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Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?

can you keep it for your husband, having sex when you are not married doesn't worry it. there are many consequences to that, I know it might not be easy but you are capable.

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Oma307:
can you keep it for your husband, having sex when you are not married doesn't worry it. there are many consequences to that, I know it might not be easy but you are capable.

What if it continues when I get married? What if I still get scared on my wedding night?

Virginity has obviously lost its meaning. A guy has seen your unclothedness countless times just that he has not penetrated you deeply and you still brand yourself a virgin. Just like a lady who has never had it with any man but has masturbated on numerous occasions tagging herself a virgin

Anyways,it's not a rocket science. Next time he comes,close your eyes and savour the inexplicable 'sweetness'that accompanies that long rode you have been evading since.You gonna love it.

Or could you be a fake attention seeking mofo? You should have known that pot inbetween your legs is just like a balloon (it can expand to accommodate rod..es of any size)

Suchy22:



What if it continues when I get married? What if I still get scared on my wedding night?

that is why we have counselors and doctors who have the ability to handle this situation very well
but from the way you are talking, you are ready to lose it

pls don't loose it for your boo who takes pride in disvirgining girls... I'm proud of you..I can marry you without being tested...if only u can remain till u r ready...u might find it difficult to be trusted and getting married if u loose it.. tell ur boo to be responsible since he has seen that u r a virgin and advice him to wait...don't loose it, I say again don't loose..u will cry..when the right person comes and what will crown you a queen could be ur virginity..forget the myths guys tell u...I'm a guy. its purely selfish myths...be proud virgin..finish ur degree.. then prepare to be married..

Just take ur time to listen FALZ Child of the world.
listen attentively to the lyrics...

IFEOLUWAKRIZ:
Virginity has obviously lost its meaning. A guy has seen your unclothedness countless times just that he has not penetrated you deeply and you still brand yourself a virgin. Just like a lady who has never had it with any man but has masturbated on numerous occasions tagging herself a virgin

Anyways,it's not a rocket science. Next time he comes,close your eyes and savour the inexplicable 'sweetness'that accompanies that long rode you have been evading since.You gonna love it.

Or could you be a fake attention seeking mofo? You should have known that pot inbetween your legs is just like a balloon (it can expand to accommodate rod..es of any size)

Sense will not kill u jare!!!!!

I've even heard of girls giving anal sex but have never been penetrated in the vaginaa. Yet they say they are virgins......I'm not always getting that part...like u said the word virgin has lost its meaning..

Suchy22:
Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?

if he loves you, he is not going to pester u for sex... relationship sometimes isn't all about sex

U Make Me Laugh'
U Call It Love??
I Bet U If He Hits U His Leaving ASAP!


Girl There's More To Relationship Than Just Having S#x Do Other Things That'll Make Y'all Grow In Love!
The Question Isn't if He Loves U, The question Is Do U Love Yourself??
#LoveGod
#FleeFromFornication

1StopRudeness:


Sense will not kill u jare!!!!!

I've even heard of girls giving anal sex but have never been penetrated in the vaginaa. Yet they say they are virgins......I'm not always getting that part...like u said the word virgin has lost its meaning..

NO MIND THEM.LET THEM KEEP BASKING IN THEIR MASSIVE DELUSION.

Suchy22:
Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?

So if a guy tells you how he did it, how will that help you? He has a p3nis and you have a vagina two very different entities, they don’t work the same way.
1) Suck it up
2) Get inebriated
3) Use a muscle relaxant like diazepam
4) accept it won’t happen and live your life
Do you guys even do 4play?

You're not a virgin. Attention seeker

Suchy22:
Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?

Don't ever say that again. Virginity is a virtue to be kept until marriage or for life(if you won't marry) for both males and females.

Plus I don't think he loves you, he just lusts.
Loving someone is loving that person without any sexual intention. If he loves you he will wait until marriage.
If I loved someone (hardly possible) sex is ruled out of the matter.
Love is not sex.
You don't necessarily have to marry someone you love.

MissRaine69:

So if he guy tells you how he did it, how will that help you? He has a p3nis and you have a vagina two very different entities, they don’t work the same way.
1) Suck it up
2) Get inebriated
3) Use a muscle relaxant like diazepam
4) accept it won’t happen and live your life
Do you guys even do 4play?

We do 4play but I always think about the end result of the action so I end up not enjoying it like that...
Thank you so much. I really appreciate it

MissRaine69:

So if he guy tells you how he did it, how will that help you? He has a p3nis and you have a vagina two very different entities, they don’t work the same way.
1) Suck it up
2) Get inebriated
3) Use a muscle relaxant like diazepam
4) accept it won’t happen and live your life
Do you guys even do 4play?

Bad advice

Suchy22:


We do 4play but I always think about the end result of the action so I end up not enjoying it like that...
Thank you so much. I really appreciate it

Pls at 21, its better u face ur studies serious seriously and forget Relationship.
After having the real taste of u, is gonna leave. Don't be Lured

Oma307:
can you keep it for your husband, having sex when you are not married doesn't worry it. there are many consequences to that, I know it might not be easy but you are capable.

please if she's really a virgin I swear she will not have time for the write up OK just keep your advice because that p**y wan repent inugo

Suchy22:
Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?

This world don baje finish.

What is annoying about it biko?

Okay
what if they later marry and she's not what she claimed to be....wetin u go do??:/just thinking

zexy2030:
pls don't loose it for your boo who takes pride in disvirgining girls... I'm proud of you..I can marry you without being tested...if only u can remain till u r ready...u might find it difficult to be trusted and getting married if u loose it.. tell ur boo to be responsible since he has seen that u r a virgin and advice him to wait...don't loose it, I say again don't loose..u will cry..when the right person comes and what will crown you a queen could be ur virginity..forget the myths guys tell u...I'm a guy. its purely selfish myths...be proud virgin..finish ur degree.. then prepare to be married..

Suchy22:



What if it continues when I get married? What if I still get scared on my wedding night?

I don't agree with you. Most husbands know what to do when they have virgin wives, so don't worry yourself. I assure you.

Delaw00:
Okay
what if they later marry and she's not what she claimed to be....wetin u go do??:/just thinking

what men want from there women these days is no more sex but trust..if u able to trust her then u will enjoy ur marriage... life is not about testing different kinds of dicks up and down...its about meeting a goal and accomplishing the goal..if ur goal is about reaching for more things below ur abdomen, your brain can never go beyond downward movement. your decisions will be downward, ur lifestyle, spendings, friends will be downwards..u might realise it too late sha..

Lol. Funny comments though.

Get High, Take a lot of weed and Take your mind off the pain. I have disflowered about 8girls with that simple trick.

Lol,this didn't answer my quest.

zexy2030:

what men want from there women these days is no more sex but trust..if u able to trust her then u will enjoy ur marriage... life is not about testing different kinds of dicks up and down...its about meeting a goal and accomplishing the goal..if ur goal is about reaching for more things below ur abdomen, your brain can never go beyond downward movement. your decisions will be downward, ur lifestyle, spendings, friends will be downwards..u might realise it too late sha..

OKOATA:
Get High, Take a lot of weed and Take your mind off the pain. I have disflowered about 8girls with that simple trick.

What an achievement.

OKOATA:
Get High, Take a lot of weed and Take your mind off the pain. I have disflowered about 8girls with that simple trick.

JasonScoolari:
Some people come online and say whatever they want to say just to feel good about themselves.


Thanks to Nairaland.

Boss hwfar??Where have you been??

This is a sign that things will get complicated when he finally gets his way
Think of diseases and pregnancy
If he loves you, he would wait for you

Suchy22:
Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?