NewStats: 3,261,917 , 8,175,548 topics. Date: Saturday, 31 May 2025 at 03:15 AM 1r22b

Fuckyoumod:
Oga... Your not coming out plain.

You never caught her cheating from your story.

Everything in your story is based on suspicions.

Go get your facts right.

How else do you want him to caught her? Is it by seeing the guy banging her? Simply no. You can caught a cheating partner through many ways. If you are waiting for you to catch her red handed, my brother, you will never see such till 30th century.

Greizman:

U guys keep calling "decent girls" as if they are easy to get in Nigeria nowadays. Where will he get a decent girl. Most of the girls out there are olosho... 90% of them.
I'm very sure this particular girl is one of them... Op I'm sorry for calling her olosho but that's what she is. I come across a lot of them on social media. Hook up things.... If u know u know

Lol,wea did u c 90% of them are olosho??I guess 98% of them.The probability of getting decent ladies in Nigeria is infinitesimal. Don't lemme go further coz my present Bae is a Nairalander....

anigbajumo:


Bro, if he forgive her nd continue with the relationship he just give himself early relief of ing through broken heart pain,she will still break his heart nd feel the pain again in the long-run.@op just dump her nd move on......

she can change oo, most times you see girls misbehave because dey are still naive and lack guidance, once their is someone to put them right and Carter their needs, those kinda girls rearly cheat, relationship is not all about Bleep, you should counsel her and give a guide lines because she can never know guys better than you..

Puzzypleazer:

are they still idiots like this in naija?

Apparently there are, they are the enablers. You seem them on Facebook saying 'Tanx 4 acceptance me'.

vchykp:

she can change oo, most times you see girls misbehave because dey are still naive and lack guidance, once their is someone to put them right and Carter their needs, those kinda girls rearly cheat, relationship is not all about Bleep, you should counsel her and give a guide lines because she can never know guys better than you..

This is equivalent to fetching water in a basket. But don't worry, experience is the best teacher.

vchykp:

she can change oo, most times you see girls misbehave because dey are still naive and lack guidance, once their is someone to put them right and Carter their needs, those kinda girls rearly cheat, relationship is not all about Bleep, you should counsel her and give a guide lines because she can never know guys better than you..

Lol, I tried all the best to keep my ex she still hide somethings for me,once a cheat is always a cheat no matter how hard u try counseling her, I read a lot about a cheating gf on Nairaland nd I also experienced it.They will never change, let him move on nd start a new life with another bitch the problem is just that the probability of finding a good,loyal nd decent Lady nowadays is very slim.

madridguy:
Hope you've browse her server very well?

If yes, dump her and get a good girl

If No, try and mark your own and move on.

From your narration, your GF is a public toilet. Kiss the bitter truth.

In most relationships, a guy/lady knows or see the signs when his/her partner isn't faithful. They also know the best steps to take. But out of infatuation or the hope that he/she will change will lead to marriage and of course divorce under a year.

Bro, speaking from experience you cannot force an adult to change since you have got your facts on just give her by temporary break up. You can date another or better stay alone for awhile while doing that keep your observation on!! If she finally realized her mistake and come back with genuity of repentance your take her back but if she did not.. Let ass go and moved on to permanent break up! The trauma is only for awhile not going to last long pls.

I smell lies alll over these post.. these post is for trending purpose, nothing else.

Infact, I don't comment on useless posts

anigbajumo:



Lol, I tried all the best to keep my ex she still hide somethings for me,once a cheat is always a cheat no matter how hard u try counseling her, I read a lot about a cheating gf on Nairaland nd I also experienced it.They will never change, let him move on nd start a new life with another bitch the problem is just that the probability of finding a good,loyal nd decent Lady nowadays is very slim.

The truth is that its not easy to just walk away, if she is unrepentant, he still has the chance to move on, her character will tell if she can change or not, most times if a lady don't see a future with someone, they are prone to cheat, its left for the OP to make her see the Bentley ahead of them.. their is more to her action, he should meet a councillor, their is much to say, am just a lazy typer.

Tell us u dnt flirt with other girls online,oga inspector

My brother,I can feel what you are ing through because I have experienced worser things than you, to Frank, good girls are very scarce,but God will surely get you a better one,now listing,don't let your emotions betrayal you because it's normal, you feel as if the world is coming to an end but it's the opposite,you ll feel without her that you don't have the reason to live any longer but it's a lie,if you don't take time you ll develop high blood pressure because of some idiotic and satanic entities in a human form, and the most funniest and most unfortunate part of it all is that this same animal you are dying in silence for doesn't even care if you are dying or not, so what the hell on this world will make you to loose your happiness to such a fool? Trust me by the time you begin to see her as an idiot she truly is you ll discover that that feelings you think will never die will gradually fading each ing day and before you know it you ll find happiness you are looking for in another angel out there, don't waste your emotions on a cheap arsholes as that girl, she is not yet ready for marriage, allow her to enjoy her life till just like many of them out there now looking for a husband by all means then it ll be too late, cheer up bro, be happy, if you can then call me on this number 08085508012 let's chat on WhatsApp as well, have a blessed day

mgtow:


This is equivalent to fetching water in a basket. But don't worry, experience is the best teacher.

something's are better left unsaid, she can change, probably she never saw a future with the guy, its left for the guy to show her the future ahead, if he notice another sign of unfaithfulness, he should move on..

thorpido:
If you have the proof and you have shown her that and she couldn't refute it,there's only one decision for you to make.............move on.

She'll never change.

BlackAfrican, best advise ever!

kingzjay:
Why would you even go through her s?

You want to die before your time

It is good, it is normal and it is for the best as long as you don't make it an habit. What is the meaning of relationship when you are not allowed to touch or check your partners phone, what is s/he hiding?

If she is a student or an under-graduate, guy free am. It is part of the process. Let her flirt around until she realizes what she want.

lolipopandy:
Tell us u dnt flirt with other girls online,oga inspector

my dear.. please don't let such mentality pull you back in life, you don't compare yourself with a man.. so because ur husband flirt, you can leave ur kids and go flirting?.. pls woman is a woman!

BlackAfrican:


I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?

BlackAfrican:


I'm drained emotionally... Of course I can't continue with such a person...

And to think that she's a girl I plan proposing to end of this year and get married before mid next year just breaks my heart...

broken heart is better than broken marriage....

thorpido:
She'll never change.

THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH.
DON'T EVER CHECK THEIR ONLINE LIFE IF YOU DON'T WANNA RUN MAD.

Fuckyoumod:
Oga... Your not coming out plain.

You never caught her cheating from your story.

Everything in your story is based on suspicions.

Go get your facts right.

that's right.. Thumb up!

The fastest way for a man to die is going through his girlfriends chats. menh i was once there,she didn't change after the 5th time,as a guy i myself ontil i lost count ooo even non of my friends knew i entered her once not to talk of more than 30times. Even when they say am at fault for not banging her drum i go just smile(i kept it a top secret) that babe still tag me for her post yesterday. OP JAPAAAAAAA

That she's in a relationship doesn't mean she can't innocently flirt with others... If she hasn't cheated on you, by sleeping with either of them, she isn't guilty. We all in some ways have done same..the one caught Is the criminal... Some times we just need someone to chat with or be flirtatious towards just keep the days going when bored.

Express your displeasures, and watch if she'd stop. The only wrong she did as not to tell you about it... But talk to her, and let her state her reasons for that... You just don't know...you just dont!

Fuckyoumod:
Oga... Your not coming out plain.

You never caught her cheating from your story.

Everything in your story is based on suspicions.

Go get your facts right. What fact again are you referring to? Did you read write up at all

Haykay2014:
Hi
I need your help to get out of this emotional trauma I found myself.......I’m in love with a lady and later found out that she was sleeping with two other guys,I vex and told her it’s over and she begged me non stop for 3days with tears,and because of the love I have for her,I forgave her but didn’t trust,and it’s hard to drop her cos I love her wholeheartedly,and now after another one month,I saw some WhatsApp chat on her phone I found out she still does the same thing and this time with a different guy I saw update of some guys asking her to come over as dey have missed having sex with her.........now I want to drop her and let her go but my heart is not letting it go,I can’t even eat as the thought of her fills up my heart,and I don’t wanna get back into the relationship....I can’t eat and I’m loosing my strength gradually,please advise me

You're going to contract HIV, Herpes, Hepatitis B or some other sexually transmitted bug from your promiscuous girlfriend. If this isnt enough for you to let her go, it means your life has no value. Advise yourself with this.

Fuckyoumod:
Oga... Your not coming out plain.

You never caught her cheating from your story.

Everything in your story is based on suspicions.

Go get your facts right.

What fact again are you referring to? Did you read write up at all

Fuckyoumod:
Oga... Your not coming out plain.

You never caught her cheating from your story.

Everything in your story is based on suspicions.

Go get your facts right.

What fact again are you referring to? Did you read the write up at all

BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was naked and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them... I have the same experience with my wife. I don't know if our son is mine. Ladies of nowadays are useless

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?

BlackAfrican:
Hello NLs,
I'm too emotionally drained to make sound judgement so I need your contribution on this issue.

I found out recently that my gf has been living a secret life online. My findings suggest that she may be cheating on me... Why? She's been communicating with an ex that practically broke her heart in the past...

She's also frequently communicating with another guy on Facebook who has repeatedly called her my love, honey, sweetheart and other romantic pet names and she has reciprocated most times.... At a point, the guy said he was naked and waiting for her at home... And she said she's coming... I guess they took the conversation offline...

She's also been chatting with several other guys... the ones I saw on FB indicate they're either asking her out or she's outrightly flirting with them...

On WhatsApp, only God knows the content and direction of her chat with other guys...

The painful part is I found out she's been having this online/offline double life by accident... That's a story for another day...

When I confronted her with my findings, she's been claiming she has nothing with any of the guys and that I should forgive her for hiding her online life from me...

I feel betrayed... I doubt if she'll ever change... I just want to move on...

What should I do?

I have the same experience with my wife. I don't know if our son is mine. Ladies of nowadays are useless

Mr man, she is your EX...