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Identity of viral side chick who bumped into her boyfriend's wife at Ikeja city mall on the 4th of January finally revealed.

Her Name is "Obaebaecares" she has over N20k followers on Instagram, she parades as an online motivational speaker, relationship adviser and Kayanmata ( toto sweetener) Seller.

Below is one of her videos we quickly obtained before she deactivated her .

Watch Her Video HERE

Why do housewives look unkempt and ugly. Don't blame the men for looking for something more appealing. Many ladies stop taking care of themselves once they marry. This video tells alot

motivational speaker ko rotational headphone ni. HOE

9 in 10 girls living alone in Lekki or VI are runs girls.

#fact

Bloggers sha, una suppose dey work for naija police, you'll probably do a better job.
Nothing new here, all the oloshos are either selling hair, bags or kayamata on Instagram.

Most of them are the online entrepreneurs you keep hearing about. The boss ladies who peddle their feminine goods and hide under being an online entrepreneur.

Ladylite:
Why do housewives look unkempt and ugly. Don't blame the men for looking for something more appealing. Many ladies stop taking care of themselves once they marry. This video tells alot

NONSENSE!!!!!
if the husband has a problem with the way his wife looks, then he can divorce her and go be with whoever he desires, instead of cheating.

sadly, the deluded wife went to attack the mistress while the main problem here is the deluded/disrespectful/deceitful/unfaithful animal she calls her husband

Ladylite:
Why do housewives look unkempt and ugly. Don't blame the men for looking for something more appealing. Many ladies stop taking care of themselves once they marry. This video tells alot

they look like that cos their husbands always insist they want their wives to look natural

MrBrownJay1:


NONSENSE!!!!!
if the husband has a problem with the way his wife looks, then he can divorce her and go be with whoever he desires, instead of cheating.

sadly, the deluded wife went to attack the mistress while the main problem here is the deluded/disrespectful/deceitful/unfaithful animal she calls her husband

some men prefer their wives looking unkempt and ugly cos in their small mind they believe other men wont look at their wives when they have such appearance .to entertain themselves they go about looking for beautiful sidechicks while they keep the unkempt wife at home just to be bearing kids .

In response to why the wife is looking unkempt.
Sometimes the wife is unlucky to be an housewife.
The man drops nothing for her, no money to change wardrobe or hairstyles.

When it is time to stock the house, he goes to the market to buy things himself just so the woman does not come in with any money while he is busy splashing money outside.

Please how does she step up her looks?

Later in life when someone drastic happens to these men. They dont ever understand where it is coming from.

lefulefu:
they look like that cos their husbands always insist they want their wives to look natural

Not all husbands actually says that. Those insecure ones are the ones who say so.

Ladylite:


Not all husbands actually says that. Those insecure ones are the ones who say so.

i had this friend in abuja a doctor who holds the same mentality i am talking about .he believes if you have an attractive wife or girlfriend all men in the neighbourhood will be fucking her and u wont have rest of mind .he believes if u want to settle down finally then get a woman who is not attractive so other men will leave her alone but u can get a very beautiful side chick for yourself .i wont be surprised when he finally gets married it will be with a ugly and shapeless lady but i know for sure he will have a preety side chick by his side to keep him warm.sadly enough thats the idelogy some of we guys hold ..minus me though

Ohemababy:
In response to why the wife is looking unkempt.
Sometimes the wife is unlucky to be an housewife.
The man drops nothing for her, no money to change wardrobe or hairstyles.

When it is time to stock the house, he goes to the market to buy things himself just so the woman does not come in with any money while he is busy splashing money outside.

Please how does she step up her looks?

Later in life when someone drastic happens to these men. they dont ever understand where it is coming from.

the husband is doing it on purpose .some married men prefer to spend on their side chicks to look good while they abandon their housewives.they get scared if they make their wives look good other men will start running after them.why do u think some husbands tend to grumble when their wives enlist in gyms to get in shape .

lefulefu:
some men prefer their wives looking unkempt and ugly cos in their small mind they believe other men wont look at their wives when they have such appearance .to entertain themselves they go about looking for beautiful sidechicks while they keep the unkempt wife at home just to be bearing kids .

What is so wrong in how she dressed?

1Sharon:


What is so wrong in how she dressed?

the big oversized gown
ehn some men want their house wives to look like that sha
big saggy wrapper and oversized gowns all the time
if my boo no gree wear bum short or those sexy negligee we go quarrell

lefulefu:
the big oversized gown
ehn some men want their house wives to look like that sha
big saggy wrapper and oversized gowns all the time
if my boo no gree wear bum short or those sexy negligee we go quarrell

Its kaftan, it's not oversized..I think she looks classy and matured actually

So you want your wife to wear bum shorts and negligee to go out?

Cos almost end up being fuxqed.

lefulefu:
the husband is doing it on purpose .some married men prefer to spend on their side chicks to look good while they abandon their housewives.they get scared if they make their wives look good other men will start running after them.why do u think some husbands tend to grumble when their wives enlist in gyms to get in shape .

Bloggers!

1Sharon:


Its kaftan, it's not oversized..I think she looks classy and matured actually

So you want your wife to wear bum shorts and negligee to go out?

she can wear something normal if she goes out.take a look at the side chick the way she"s dressed.she side chick isnt dressed in a nude way but she still looks fine.as for the housewife i have seen it through her..she looks like the type of lady who ties saggy wrapper all through the day.it wont be her fault though cos many of their husbands insist they look like that while they go out secretly hunting for sidechicks .its the same way some guys here would say they dont like ladies who use makeup but would prefer a lady who who dont use makeup and wears those old lady kwon kwon shoes plus old gowns with berets but would secretly have sidechicks who use makeups and dress in a sexy way .

tribalmall:
Cos almost end up being fuxqed.

bro but some shapeless housewives still get slammed by their gatemen or male students renting their boysquaters .if a dirty mad woman on the street can still get toasters in the night then wetin be a lady that is unattractive .if u have a certain spec or fetish in a lady then make ur wife look that way instead of streesing urself going out and hunting for sidechicks .

lefulefu:
some men prefer their wives looking unkempt and ugly cos in their small mind they believe other men wont look at their wives when they have such appearance .to entertain themselves they go about looking for beautiful sidechicks while they keep the unkempt wife at home just to be bearing kids .

Very true.
I just pity women who listen to their husbands when they tell them ds natural beauty crap.

Dear women, take care of your self, look good for yourself and do things that make you happy.

Sometimes your husband no dey get sense finish. You don't have to follow everything he says.

okeyben10:


Very true.
I just pity women who listen to their husbands when they tell them ds natural beauty crap.

Dear women, take care of your self, look good for yourself and do things that make you happy.

Sometimes your husband no dey get sense finish. You don't have to follow everything he says.

lefulefu:
she can wear something normal if she goes out.take a look at the side chick the way she"s dressed.she side chick isnt dressed in a nude way but she still looks fine.as for the housewife i have seen it through her..she looks like the type of lady who ties saggy wrapper all through the day.it wont be her fault though cos many of their husbands insist they look like that while they go out secretly hunting for sidechicks .its the same way some guys here would say they dont like ladies who use makeup but would prefer a lady who who dont use makeup and wears those old lady kwon kwon shoes plus old gowns with berets but would secretly have sidechicks who use makeups and dress in a sexy way .

I still don't see what's so bad? Kaftan looks very traditional

Nairalanders, una fit dig person mata cum out of grave

10 out of 10 Instagram motivational speakers, content creators, social media 'so called influencers' (na their papa they dey influence no be me) are runsgirls or gee boys

Lol

1Sharon:


I still don't see what's so bad? Kaftan looks very traditional

I'm 100 percent with you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the wife. The only difference between the wife and side chick is the age. The wife looks like she is in her late 40's to early 50's while the side chick is obviously younger. It is arrant stupidity to expect a 50 year old woman to be dressing like a fresher on campus.

Shey Beyonce sef dey wear oversized kaftan na why Jay-z cheat abi, Juliet Ibrahim dey tie wrapper na why iceberg slim cheat, abi na Toke no dey wear makeup. All this long talks is just from guys who cheat trying to rationalize cheating.

lefulefu:
some men prefer their wives looking unkempt and ugly cos in their small mind they believe other men wont look at their wives when they have such appearance .to entertain themselves they go about looking for beautiful sidechicks while they keep the unkempt wife at home just to be bearing kids .

very true bro.... or brothas who meet babes that dress sexy, with mini skirt up their nyansh and cleavage all out, and the minute they start dating the babe, their low self esteem/insecurity kicks in and now ask the babe to cover up

Ladylite:
Why do housewives look unkempt and ugly. Don't blame the men for looking for something more appealing. Many ladies stop taking care of themselves once they marry. This video tells alot

It's because unmarried women don't go through the same stress married women do, and irresponsible men don't realise this.

Ritzy10:
Her Name is "Obaebaecares" she has over N20k followers on Instagram, she parades as an online motivational speaker, relationship adviser and Kayanmata ( toto sweetener) Seller.

YET, COULDN'T MOTIVATE HERSELF TO HUSTLE LEGITIMATELY.

lefulefu:
the big oversized gown
ehn some men want their house wives to look like that sha
big saggy wrapper and oversized gowns all the time
if my boo no gree wear bum short or those sexy negligee we go quarrell

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i prefer the side chick actually, intelectually sound, very calm and also beautiful .. that wife looks like someone that wont let her husband have peace or enjoy his life at home

when some women become housewives and have the first child, they instantly becomes a monster its like marriage turns them into hulk.. they start seeing your family as outsiders, start controlling your life, start maltreating the househelp and your siblings, sex is now on their and when they feel like having it, they even start dressing anyhow

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She could even be innocent.. Digging out picture in order to shame her is totally unnecessary.