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Must A Girl Marry???? (19315 Views)

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amakadihot87(f): 12:37pm On Oct 27, 2017
A girl like me who hates to throw away her freedom shouldnt be regarded as wayward......some of us were never meant to marry.....

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Consray(f): 12:43pm On Oct 27, 2017
I don't really think it a most

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MrBrownJay1(m): 12:49pm On Oct 27, 2017
its not us you have to convince, its your parents/family....thats the only one who care, the opinion of total strangers (about how you should live your life) doesnt matter!

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Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Nobody: 1:18pm On Oct 27, 2017
it's not a must naw but black human mentality. even as a guy self I don't want to get married but family wahala Shaaa.

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amakadihot87(f): 1:24pm On Oct 27, 2017
MrBrownJay1:
its not us you have to convince, its your parents/family....thats the only one who care, the opinion of total strangers (about how you should live your life) doesnt matter!
.....u r right ,but it does no harm to hear from strangers

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amakadihot87(f): 1:31pm On Oct 27, 2017
Consray:
I don't really think it a most
.......but yet our society doesnt accept single girls..

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amakadihot87(f): 1:33pm On Oct 27, 2017
adetoroamos:
it's not a must naw but black human mentality. even as a guy self I don't want to get married but family wahala Shaaa.
..........the family always think that once u are unmarried u are doomed

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Lomprico2: 1:44pm On Oct 27, 2017
Hahahahha

How old are you?

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jashar(f): 1:53pm On Oct 27, 2017
amakadihot87:
A girl like me who hates to throw away her freedom shouldnt be regarded as wayward......some of us were never meant to marry.....

who is forcing you to marry?

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Consray(f): 2:00pm On Oct 27, 2017
amakadihot87:
.......but yet our society doesnt accept single girls..
Honestly i don't really know the reason.....despite the rate of divorce issue that we see and hear daily about, but they still insist on not appreciating the decision of single girls/mom. In my own case i was in a conversation with my mum were i talked about having the fear of getting married (Gamophobia) that i just wished God bless me financially,so i can have my kids (single mother) and give them the best life that they deserved without being married, but she object by saying that her only daughter will not live such a life.

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tensazangetsu20(m): 3:25pm On Oct 27, 2017
Marriage is a scam. Others see the scam and decide to enter it head on but the wise ones runaway. Op you don't have to get married, a domestic parternship is better.

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amakadihot87(f): 4:46pm On Oct 27, 2017
Lomprico2:
Hahahahha

How old are you?
...........very old

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ElsonMorali: 5:26pm On Oct 27, 2017
amakadihot87:
...........very old

30years old...just a Guess.

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Lomprico2: 7:14pm On Oct 27, 2017
amakadihot87:
...........very old

No wonder!

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veekid(m): 8:48pm On Oct 27, 2017
Not necessary buh a fúckmate is mandatory or some cucumbers

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Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Nobody: 8:48pm On Oct 27, 2017
One of life decisions, solely yours to make!
Nigeriadondie: 8:48pm On Oct 27, 2017
:-XYes ooo so that the kpekus can be chewed in a legalized manner
Boyooosa(m): 8:48pm On Oct 27, 2017
Sure
tosyne2much(m): 8:48pm On Oct 27, 2017
Two things are involved when a lady doesn't get married

Most of these ladies who want to remain unmarried either continue sleeping around for sexual gratification or they continue living their lives like mama alaye
(sugar mamas)

Yeye ladies who don't want to marry but become baby mamas just because of the wreckless and wretched lifestyle they want to be living undecided

Stupidity is when you bring a child(ren) into this world without a man being responsible for it

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saraki2019(m): 8:48pm On Oct 27, 2017
hmns nh
Ephhay(f): 8:49pm On Oct 27, 2017
Nope
Pavore9: 8:49pm On Oct 27, 2017
Everyone has a right to choose to be married or not.

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Khonvicted(m): 8:49pm On Oct 27, 2017
No ...just bleep, bleep and bleep

Your life will be great

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Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Oct 27, 2017
Truth is d greatest achievement of a lady is getting married. U can take it to d bank cool

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tintingz(m): 8:49pm On Oct 27, 2017
No, it's not a must.

# I'm pro-choice, everyone has the choice to make.

# A woman not getting married doesn't make her a whóre or whatever many archaic people call them, they simply have reasons they prefer not to get married, many of them are in open relationship.

# Because a woman doesn't want to marry doesn't make her financially unstable or has no bright future, Oprah Winfrey is not married and she has archieved alot.

# A woman who decide not to marry doesn't mean she will regret it, many people regrets getting married.

Unfortunately, here in Africa so many deluded archaic people descriminate unmarried women, they think women are nothing without getting married, this is the most fallacious and a deluded mentality.

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Re: Must A Girl Marry???? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Oct 27, 2017
Rather not marry than breed dysfunctional homes and delinquents.

Leave it for those who are ready to face the challenges

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Queenext: 8:50pm On Oct 27, 2017
No,but she can f@ck

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blackbeau1(f): 8:50pm On Oct 27, 2017
Nope. A lady musnt marry if she doesn't want to. Be true to who you are. But you gotta be sure that's what you want .

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Foodforthought: 8:50pm On Oct 27, 2017
We know ur type

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wunmi590(m): 8:50pm On Oct 27, 2017
Everybody are entitled to thier future decision.

Marriage is not for everybody, and nobody should be forced to do it.
Foodforthought: 8:50pm On Oct 27, 2017
Why do u seek justification from others, do what u like cos its ur life. But to not make babies...u don't need them as well. Just enjoy ur freedom
I smell feminism though...

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