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Kcee14: 6:46pm On Sep 26, 2019
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers

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donbachi(m): 8:05pm On Sep 26, 2019
they don't cheat.cares for their wives....BUT...

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AkhereOkaka(m): 8:14pm On Sep 26, 2019
donbachi:
they don't cheat.cares for their wives....BUT...
But what please be explicit

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AfroKnight: 8:27pm On Sep 26, 2019
Options for you. Pick one:

1: Elope and do court wedding

2: Breakup and move on

3: Let him visit so you both can try to win your parents over.

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Olusholar24(m): 8:32pm On Sep 26, 2019
Their but is.........

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MedicH: 8:36pm On Sep 26, 2019
Lol my dad can follow u ur introduction as long as it's not Mbaisem we're four boys and he sings it like a song everyday. Old man has terrible experience with them.

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pharrell8(m): 9:49pm On Sep 26, 2019
Y don't u ask ur parents their reason for u not marrying an mbaise person.

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ursullalinda(f): 9:55pm On Sep 26, 2019
angry Don't know much abt dem but the only one I encountered is a wonderful soul. But there is a general misconception about them and I don't know the history

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doy56: 9:55pm On Sep 26, 2019
Are the mbaise people really that cursed because there is so much rejection of marriage to mbaise people

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CharlesJok3r: 9:56pm On Sep 26, 2019
And what is wrong with mbaise men that your parents don't want you to marry them?
BTW this is the first time I'm hearing mbaise undecided. I know I'm not alone.

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 9:56pm On Sep 26, 2019
lolzz

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YorubaNinja: 9:56pm On Sep 26, 2019
Go marry a Yoruba guy, abeg... your parents would be very glad you did. cool They're the best! cool

Omo Yoruba nimi ooo... SWAGGERRR !!!

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PheelzAlmighty: 9:56pm On Sep 26, 2019
Bring another suitor my child.

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Exwizaard: 9:56pm On Sep 26, 2019
imagine you leave your parents that Bared you from getting married as a result of thier stereotypes and come they disturb our peace for here.

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MrPresident1: 9:56pm On Sep 26, 2019
Stupid stories everywhere

American will say bullshit

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fatymore(f): 9:56pm On Sep 26, 2019
Sit them down and ask why?

People these days can't talk and sort out things physically, instead they run to social media to ask from people.


Ask them please.

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Opinedecandid(m): 9:57pm On Sep 26, 2019
All for good.

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 9:57pm On Sep 26, 2019
Ok
hamid6249: 9:57pm On Sep 26, 2019
I can allow my children to marry from any tribe or community as long as the suitor is not from IBADAN

I have my reasons ,my eyes don see wem for thier hands ..useless bunch of people

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ngwababe(f): 9:58pm On Sep 26, 2019
Does your boyfriend give you money willingly? Does he really take care of you the way you want?

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Re: My Parents Refused To Accept My Suitor by Nobody: 9:58pm On Sep 26, 2019
Kcee14:
I am a girl of 26 years from Delta state. I have a guy I have been dating for close to 3years now and he is from mbaise. My guy told me that he is coming for introduction and I told my parents about it and they said over their dead body will they allow me marry from mbaise. Please,is anything wrong with Mbaise? Are there ladies here that are married to mbaise men and living happily. Please, I am really sad now. I need advice and answers


Ask them


where did they want you to marry from then?

Or do they have specific places they want you to be..

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kroger: 9:58pm On Sep 26, 2019
Speechless ...

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madenigga(m): 9:58pm On Sep 26, 2019
LoL 26years and they are saying this, let them not regret there actions o.

The guy could have hit and run or dated you for 3years and married someone else, but he choose to marry you.

Your parents should not repay him like that

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Lamasta(m): 9:58pm On Sep 26, 2019
Know the reason/reasons why they refuse to allow you marry him after 3 years of dating.

The essence of every relationship is marriage if it won't lead to marriage then break it earlier

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Hotzone(m): 9:58pm On Sep 26, 2019
Because u(especially u!) & ur fiancé failed to convince them

But my last experience with them was a sad one..but maybe, he has displayed their ‘over-brain & stinginess’ which convinced ur parents that ur mbaise guy can’t take care of u!

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keepingmum: 9:58pm On Sep 26, 2019
The famous proverb " if you see a snake and an mbaise person, kill the mbaise person first as they are more dangerous ".

The mbaise tribe is like what the ijebus are to yorubas or the igbirra's to Kogi.

Very wicked, deceptive, desperately love money, do not treat other tribes well, manipulative and evil.

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seangy4konji: 9:58pm On Sep 26, 2019
Who are mbaise people?

IMO?

PS.. Yoruba/Hausa boy den here gallant if that road no follow through..

Na Ibo me want.

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BiafranBushBoy: 9:59pm On Sep 26, 2019
hmmmm

Please listen to your parents and don't let love shack you!!!

Those guys are notoriously dangerous!!!

Someone one said "If I see and Mbaise person and a Snake, I will kill the Mbaise person before the snake"

Be WISE!!!

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Sirnuel: 9:59pm On Sep 26, 2019
na wa oo
slimanyd: 9:59pm On Sep 26, 2019
Ur parents knows best.

But assuming u told ur parents that the guy is the son of a senator from mbaise now, Am sure they will change topic straight up



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jimmyolasun: 9:59pm On Sep 26, 2019
hamid6249:
I can allow my children to marry from any tribe or community as long as it not from IBADAN
Ibadan people with their serpent tongue.... Tufia .... Anyway, I can shaa manage your females because una dey get yansh for that region

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