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A man has revealed how he was forced into an arranged marriage because he's 24 years old and also has a job so his parents think he should get married.

According to him, his family believes that when a male child has a job and he's earning money no matter how little, then he's ready for marriage. He further that it was an arranged marriage and he wasn't given the opportunity to get to know the lady that was arranged for him. After marrying the lady, he tried to give himself time to love the lady but he never had a feeling for her. He summon courage and spoke to the woman he got married to about how he felt and she said she felt the same way.

According to what his story, the lady told him she also had someone she loved and wasn't happy being married to him. They spoke about it and finally decided to go their separate ways.

Read his full story below as shared by THOA;
"I got married when I was 24 years. My family believes that when a male child has a job and he's earning money no matter how little, then he's ready for marriage. It was an arranged marriage, I wasn't given the opportunity to get to know her. My parents said 'She's from a good family and that's the most important thing'. We got married and I tried to love her but found it very difficult. She wasn't my type of woman. I spoke to my parents about it but they wouldn't hear of it, they said 'Give it more time Yusuf' and I did, yet the love didn't come.

I got the courage and spoke to the woman I got married to about how I felt and she said she felt the same way. She said she had someone she loved and wasn't happy being married to me. We spoke about it and we finally decided to go our separate ways. There wasn't much our families could do to keep us together, so they let us separate. She's now married to the love of her life and she has 2 kids. I saw her last week and she looked very happy.
I am yet to find someone though, but I know I will soon."

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/man-forced-arranged-marriage-24-shares-ends-marriage.html


Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

Lol!! After several intercourse abi...

His parents actually meant well for him, but they went about it the wrong way

Marrying early is a very wise decision. You will be able to overcome most marriage challenges when you are still young and have strength. I ire when I see a 45 year old man with a 20 or 21 year old daughter.

But marrying someone you don't love is dangerous. I guess that's where his parents failed

I wish him well sha

Arranged marriage is still ongoing for the elites kids, business marriage. Only your parents knew what they wanted from the girl's family.

...and I believe it was achieved.

Forced marriage. It is capable of destroying one's joy forever.

Is that the man

it doesnt always work

new millennium, we make our choice and not the other way round.
Gud luck boy in your search.

He did the right thing, nothing beats happiness and peace of mind... Both of them weren't happy and that's a recipe for a disastrous union. #Wehdon bro

Uncle, so what do you want us to do now?

Poor guy....



Family can be a pain in the.....

royalamour:
Forced marriage. It is capable of destroying one's joy forever.

I concur.. If you have this type you'd just be frustrated and in bondage.

Nice script next please

mumu story
make dem no find better thing to talk


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I'm sure his family probably arranged the marriage cos he's the only son and not necessarily cos he was 24 years of age and had a job

Ok

See him looking like a malam.

My dad is of the same school of thought!!!
For something that's FOREVER, there is certainly no room for compromise and error

That is divorce as once married, you are married. You had an intetcourse with her and thereafter you divorced her and come here to tell us that you came out from forced marriage. Thank God you did not call it forced engagement.

Any marriage to another lady Bu you or the lady to another man is nothing but organised adultery. God frowns at putting away.

The man is a weakling... His balls should be chopped off at once..




A lot of people have made terrible decisions just to please their families and ended up living in regret. As a man, always take your stand and don't be pushed around like a cisse.



Listen to your family always, and you'll have no life of your own... Obey and follow all traditional rights from the people in your village and you're doomed forever...

na wa o

who gifs a fuc

I love your courage man.
maximum respect to Yhu Man.

Congratulations

move bitch get out d way bitch

Dont knw if to thank God for him or...... but its good to be free and happy, you can only say well done son

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You mean all those years you were with her you no fit give her bele? You were not having sex with her, abi?

Now, she has left you and already has 2 kids with the love of her life, and you are still roaming aimlessly, yet to settle down with a wife.

Check yourself well, you have a big problem.