spirit in you

When you asked her to rest and eat and she refused, you should have just let her be asking her repeatedly and then moving close to her and placing a hand on her shoulder was unnecessary. You don't know what sexual Education/ orientation she has been given that prompted her to flare. Now we would never know if you truly was asking her to eat out of concern or because you wanted to harvest her. Just take your L and move on while praying you get another job soonest and when you do, I guess you'll know how to act better. From the way you narrated the story sef , I'm already against you. Ikpe mara gi.

this what's app chat said you almost raped her.

"After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest."
guy u get motives. u are a sexually active guy and am very sure that maid is good looking. mister go and work on urself control

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

you dey craze, why you go touch am

na by force to rest with you or follow you chop?

No CCTV in your office ?

[s] After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest. My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her.[/s] u be MUMU MAN
i can bet my hair on my scrotum that you didnt have intentions to rape her but u wanted to try luck. guy i am an introvert too and real introverts dont start begging girls to come and eat to the point of touching them to come and eat. you are lucky say them no carry you go police. you are a real mumu man

I want to believe this is well orchestrated.

It's a mistake to act too familiar with someone you just met. To the extent you even had the audacity to put your hand on her. It's a lesson for the rest of us, don't get familiar with someone you don't know.

Meanwhile sorry for your ill treatment, if indeed the lady lied.

What was your concern with her well being that you were begging her to stop work and rest? You see what you guys ' I took alomo and invited her but she didn't come' attitude has cost you?

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

U are a mumu man, what is depression in this case, u even open a thread for this trash. Listen this is Nigerian, men go through worst, if u go to prison and people narrate their story for u, u won't even have the mind to talk about depression.

For u to even went as far as putting hand on her shoulder shows how naive you are, as a Nigerian, u are optimally alert at any time

ambassadorgozie:


honestly speaking, i did not,
she wasn't dat appealing to me

She wasn't appealing but u kept asking her to take a breather..u even stood up to go persuade her..Guy guy.. Guy..

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

Touching ppl who are not you family and even close friends is equal to molestation. Why will u go so close to someone you just met as much as touching her. She told u she don’t wanna eat, u wia insisting. Do you know her experience?

No means no.
You caused this.
Next time mind your business
Let them call you names for mining your business.

Now, your new employee would ask you why u left your formal job, u would tell them you wia accused of rape ?
Who would ever employ you again ?

Come rest .I no gree

Come rest .. she no gree

Na eem you go touch?

Wetin concern you with her rest or her chop?

Let's be frank, the thing wey you been wan do to offer am food.

Prick was standing abeg

Your pleas on WhatsApp gave you out like you committed the act. Quit pleading and move ahead.
Lesson learnt QED

Lamanii22:



I believe you Hun... Be strong Hun.. You don't need to apologize...

Thank you dear. Can you pls console me in my bed room?

Breast was involved somehow, talk true abeg...

Next time avoid unsolicited touching of women...is she your wife or sister?

Why are you touching her?

scantee:


The op could be saying the truth, i have witnessed lots of this kind story myself, some girls can be devil tool just to mess up your life.

#STRONGVILLAGEPEOPLE#

Okay that being the case, the op should complete his story by telling us the previous encounter he had with the girl that'll warrant her setting him up in this manner in a bid to mess up his life.. But until then I stood by my words

A nice guy has lost his job.Good it happened to you since Una no wan get sense.

GidiWoodsMan:


you dey craze, why you go touch am

na by force to rest with you or follow you chop?

I weak fa!

Puna don fall another wan, as Bubu will say, life kwantinus..next!

HarunaWest:


Meanwhile, who else noticed the abbreviations and bad Grammer that OP text to his boss. You work for a lawyer and you send this kinda sh*** to her..I think this is the reason you were fired.

That part got me.
No respect in the message He sent her.
I've learnt that those chating abbreviations should not be used with elders and bosses.

ambassadorgozie:


d boss is a lawyer nd influential, i don't want to go dat way

How can you force someone to eat? My brother we have to hear from her too

Ur SMS is indicting

That maid is a real MVP. She saw through your gimmicks and seductions. You asked, she said No; you beckoned, she said NO; then you still had the guts to touch? Is she a kid? She said she doesn't want your food, is it by force? Maybe you have laced the food with a sleeping substance. Maybe it's true you wanted to rape her. You thought, oh she's just a maid so this one would be easy to manipulate. Unfortunately for you, she's not only mature but she's experienced too. Maybe she has experienced your type of touchy males pretending to be caring just so you can get close enough to strike. Next time, you will mind your business

Ur sack was planned already

I don't believe the op because as an introvert he claims to be, when you talk to people twice and they don't give you the attention you will just lose interest completely in that person.


Another thing you need to learn is that you should never touch a lady inappropriately without their consent. You deserve to be sacked for that.


You are not being truthful when you said the maid started shouting because you held her on the shoulder because you really cross the line that's what gave you away.


You said she is not your type but you were forcing her to eat with you which is a red flag that you are lying.


Finally your final text message to your boss shows how uncouth you are with the tenses like you are begging a friend. Go home and learn etiquette because you have none.


Remove your chats online because your boss will see this story and the picture which will add to your problem

Op,you fumbled. You don’t touch an opposite sex anyhow. Why would you touch someone you are not close to? Somebody you are just meeting for the first time ,in the name of what?

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

Dude move on

Last year I was framed for things I didn't do... Also

One thing is that she would suffer for it

czarr:
Wetin carry your hand go her shoulder ...i no trust you guy

Some of these guys are fond of tapping ladies shoulders!

He (op) went for wrongest shoulder being that of a naive grown up teenager! And he is not the owner of the place he was working! See where tapping has landed him. Thank his lucky stars no be arse him tapped, if not they would have bundled him straight to kirikiri prison!