NewStats: 3,262,125 , 8,176,140 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 08:55 PM 6mb5q

bezimo:


Without blowing my trumpet, I pride myself as been intelligent as validated by many around me, the job I do, you can't try it if you are a dumb ass idiot, I leave you to go figure that out. That been said, I stand not to be corrected that most 9ja girls are daft and uninteresting to converse with because all they typically know is food, fashion and monèy and I can tell you most guys will comfirm my claims to be true.

Whatever you say sir

Divay22:

No. But irritated

That is strange

OGwales:
Naija girls are silly... Some will even ask for transport fare to come

Nonsense

midnighter:




Thank you...I wanted to ask, what if she doesnt even like what you order You will still call her an ingrate smh

Looking at it from both side, is not a most she eat your order and is not a most the girl eat either. We can just take a � why we hang out for the first date

biGDhAp:
.. as long as you would pay for it yourself. no biggie

Lol

Divay22:
Talking too much; thereby telling me all your life history, achievements and the rest. Sorry o you ain't seeing me again.

I thought the date is meant for us to get to know each other more

ericmor:


Looking at it from both side, is not a most she eat your order and is not a most the girl eat either. We can just take a � why we hang out for the first date

Anyway if you don't know somebody very well and you plan on accepting their hospitality, it's better you eat and be satisfied before meeting them so that whatever they do will not be paining you.

No need going for the so-called "date" on an empty stomach when the guy may be experiencing some kind of personal catastrophe that he won't feel comfortable explaining to you.

mirexxx:
I paid for my drink and left. He told d waiter he won't pay for it.

Lol mtchew never mind!

okikiosibodu:


No lady likes to be reminded her biological clock it ticking. They always want to feel younger. Fella's song "Lady", should hint you.
If you call her woman, African woman no go gree..... She go say e e, she go say I be lady o.
Just as it makes a guy uncomfortable to ask for his wage when you have not really established rapport, the feeling is mutual for a lady when asked her age. Perhaps ladies in the house can shed more light to it

Don't mind them...census takers if they don't know this by now then they can never know mtchew

Greatzeus:

Wow,I am learning lots of new things today,I used to think ladies like talks and talks and talks from their guys, I used to see such guys as lucky.
I am the quiet type,I love writing but talking unnecessarily for long isn't my thing,have always seen that has a disadvantage towards the opposite sex.
But ladies on this thread have been complaining about guys who talk too much,I don't get it

Yes, talking is good if we actually share interests and ideas. Talking is more interesting if emotions and sentiments are not involved (my personal opinion). No one gets tired from talking about things of interests like sports, politics, movies, books,food etc.

midnighter:


Don't mind them...census takers if they don't know this by now then they can never know mtchew

Lol. This got me laughing real hard

midnighter:


Anyway if you don't know somebody very well and you plan on accepting their hospitality, it's better you eat and be satisfied before meeting them so that whatever they do will not be paining you.

No need going for the so-called "date" on an empty stomach when the guy may be experiencing some kind of personal catastrophe that he won't feel comfortable explaining to you.

Exactly. For me the lady most respect me for the first date cus the other days are hers. So if you can’t respect me on that first date which I know the respect for her could last for years if eventually things work out between us, she’s a goner �

See your tits olimpus has fallen.
Kai

makydebbie:
I don't even know sef.
Just act normal jare.
And close your mouth when eating so I can't hear those annoying sounds.

okikiosibodu:

Lol. This got me laughing real hard

Lol nawa for dem

ericmor:


Exactly. For me the lady most respect me for the first date cus the other days are hers. So if you can’t respect me on that first date which I know the respect for her could last for years if eventually things work out between us, she’s a goner �

Exactly, you get

3KINGZ18:

I thought the date is meant for us to get to know each other more

Yes
But at least we gat to tune it down. We ain't gonna stop at our first, we're still gonna have more dates. So for a nigga doing that on a first date is a great turn off.

eni4real:
That is strange

Yes. People that talks too much are boring to me.
Keep it simple and entertaining.

Some guys are annoying. Waking for sex on the first date

[quote author=biGDhAp post=85587704][/quote]
I said SHATAP my boy! .

optimus106:


I was born in the 80s

I looked at my father when he spoke

I can't be talking to my kid and he is watching tv

For what?

Looking at your father is not the same as looking at him directly into his eyes

Divay22:

Yes. People that talks too much are boring to me.
Keep it simple and entertaining.

Lolz

Jeweltz:
Some guys are annoying. Waking for sex on the first date

Expect that from the Marlians!!

SolidLight:


I actually schooled abroad and so I speak from experience. After exchanging a few pleasantries with anyone and you both are comfortable around each other, it has always been fine to ask from my experience.

. You are both comfortable with each other.If she is not ok with you,she considers you been rude. So never ask a woman her age until she is into you.

boredom

Jaubdu:
. You are both comfortable with each other.If she is not ok with you,she considers you been rude. So never ask a woman her age until she is into you.

Obviously, you can't just throw in that question at random.

In Nigeria, ladies consider it intrusion at first meeting whether you have both familiarized yourselves with each other or not. This is not so with Brits or Americans....from my experience.

SolidLight:


Obviously, you can't just throw in that question at random.

In Nigeria, ladies consider it intrusion at first meeting whether you have both familiarized yourselves with each other or not. This is not so with Brits or Americans....from my experience.

. I actually did that with my girlfriend but she considers me been rude,I apologized she let it slide. From my experience,they don't fancy it.

Jaubdu:
. I actually did that with my girlfriend but she considers me been rude,I apologized she let it slide. From my experience,they don't fancy it.

Lol.
Never ask a nigerian girl for her age or weight.

SolidLight:


Lol.
Never ask a nigerian girl for her age or weight.

I don't date Nigerian girls,got no time for hypocrisy. We can have sex BTW if I come across a reasonable one I gladly fall in love and marry.

lovat:
Eating like am the cause of poverty .


I ed back then in 2011 when a guy asked a lady out for a date and the girl brought her friend along. The guy ordered for AmstEl malt while the lady and her friend ordered for Smirnoff and cow tail pepper soup.
The guy was one of these Orile guys that was looking for just one round of sex for free and now these ladies were making expenses on his head not minding that the guy was as broke as their own parents.

The guy collected the BlackBerry phone of the friend of his date and was checking it out while at same time discussing with the ladies. He now stood up to go take a leak and voom my guy disappear.

The girls waited for the guy that went to take a leak but didn't come back, the friend of the date now became worried because of her phone was with the guy, she now started crying which attracted our attention in the bar.

Their bill was 1800 which the duo don't have so the owner of the bar seized their sandals and bags. They were crying and begging. The other girl was blaming her friend for her phone that was taken.

I felt pity for them that I had to ask the woman how much she will sell the ladies bags so that I can buy it and sell it as Akube. I'm a business person for crying out loud

laugh wan kill me for here abeg....

ericmor:

Haha! Just because of 200naira

Yes.

On her first visit, she asked for a bottle of small stout.

I hate it when people say “men are weaker vessels” like, do you have any idea the number of finee, rich, tall guys I meet daily?

What’s my point?..

Jesse25:

Sharaap it wrong who does that