NewStats: 3,259,317 , 8,169,794 topics. Date: Saturday, 24 May 2025 at 05:11 PM j5o18

Where do you work? That's a gold diggy question.

Am not a girl but I personally hate "have you eaten "

what are you doing now?

what do they do on social media? cut grass?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Where do you work? That's a gold diggy question.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Where do you work? That's a gold diggy question.

True. A guy went as far as getting information about where my colleague works after she told him. The guy went as far as finding out about salary, benefits, upfronts, allowances...everything. He packaged himself and they got married. Need i go further?!

How was your night?

ImaIma1:
How was your night?

you are right how was your day is much better I mean was she flying with broom in the night

ImaIma1:


True. A guy went as far as getting information about where my colleague works after she told him. The guy went as far as finding out about salary, benefits, upfronts, allowances...everything. He packaged himself and they got married. Need i go further?!

More please.

ImaIma1:
How was your night?

How was your night. Lol

*Who else are you chatting with?
*What are you doing now?
*What are you wearing now?
*Any sexual talk... When all these come from people I'm just getting to know, I become sceptical.

Wat are your plans for the weekend? Like u want me to come over to your house or what?

kaorama:

More please.

See amebo o.

ImaIma1:


True. A guy went as far as getting information about where my colleague works after she told him. The guy went as far as finding out about salary, benefits, upfronts, allowances...everything. He packaged himself and they got married. Need i go further?!

Nice one from him.

SeKTo:
you are right how was your day is much better I mean was she flying with broom in the night

Like how am I supposed to know how my night was...i was sleeping.

One guy in my unit in church (he is also a good friend) asked me how my night was. I asked him if he wanted details (as per i am married)

are u a virgin

ImaIma1:


See amebo o.

You don dodge abi

kaorama:


You don dodge abi

The marriage is already going through hard times with the babe funding it single handedly and the guy without money and shame terrorizing her

This question has been asked for 1 reason, guys are expected to keep the the conversation rolling all the time and it's always one directional

*where are you?
*you just have my time?

ImaIma1:


Like how am I supposed to know how my night was...i was sleeping.

One guy in my unit in church (he is also a good friend) asked me how my night was. I asked him if he wanted details (as per i am married)

ImaIma1:


Like how am I supposed to know how my night was...i was sleeping.

One guy in my unit in church (he is also a good friend) asked me how my night was. I asked him if he wanted details (as per i am married)

lol

ImaIma1:


The marriage is already going through hard times with the babe funding it single handedly and the guy without money and shame terrorizing her

I know that is how it always goes. Some men are just crude. But the truth is that not all men who ask 'where do you work', want to be good diggers, okey. It's terrible when innocent women get into this kind of mess.

What do you girls expect when it's always we guys that are supposed to be leading the conversation, we just have to ask these questions to keep the conversation going. It is more obvious when we are trying to know a new friend, once we are conversant with this person then the questions reduce. Most of these questions are asked innocently with no ulterior motive but just for the sake of conversations.

I beg to differ...


These questions are. means of igniting a conversation or just for the purpose of conversation. Asking if a lady has eaten doesn't really mean he wants to do abracadabra and food will appear, if she hadn't eaten.

In common civilized parlance, women are very comfortable with such questions because they see it as a norm and men can't help it. Only in this part of the world that women feel one must be an expert in conversation without asking these questions and when the man is seeming boring or adamant just in a bid to avoid being tagged a pest or stupid for asking such questions, this same women will come crying "Negligence!" on the man's part.
Although some men ask these questions haphazardly, it is still permissibly commendable to ask as a means of initiating a conversation.

But as for me, can't the last time I gave a lady an attention in the name of chatting her up. I simply mind my business. Highest is "good morning and good afternoon" unless there is an important information I need from you, apart from that, you can remain in my handle for years without even a "Hi" from me let alone a phone call.

Most of the questions are conversation Starter

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Where do you work? That's a gold diggy question.

I don't think a guy asking you where you work is such a bad question, except if he's so fixated on how much you make

Ralphjoe:
What do you girls expect when it's always we guys that are supposed to be leading the conversation, we just have to ask these questions to keep the conversation going. It is more obvious when we are trying to know a new friend, once we are conversant with this person then the questions reduce. Most of these questions are asked innocently with no ulterior motive but just for the sake of conversations.

Well said bro. I couldnt agree more. The truth is, the average nigerian girl cannot engage in a 'decent' conversation. More often than none, chatting with a Nigerian girl is somewhat like a Q&A section ( i mean last time i checked i wasnt no fvcking shrink ). I mean you guys gotta do better than the usual "FINE" response to the "How are u"? question..you know. That said, many a time, these questions you guys tag somewhat useless are most times asked in an attempt to get on with the convo

Have you eaten?

Where do you work?
What's your Grade Level?
Very annoying

kaorama:

I know that is how it always goes. Some men are just crude. But the truth is that not all men who ask 'where do you work', want to be good diggers, okey. It's terrible when innocent women get into this kind of mess.

Off course. There is a way you might even know that a guy is into you because you have a good job.

Bluezy13:
I beg to differ...


These questions are. means of igniting a conversation or just for the purpose of conversation. Asking if a lady has eaten doesn't really mean he wants to do abracadabra and food will appear, if she hadn't eaten.

In common civilized parlance, women are very comfortable with such questions because they see it as a norm and men can't help it. Only in this part of the world that women feel one must be an expert in conversation without asking these questions and when the man is seeming boring or adamant just in a bid to avoid being tagged a pest or stupid for asking such questions, this same women will come crying "Negligence!" on the man's part.
Although some men ask these questions haphazardly, it is still permissibly commendable to ask as a means of imitating a conversation.

But as for me, can't the last time I gave a lady an attention in the name of chatting her up. I simply mind my business. Highest is "good morning and good afternoon" unless there is an important information I need from you, apart from that, you can remain in my handle for years without even a "Hi" from me let alone a phone call.

We are alike. I mind my business online when it comes to ladies.

MissJoy29:
*Who else are you chatting with?
*What are you doing now?
*What are you wearing now?
*Any sexual talk... When all these come from people I'm just getting to know, I become sceptical.

what are you wearing? I like to see you in a bikini. have you ever wore that?