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A Nigerian man has exposed the plot of some educated Nigerian men to destroy the future of “beautiful”, “intelligent” and “career-oriented” women.

Darren Idongesit, a Nigerian writer, met some educated friends of his at a pub and when they started discussing, he was shocked by the words that came out of their mouths.

According to him, there are men whose aim is to “decommission” women who have huge prospects. They chase after the women, endure all insults and humiliation, act like the perfect man, all with the aim of getting the woman pregnant. When the woman is pregnant, they lead her on up until the time it is no longer safe to terminate the pregnancy, then they abandon her.

Warning women about this plot by some men, Darren wrote;

"Dear Nigerian ladies please be careful who you sleep with because what I heard ‘educated’ men talk about today is horrifying.

I am one of those few people that will rather be tortured to death before I reveal secrets or identities especially when decency demands so, but I’ll not hide this rubbish I heard my educated friends(university graduates) say today at a pub. I had to leave the table when the conversation had degenerated to a level I would never stoop to.

Dear ladies, there are some men out there to decommission you especially if you are beautiful or intelligent in school or career-oriented and independent.

There are dangerous men out there who follow women, suffer some humiliation, spend money but their ultimate goal is to get you pregnant then they let you keep it till a time when abortion is impossible. When they know you are finished or now committed to them, they simply deny everything and abandon you.

One is saying he did ‘shoot to kill’ on a church girl that was playing hard to get. The girl was so innocent that she didn’t know when she was pregnant or her safe days to have sex, she didn’t even know what a male contraceptive looked like or that men spread diseases. That church girl was decommissioned and now a hustling single mother.

Please dear ladies, avoid this hypocrisy – learn sex education even if you are abstaining till marriage. Learn not to trust men when it comes to your reproductive rights. Learn about contraceptive pills like Postinor 2 so when someone intentionally tries to ruin your life, you know the power is in your hand.

I can excuse the thousands of secondary school boys who unintentionally decommission their classmates because of ignorance but for a man to rubbish a grown up woman, that is just absurd. Talk to your friends who are nurses, pharmacists, doctors etc Always be prepared because there are hitmen out there who derive pleasure in ruining the lives of promising women."

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9737/man-exposes-plot-by-some-men-to-destroy-womens-future.html

As if there is any 'beautiful', 'intelligent' or career oriented girl in Nigeria.



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Pregnancy cannot stop any woman from achivin her dreams in life.

Go ask Genivie Nnaji.

these women may be anything BUT intelligent...because if they were indeed "intelligent" then they wouldnt be conned by some some stranger to have unprotected sex with them and/or get pregnant by these same stranger. duh!

are condoms/pull out technique/morning after pills or abortion against the law in the bush where these above "intelligent" women reside?!?!?

ARRANT NONSENSE!

All the women that have been decommissioning intelligent, career minded and independent young men nko?

Those women that have been telling men "I missed my period, so what are we going to do now?". Why are we acting like decommissioning started today?

Abeg, humans are wicked, these guys wicked. No need to play victim, it is advisable you be very selfish. If you are old enough to have sex, then you should know safe sex. You should protect yourself...

An intelligent , career minded and independent woman who doesn't know the above is an endtime one.

Abeg, nobody should quote me. I am suffering from heartbreak.

If she is intelligent then getting pregnant shouldnt stop her from getting "decommisioned" like say na abandoned project.

But still to be aware that there are men who still think like such is just sad, they have no job other than to destroy the said women, what kind of messed up childhood of past one would have ed through to develop such hatred.

MrBrownJay1:
these women may be anything BUT intelligent...because if they were indeed "intelligent" then they wouldnt be conned by some some stranger to have unprotected sex with them and/or get pregnant by these same stranger. duh!

are condoms/pull out technique/morning after pills or abortion against the law in the bush where these above "intelligent" women reside?!?!?

ARRANT NONSENSE!

The guy is sex starved. He knows there's no intelligent lady in Nigeria.

He's flattering em ladies into having free fvck with them.


Watch how ladies will fall for this trick.

Who gets pregnant in this 21st century? A really intelligent person will not fail to use protection, so using pregnancy to tie a lady down and prevent her future career is the dumbest thing I've ever read on nairaland.

They will only trap naive ladies....

93Miles:
As if there is any 'beautiful', 'intelligent' or career oriented girl in Nigeria.



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Pregnancy cannot stop any woman from achivin her dreams in life.

Go ask Genivie Nnaji.

@ emboldened, no wonder you talk like a mumu.
seems the person that have birth to you lack those qualities.

Jobless man

Na reverse psychology, if u knw u knw

When some ladies don't even know how to calculate their monthly cycle

Decommission again?? Na wao....decommission...It's another one

Women

QueenSekxy:
@ emboldened, no wonder you talk like a mumu. seems the person that have birth to you lack those qualities.

Don't start what you can't finish with me.

My post refers to "girls" and not women.
Our mothers weren't dummy like girls of this generation.

Colourich:
Who gets pregnant in this 21st century? A really intelligent person will not fail to use protection, so using pregnancy to tie a lady down and prevent her future career is the dumbest thing I've ever read on nairaland.

8 out of 10 Nigerian ladies have done abortion..

God help us..

93Miles:



Don't start what you can't finish with me.


My post refers to "girls" and not women.

Our mothers weren't dummy like girls of this generation.

I shoudnt start what?

I pray you get consumed by hating on women.
and if you are making that your baseless stats, please, do well to include your mother, sisters, cousins and nieces.
thank you Mr dummy.

QueenSekxy:

I shoudnt start what?

I pray you get consumed by hating on women.
and if you are making that your baseless stats, please, do well to include your mother, sisters, cousins and nieces.
thank you Mr dummy.

Ignored

Cool story brother. You are a paid shill for postinor 2 though.

devilsgrave:
this mor.on again... is he talking to you and why did you drag his mother into this... forming superwoman on nairaland fuckin.g douchebag

mynd44 lalasticlala rule 2.

devilsgrave:
can't stop laughing so you want rules now when you just insulted someone's mother slowpoke

ok.

lmao

an educated woman should know that having unprotected sex before marriage is risky, she should be ready to accept whatever that comes after it.


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I wonder why some women allow themselves get deceived by some men.

pocohantas:
All the women that have been decommissioning intelligent, career minded and independent young men nko?

Those women that have been telling men "I missed my period, so what are we going to do now?". Why are we acting like decommissioning started today?

Abeg, humans are wicked, these guys wicked. No need to play victim, it is advisable you be very selfish. If you are old enough to have sex, then you should know safe sex. You should protect yourself...

An intelligent , career minded and independent woman who doesn't know the above is an endtime one.

Abeg, nobody should quote me. I am suffering from heartbreak.

Do you drink beer?

Snitch.